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Do you think they knew the Queen was about to die last week?

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Goldfishmountainclimber · 11/09/2022 06:43

Do you think that they knew that the Queen was about to die last week? It seems that they probably did on the actual day because there was some decline and Charles and Anne hurried to be with her. But they were both in Scotland at the time so reasonable handy.

But the rest of the family were not there and didn’t make it there until after her death. But maybe that was the plan so that she could die quietly and only Charles and Anne would be present, so that it didn’t draw attention and turn into a media circus.

I know it doesn’t matter, but I just wondered if it was a carefully crafted plan to give the Queen some peace at the end, or if it actually came as a bit of a surprise last week?

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JenniferBarkley · 11/09/2022 09:42

Arenanewbie · 11/09/2022 09:39

she clearly was not on her death bed for long, or she wouldn't have been able to receive Boris and Liz Truss two days earlier.
I actually think that everything possible medically was done for the Queen to do this meeting. And she probably was in bed just before and after but she got up and did her job because she always put her duty first.
There was a thread actually just after the meeting that the Queen looked very unwell and comments that her hands looked like she was having a canula .

I think the same, I thought the poor woman looked awful. But it would have been a huge deal for her not to make that meeting - constitutionally, and in terms of the attention it would have drawn. I imagine all concerned were in agreement that it needed to happen and I imagine no one understood that more than the Queen herself. Terrible timing but unavoidable.

PurpleHeatherBlooms · 11/09/2022 09:42

sidewayswalking · 11/09/2022 09:12

@Wisteriaroundthedoor

It was clear death was imminent due to the end stage cancer

Cancer?

Source??

That Lady Colin Campbell posted on YouTube half an hour before the official announcement. I have no idea how true it is.

sidewayswalking · 11/09/2022 09:45

@PurpleHeatherBlooms

That's not a source.

54isanopendoor · 11/09/2022 09:47

containsnuts · 11/09/2022 08:28

Yes, although nobody could have predict the exact date of her death, her doctors would have known the inevitable would happen in the coming weeks or months. They supported her wishes to be at Balmoral for her final days. I'm glad she was pictured standing and smiling just 48 hours before as it suggests it was quite quick in the end. Hopefully warm in her bed, surrounded by loved ones.

Exactly. I'm no Royalist but I have enormous respect for the late HM QEII.

Given she missed so much of the Jubilee & has been quietly resting in Balmoral since, I imagine that everyone knew it was coming (cancer rumours poss true given her sudden weight loss & frailty? - we will never know if this or a stroke or she just 'went to sleep) But the 'actual day' is hard to predict in any case.

In many ways it doesnt matter anyway -
I am glad for her that she died quickly & privately & I hope peacefully/painfree (more than my Mother achieved a few weeks ago, or my partner in March)

WimbyAce · 11/09/2022 09:49

It was not a huge shock as a lot of people didn't think she would make the jubilee. She obviously declined a lot since she lost her husband. The end seems to have been very quick and peaceful which can only be a blessing for the family and I am sure they will take comfort in that.

GaffNest · 11/09/2022 09:54

Antarcticant · 11/09/2022 09:31

No, it's not possible for anyone to have known precisely in the circumstances. There must have been a general feeling that the end wasn't too far away - I think we all grasped that when the Queen had to miss so much of the Jubilee, including the service of Thanksgiving which had been thought to be the one 'must' for her - but she clearly was not on her death bed for long, or she wouldn't have been able to receive Boris and Liz Truss two days earlier. The Queen's death wasn't like, for example, Prince Philip's, who was in hospital for some time preceding his death.

When you think about it now I think many of us were naive in not thinking the end was near when she could only appear on the balcony twice, and the second time it was only a last second decision.

Given what’s happened it’s actually remarkable now she appeared at all. The second one when the camera focused on the Union flag on the pole at Buckingham Palace for minutes before it was lowered and the Royal standard raised to tell people she was in the building, that was a great moment. We wouldn’t have thought then that was it, but really we should have.

PurpleHeatherBlooms · 11/09/2022 09:58

sidewayswalking · 11/09/2022 09:45

@PurpleHeatherBlooms

That's not a source.

I actually said I don’t know how true it is. 🙄

sidewayswalking · 11/09/2022 09:59

I actually said I don’t know how true it is. 🙄

You also quoted me asking for a source, so 🤷🏻‍♀️

MrsLargeEmbodied · 11/09/2022 09:59

they said at the jubilee not to depend on her arriving

EdithWeston · 11/09/2022 10:01

PurpleHeatherBlooms · 11/09/2022 09:42

That Lady Colin Campbell posted on YouTube half an hour before the official announcement. I have no idea how true it is.

If it was 30 mins before the announcement, then loads of people knew by that point. Just about everyone who has ever worked in or near a newsroom, many who work for organisations which had a role in London Bridge - from those poised to ring the leaders of the dependent territories and POTUS, down to those who are checking there are enough chairs in the ops room.

I have a pet theory about an underlying condition, and the delayed effects of Covid might be a factor too (including delayed cardiac effects). Or it could be something else completely.

She was frail, but to all outside indications, enjoying a summer with family. She could have carried on like that for months or years (I think she would have stepped back further in the autumn).

And too religious to interfere with nature's course for when death comes

Twillow · 11/09/2022 10:05

PurpleHeatherBlooms · 11/09/2022 09:42

That Lady Colin Campbell posted on YouTube half an hour before the official announcement. I have no idea how true it is.

Ew what a poisonous woman! Just watched this, never heard of her, but she is obviously a Meghan hater and if that's the way the aristocracy have behaved towards Meghan all along no wonder her and Harry have acted as they have.

itsgettingweird · 11/09/2022 10:08

Like she'd have gotten over Covid in a week at the age of 96 with 'advanced cancer'.

