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The royal family

Princess Kate? Princess Anne? Princess Diana?

161 replies

BradfordGirl · 08/01/2023 01:27

Why is it viewed by so many as disrespectful to refer to Kate as Princess Kate, and yet talking about Princess Anne or Princess Diana is seen as normal and acceptable?

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pelargoniums · 08/01/2023 02:36

PicturesOfDogs · 08/01/2023 02:09

I don’t understand how the ‘rankings’ work.
So Duke is higher than Prince, but then Prince is higher than Duke again.

Seems like being born a Prince is outranked by being created a duke, which is again outranked by being created a Prince?
But surely a birth prince outranks a random being named a duke? There’s loads of Dukes, surely they don’t outrank Harry?

It’s almost like the whole system is just made-up bollocks, really.

Yesthatismychildsigh · 08/01/2023 03:58

Not disrespectful. Just incorrect, as is princess Diana. Makes the user sound a bit thick, if you’re a fan you should know their (ridiculous) titles. One of the royalty fro there that sit outside hospitals etc.

Yesthatismychildsigh · 08/01/2023 04:00

wackamole · 08/01/2023 01:40

Someone who is born a princess (Anne, Margaret) is always a princess, unless she gains a higher title (Princess Elizabeth becomes Queen Elizabeth).

Someone who is not a princess but becomes a princess by marriage technically takes on her husband's title - so, for example: Sarah, Duchess of York was also Princess Andrew, never Princess Sarah.

The title Prince of Wales is a specialty - Diana was never officially Princess Diana, but she was Diana, Princess of Wales since her marriage, as Charles was already Prince of Wales when they married. Kate is now Catherine, Princess of Wales, but it's a very new title for her - until recently she was the Duchess of Cambridge, or Princess William.

She was THE princess of Wales on Marriage. Diana, princess of Wales came upon divorce. I did a module on this at school and it was all such bollocks that it stuck.

HaroldsHoodie · 08/01/2023 11:14

You’ve misunderstood, I think.

Some people used to get het up about papers and posters calling her Kate Middleton when she hasn’t been Middleton for years.

Princess Kate/Catherine is incorrect. That’s not her title.

Diana also wasn’t Princess Diana but the papers ran with it anyway.

She was The Princess of Wales whilst she was married to Charles. After they divorced she was Diana, Princess of Wales.

Princess Anne is correct.

PlaitBilledDuckyPuss · 08/01/2023 11:17

Create10 · 08/01/2023 02:14

Prince Philip was born a prince. He was made Duke of Edinburgh upon marrying the Queen.

Philip was born a Greek prince. He renounced this when he married Elizabeth and she created him a prince of the UK.

AlliwantforChristmasisgu · 08/01/2023 11:19

And for those who think Princess William sounds silly (I do) we all manage it just fine when talking about Princess Michael of Kent.

TangledWebOfDeception · 08/01/2023 11:19

Actually he was born Prince of Greece and Denmark.

TangledWebOfDeception · 08/01/2023 11:20

(Not that it matters but I’m Danish so I don’t like to see it missed out! Grin Wink)

Penguinsaregreat · 08/01/2023 11:21

It annoys me when people called her Kate. Her name is Catherine. I think it was sone nasty press person who gave her the nickname Waity Katie.

PlaitBilledDuckyPuss · 08/01/2023 11:21

TangledWebOfDeception · 08/01/2023 11:20

(Not that it matters but I’m Danish so I don’t like to see it missed out! Grin Wink)

Apologies Smile

AnnunciataZ · 08/01/2023 11:24

Penguinsaregreat · 08/01/2023 11:21

It annoys me when people called her Kate. Her name is Catherine. I think it was sone nasty press person who gave her the nickname Waity Katie.

Were you annoyed with William when he called her Kate in their engagement interview?

The reason she's still referred to as Kate Middleton by the media is for SEO. They want people to read their articles and they know they are googling "Kate Middleton" so they write accordingly.

TangledWebOfDeception · 08/01/2023 11:26

Yes, it’s for google hits. I wonder if they’ve seen a marked switch over to Princess of Wales yet.

PolkadotsAndMoonbeams · 08/01/2023 11:27

If you're a royal duke you're also a Prince, but the Duke title is higher. There are plenty of other dukes who aren't Princes though (the Duke of Norfolk who organised the Queen's funeral, for example).

The Duke of Kent uses that title (Prince Edward, Duke of Kent) because it's the highest one he has, and his younger brother is "just" Prince Michael of Kent. Prince Michael's wife is known as Princess Michael of Kent, because she's a Princess because she's married to him.

Margaret/Anne/Eugenie/Beatrice/Charlotte (technically Louise although she doesn't use it) are all princesses of the blood, so Princess just goes with their name.

Roseberry1 · 08/01/2023 11:31

Not the point of the thread, but I always think it's bizarre when people write 'Kate' when her name is Catherine with 'C' not a 'K'.

TangledWebOfDeception · 08/01/2023 11:32

Nicknames often work like that. Kate with a K is an accepted diminutive of Catherine.

AnnunciataZ · 08/01/2023 11:34

Kate has been a nickname for Catherine for years! I didn't see it spelled Cate until Cate Blanchett came on the scene.

MoirasSaggyBundles · 08/01/2023 11:34

@Create10 is correct. I remember the hoo ha when Diana and Charles divorced. She lost her HRH and went from being The Princess of Wales to Diana, Princess of Wales.

Also, Kings rank higher than Queens. So Prince Philip (born a Prince, always had the title) could not be king as he would outrank his wife. The same happened with Queen Victoria and Prince Albert, who also was not allowed to be a king. However, the female consorts, e.g., Elizabeth Bowes Lyon, were allowed the Queen title upon their husband becoming King.

TangledWebOfDeception · 08/01/2023 11:35

Yes, Cate would really be more incorrect.

Funny how written language works isn’t it.

Sweetpeasaremadeforbees · 08/01/2023 11:36

Do people describe it as disrespectful on here? I think some people may say it's not actually correct but disrespectful, really?

MoirasSaggyBundles · 08/01/2023 11:37

Also, Diana never completely threw off the Lady Diana title off either in popular discussion, particularly abroad.

TangledWebOfDeception · 08/01/2023 11:39

Oh that used to really annoy me! Angry

TangledWebOfDeception · 08/01/2023 11:40

(But that’s because I like things to be correct/accurate)

AnnunciataZ · 08/01/2023 11:40

She was 'Lady Di' until the day she died! Still, it's not like we didn't know who people were referring to when they called her that.

Roseberry1 · 08/01/2023 11:43

TangledWebOfDeception · 08/01/2023 11:35

Yes, Cate would really be more incorrect.

Funny how written language works isn’t it.

Cate is an acceptable spelling.

MoirasSaggyBundles · 08/01/2023 11:44

I think Cs and Ks were used interchangeably in historic language. Before the invention of the printing press and the wider populace being literate, people just heard the hard K sound and did not associate it with a particular letter of the alphabet. Hence Katherine/Catherine diminutives include Kate, Kitty, Kat, and the Christopher diminutive includes Kit. French, Latin etc were used far more than the English language in early writing too, and other countries use C and K differently and to different extents. I've seen the various wives of Henry referred to as both Catherine and Katherine in different historical writing.