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Removing E:R from Harry’s Uniform

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Zoom101 · 18/09/2022 12:07

I am certainly not one of H&M’s fans but I think that for someone to actually remove the ER initials from his military uniform for the vigil was beyond petty.

The decision was made to allow him to wear a military uniform, fine, Andrew was also given permission but to take the time and trouble to remove the Queen’s initials from the epaulettes was, I think, really childish. I know he has chosen to not be a working Royal but the initals were left on Andrew’s epaulettes so why were Harry’s removed?

Apart from anything else, this will just add grist to the mill of H&M’s litany of complaints but for once, I think they’d be justified in being upset by this.

Expect I’ll be flamed for this and there are many more important things going on in the world but I do think this was a snotty thing to do to Harry.

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Serenster · 18/09/2022 13:11

See my later post Zoom101 - it was reported earlier this year that Andrew remained an Honorary ADC to his Mother.

(I also have read that there was a technical rule change a couple of years ago about the ADC insignia, meaning that Andrew had held the role as at a certain date he was allowed to wear them still as a retired officer. Harry’s was (a) past that cut-off date and (b) he resigned rather than retired so it didn’t apply to him.)

SpinCityBlues if the story really came from Harry I don’t think it reflects well on him, in that he was:

  • Allowed to wear an army unform that he is not entitled to wear as per army rules; and
  • Allowed to keep a beard that he is not permitted to wear as per army rules.

And, despite all that he was so pissed off about not his uniform no longer having the insignia of a role he no longer held that he considered just wearing a morning suit rather than the uniform. That’s not really a good look, you know.

GobbolinoTheWitchesCat · 18/09/2022 13:11

It will be something to do with the fact that Harry resigned his position as personal aide but when Andrew was made a non working royal things were done differently.

You know, even in non enrolled families there is a recognised status difference between children and grandchildren...Its right that Andrew should be recognised as a son of his mother and therefore of greater familial relationship.

I really wish Harry would stop constantly whingeing. He has an immense personal fortune, the ability to earn every year an additional fortune out of reach of 99% of the world's population. He can walk into a highly paid, part time job on the basis on his name alone. He has never really had to work for anything in his entire life. He lives - and has always lived - a life of unimaginable luxury and by virtue of nothing but an accident of birth has an enormous global public profile that opens a huge number of doors for him.

He is so hugely out of touch, it's unreal.

GobbolinoTheWitchesCat · 18/09/2022 13:11

*ennobled

Just1thing · 18/09/2022 13:12

Readinginthesun · 18/09/2022 12:17

If that’s the case it does seem a bit petty but who on earth noticed and went to the bother of informing the media ?

Harry’s camp, of course…

Just1thing · 18/09/2022 13:14

ImAvingOops · 18/09/2022 13:08

It doesn't look good to do this even if it is the correct protocol. Ot just adds weight to their 'hard done by' feeling!
And actually feelings are more important than protocol sometimes. This comes across as needlessly mean, even if it wasn't the intention. I'd imagine it's hard being H&M this week, even though a lot of their ills are self inflicted.
The RF need to call a halt to all the damaging publicity the H&M thing is causing - they have a choice, alienate him further with petty shot like this, or try to get him back in the fold. I suspect they'll do the former though!

Feelings are more important than protocol?

OK so all the ex-servicemen and women who were queuing to pay their respects and wanted to wear their uniforms but weren’t allowed to, should also have been able to wear them? Even though it’s against protocol?

Xenia · 18/09/2022 13:15

The rules are very important and are part of the stability of our nation in the 70 years of the reign of the late Queen and before that.. it was nothing petty abohut this and I am sure Harry had solicitors advising him on all the implications when he entered into the agreement to stop down. Nothing should be a surprise to him. Unlike his brother and father he did not go to university and I don't think he did too well in school so he might through no fault of his own simply find it all a bit hard to understand.

Maireas · 18/09/2022 13:17

Thanks for the clarity on this, @Serenster.

debbrianna · 18/09/2022 13:17

GobbolinoTheWitchesCat · 18/09/2022 12:57

Harry really needs to grow up. Fully support their move to the states and decision to step down but he clearly is spoiled and overly entitled, with very little understanding of how things actually work and a determination to take everything as a personal Insult. We saw this most clearly during that interview when an adult of great, independent wealth moaned that he was poor because his father had cut him off and he now had to start earning his own money.

I saw this post so read the press about the insignia and it's one of those protocol rules that is nothing personal to him...If he really is that devastated (which honestly sounds like pretty drivel) then someone needs to explain to him what it's about.

Honestly, I've no doubt people in the royal family are racist and applaud him for stepping down but the constant reports in the press of how terribly hard done by he is do him no favours and are quite frankly tiring to read and wildly out of touch.

I am guessing Harry said something to the dailymail. Is that right? Eye roll

MrsMaxDeWinter · 18/09/2022 13:20

Allowed to keep a beard that he is not permitted to wear as per army rules

So Harry was supposed to shave because he wore a uniform, under special dispensation mind you, for 30 minutes, 15 of those in public? So even though he is not actually in the army, he should have followed army rules for those few minutes?

You lot are batshit crazy!

TrashyPanda · 18/09/2022 13:21

This makes Harrylook spoilt, selfish and desperately immature.

ChicCroissant · 18/09/2022 13:21

Andrew still holds the role that entitles him to wear the initials, Harry gave up the role so he's not entitled to wear the initials.

Harry's not the victim he thinks he is. If he was that 'heartbroken' he could have worn the morning suit he'd planned to but of course he didn't. He was given permission to wear a uniform and it's still not enough for him.

