I agree with all comments. Other Royals have managed the balance of normal and private life. On the other hand, I can see a vulnerability in Harry, if I close my ideas to his arrogance and sense of vain delight in himself as girl-mad stud and super-cool, action guy.
I feel he comes across as someone who never got Royal Life and was generally perplexed by having to do things. Not like being disingenuous. Before he met Meghan, I think a lot of his presentation and actions got put down to him being a lad and not wanting to conform, but it always seemed that he just wasn't aware of the bigger picture and the patterns of Royal Life that are there for a reason. He looked like he was being steered around ceremonial occasions, usually by William. He had all these aides to cover up for scrapes and to accompany him on all of his doings, but he still got into trouble. Why?
When Meghan joined him on Royal engagements after his marriage, I presumed that William didn't feel that he, or even the other staff, could subtly give him a word as to what to do - ' Go over there..', 'The person we're meeting is down there...' sort of thing, as you can't steer two people. At times, I noticed him looking lost and cross, as if to say, 'Why isn't someone at my shoulder to be there with me?' ' Why isn't someone coming to chatter nonchalantly with me and do this with me?'
I feel he is like one of those adults one knows who can't take in instructions and detail: couldn't as a child and can't really grasp the bigger picture as an adult.
I think the openness about fighting the Taliban is so ill-judged and so insensitive, to comrades and to the individuals, no doubt, some, pressured by expectation to joining The Taliban, that he must have some kind of additional need ( whether life-long or of the moment) which needs help.