Secondly, H didn't accuse W and K of making him take the costume. He implied they decided together
They didn't decide together. He asked their opinion and they gave it, and he was foolish enough to actually wear it. That's on him, no one else. But him bringing up William and Kate in relation to that costume shows that he's trying to indirectly blame them for making him wear it.
Next, calling the french frogs is along the same lines as Australians calling us poms. Not a nice thing to do but not actually racist. Next, calling his friend a paki is technically racist, but his friend did seem to take it as fun
Sure, calling a French person a frog may not be considered racist as per the definition of the word, but it is considered an ethnic slur, which with Harry’s controversy of wearing a nazi costume is definitely not a good look. Also just coz harry’s friend may have taken it as ‘fun’ doesn't minimise harry’s racism. Of course his friend would take it as all good ‘fun’, Harry was the one with the power in that relationship by virtue of being a well protected prince. I guess harry calling another person a ‘raghead’ was okay too because the person he called a ‘raghead’ also took it in good ‘fun’.
Finally, Meghan doesn't regard herself as mostly white - in Africa she said it was good for them to see a prominent figure who 'looks like them'.
Omg you don't even see just how self serving and arrogant she came across when she said that. It doesn't matter what Meghan regards herself as, most of her friends are white (some of who are trump supporters and have been involved in racist controversies themselves), and she's only ever dated and married white men. She and her husband chose to name their daughter after two white women who weren't involved in their daughter’s life, instead of her own black mother. Plus she never invited anyone in her mother’s side of the family at the wedding despite them never having said a word against either harry or Meghan.
Also, there is such a thing as colorism, where people of colour who have lighter skin are sought after and worshipped more than those with darker skin. Meghan saying that to people who actually don't look like her, because they have darker skin and more ethnic features, just shows how lacking of self awareness she is and how highly she thinks of herself as a ‘saviour’. This is like her Nelson Mandela comment all over again.
In any case H has a close relationship with Doria, who is black. He's not really your run of the mill stereotypical racist.
Lol omg, yeah sure harry isn't your typical racist because he has ‘black’ friends.
Having said that, I can't understand wny he's so ready to call his family racist, so don't have much sympathy for him. He of all people should understand how easy it is to slip up and be condemned.
He called his family racist and then walked back on that claim. He called them racists because he and Meghan were angry that they didn't get their half in half out that they wanted. There was no slip up. He hasn't even named the racist. This was a deliberate smear on his entire family as revenge for not giving him and Meghan what they wanted.