As to who leaked it - it does look like Harry's camp, although why they thought it would be considered by the public sympathetically is beyond me. He is a man who is never happy and no-one can do enough for him.

antelopevalley · 18/09/2022 13:23

It does seem petty.

Maireas · 18/09/2022 13:23

antelopevalley · 18/09/2022 13:23

It does seem petty.

It's been explained upthread.

Readinginthesun · 18/09/2022 13:25

Thanks for the explanation @Serenster

debbrianna · 18/09/2022 13:26

Maireas · 18/09/2022 13:23

It's been explained upthread.

Petty from whom? Has Harry said something about it?

ShirleyPhallus · 18/09/2022 13:26

Bookworm777 · 18/09/2022 13:06

I thought it was a bit petty at face value but having read PP about to be ADC rule I can see exactly why he wasn’t wearing them and it was the right call and his camp telling the papers he’s “heartbroken” and “ devastated” is ridiculous. They must know the ADC rule and are just stoking the hostility again to curry favour for him and MM. I wish they’d stop bleating.

90% of the stories about PH and what his emotional reaction to anything is are utter bollocks

Unless it came directly from his mouth I’d completely ignore anything like this which is just the media trying to whip up some column inches

See also the headline that said PH was “furious” that his children wouldn’t be given HRH status - utter made up crap

DorritLittle · 18/09/2022 13:26

You'd have thought that petty grievances might be irrelevant for M&H this week. Apparently not. So disappointing. I used to like Harry a lot. Mind you, I thought he didn't talk to the press so maybe it is someone shit stirring.

Maireas · 18/09/2022 13:27

debbrianna · 18/09/2022 13:26

Petty from whom? Has Harry said something about it?

Have a look at Serenster's explanation upthread.
It's the OP claiming it's petty.

TheFairyCaravan · 18/09/2022 13:27

Serenster · 18/09/2022 13:00

Also, on the Andrew v Harry differences: Andrew retired from the forces whereas Harry resigned. Under Army rules this does make a difference, it means Andrew is actually allowed to wear a uniform in certain circumstances whereas Harry is not. So Harry wearing a uniform at all was a genuine bending of the rules for him.

And Andrew remained an Honorary ADC to his mother at her choice - this is was reported on earlier this year, around the time of her Jubilee.

(I still think neither of them should have worn uniforms personally, but obviously no one thought to consult me. 😄 Once that decision had been made though, army rules are army rules. I note Harry should have shaved his beard off though, to comply with army uniform rules, but obviously did not. I assume his father also gave him a special dispensation for that, as he had a special dispensation from the Queen for his wedding. So he has had plenty of special treatment here).

That’s not true at all.

If you retire from or leave the armed forces you’re no longer allowed to wear your uniform unless you’ve been given an honorary appointment or had been authorised to wear it.

I doubt Prince Harry has said anything at all about this. His mind will be on bigger things. It will be the shit stirrers causing trouble again. It’s disgusting that they can’t leave him alone when his granny has just died.

MrsMaxDeWinter · 18/09/2022 13:28

A question to you all:

Harry and Meghan sued the Daily Mail and Mail on Sunday won. They also announced that they would not include the Daily Mail, Sun, Express etc in their press briefings. Any interview with Harry reveals how much he loathes the tabloid press.

So why are people so ready to believe the he actually talked to a newspaper he hates?

Do people really not see that they are being manipulated as part of the Daily Mail's vendetta?

I ask this with the very greatest of resect: are people just too biased, or too thick, that they would believe anything the Daily Mail says about Harry or Meghan?

antelopevalley · 18/09/2022 13:28

Harrys reaction is made up by the press. They have no idea what he is thinking.

Dragmedown · 18/09/2022 13:28

The modifications could have been made many months ago by whichever part of the royal household looks after and maintains the uniforms….when he effectively gave up the role.

No doubt Omid Scobie will be along soon to clarify….

antelopevalley · 18/09/2022 13:29

MrsMaxDeWinter · 18/09/2022 13:28

A question to you all:

Harry and Meghan sued the Daily Mail and Mail on Sunday won. They also announced that they would not include the Daily Mail, Sun, Express etc in their press briefings. Any interview with Harry reveals how much he loathes the tabloid press.

So why are people so ready to believe the he actually talked to a newspaper he hates?

Do people really not see that they are being manipulated as part of the Daily Mail's vendetta?

I ask this with the very greatest of resect: are people just too biased, or too thick, that they would believe anything the Daily Mail says about Harry or Meghan?

I think people are so ready to hate a pantomime villain that they just believe anything they read.

Quveas · 18/09/2022 13:30

I really don't care about any of them, but I do find it astonishing that so many people on MN are filled with such hatred for Harry - a person they do not know and about whom their judgments are bad on media "facts" - that they will continue to lambast him for doing something even after it had been pointed out that what he did was correct. And then drag his wife into it as if somehow that explains everything!

And all call him shallow, petty and a liar, etc., etc. Pot...kettle...black? There are plenty of people on here who are twice as bad as anything you accuse him of. If you don't like him, his brother, his uncle, his father, or any other of his relations, why spend so much time and vitriol on them. It's sad to see how many people allow this "upper class Eastenders" eat their lives and their souls with such nastiness.

Nesbo · 18/09/2022 13:30

Presumably people who dislike Harry are saying this came from Harry so they can keep up their narrative of disliking Harry, and try to persuade others to their cause? You can already see on this thread people treating that as if it is fact - it’s bizarre.