Actually entirely possible. My mum with advanced cancer (she dies a few months later) only knew she had covid as she had to LFT before chemo. She had a sore throat.

I often wondered about it here because the decline was so very similar to my mums including losing her mobility.

But we'll never know and neither should we be told. It's private.

I just hope she wasn't in pain and it was peaceful. But I do believe it was unexpected in the speed at which it happened.

We were told my mum could remain how she was for days. She died 2.5 hours later.

JudgeRindersMinder · 11/09/2022 10:10

GhostFromTheOtherSide · 11/09/2022 07:15

God, haven’t we already had one of these threads full of speculation about how it happened and people claiming they know someone who knows someone who knows….?

Fact is she was 96 and was frail. She might not even have actually been ill but was frail none the less, and at 96 you can die just like that. Lots of people go and see their elderly parents daily. My great uncle used to go and see my great granny every day to check on her. He did it for years afaik because she still lived independently.

One day he went to say goodnight, she sat down in the chair, gave a little sigh, and was dead. She was 98. It really can happen like that at that age, there doesn’t even need to be a contributing factor. People die when they get old.

I totally agree with this. People are speculating about illness/strokes and she must have had a cannula as her hand was bruised…if you look closely at that photo you see the ends of her fingers are pure white , which suggests lack of circulation, as happens with a person’s extremities when they’re starting to die.

I believe the Queen died of being 96, nothing more to it

Festoonlights · 11/09/2022 10:13

I think she has a point about opportunists.

angela99999 · 11/09/2022 10:14

I think that it's fair to say that when you are 96 it does not take much to tip the balance, even with the best medical care. As another poster said, if HM was seriously ill it is hard to imagine that she would have recovered from Covid, though there may have been ongoing complications.

It is likely that we will not be told her cause of death, though details may be released in years to come.
The speculation about cancer is just that, speculation. And really none of our business.

The same should be said about why not all her family were present when she died. I'm sure they are all grateful that she had a comfortable and peaceful end, which is what many people hope for.
It is quite amazing that this lady was willing to spend her whole life in public service, in some cases putting it before her family life. Still working at 96 years old, though obviously ill, she met both Johnson and Truss last week and this gives us some indication of her dedication.

ivykaty44 · 11/09/2022 10:15

If it was a surprise to anyone that a 96 year old died, just 12 month after her life long partner of over 70 years, then they perhaps are a bit unaware of how humans often respond to both separation & old age

purfectpuss · 11/09/2022 10:16

People who are aged at 96 are always frail and liable to die suddenly. We don't know that she 'very ill' as many on this thread are claiming. Yes, she clearly was quite weak and unable to move and stand well anymore, but that's not akin to a fatal illness she was suffering from. It's likely she had heart failure which finally gave in on Thursday morning, or she may have suffered a stroke or heart attack that morning. We will probably never be told the details. However, while the family probably knew her death was drawing nearer, I doubt they knew when it would be down to actual day or even week or month- that would be impossible to know.

sunglassesonthetable · 11/09/2022 10:16

No.

But she was 96 and very frail. And these things happen at that age. There a pages of posters describing that on other threads.

She was at work on Tuesday meeting Truss.

It must have come quickly given that some family didn't get there in time.

Wisteriaroundthedoor · 11/09/2022 10:17

sidewayswalking · 11/09/2022 09:12

@Wisteriaroundthedoor

It was clear death was imminent due to the end stage cancer

Cancer?

Source??

When the image of her shaking hands with truss emerged a lot of people thought her hands were bruised, but it was likely due to multi organ failure, many doctors publicly commented five days ago.

im no medic but I witnessed it first hand with my own grand mother, effectively at end stage all her organs started to fail and the discolouration appeared. I recognised it immediately when I saw the image of the queen it was identical. If I am wrong then it is a huge coincidence otherwise that she died the next day and was bearing the signs of multi organ failure 24 hours before hand.

If you also tie it to her weight loss, limited mobility, rare public appearances, many engagement cancellations, brief appearances that were incredibly brief, not able to really attend her own jubilee in the main, I think it’s fairly obvious.

Then tie in Charles and Anne ‘Co incidentally’ just happening to be in Scotland and close by. Ultimately cause of death may have been something else, my own grandmother primary cause was pneumonia, it could have been many things, inc heart failure, but yes I think she had an aggressive cancer.

sunglassesonthetable · 11/09/2022 10:19

If you also tie it to her weight loss, limited mobility, rare public appearances, many engagement cancellations, brief appearances that were incredibly brief, not able to really attend her own jubilee in the main, I think it’s fairly obvious.

Fairly obvious that she was 96!

😂

sidewayswalking · 11/09/2022 10:20

@Wisteriaroundthedoor

im no medic

Even if you were you are not a reliable source.

sunglassesonthetable · 11/09/2022 10:22

im no medic

Indeed 😁

My grandmother's hands looked like that for years before she died.

user1493745437 · 11/09/2022 10:34

Maybe she died years ago.

caringcarer · 11/09/2022 10:39

They knew she was very frail and had lost weight but would not have know exactly when it would occur. I am pleased she passed swiftly. My own Mother was told she might have 3-4 months with advanced pancreatic cancer. She was very ill and in pain some of the time, and bed bound for last fortnight. She died after 5 weeks of not eating and only sipping water. I would have much preferred a quiet, quick and dignified passing for my Mum, like the Queen had.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 11/09/2022 10:42

I don’t think that much is left to chance with the management of the Royal Family

Well no, but even they can't control the timing of a death - or rather a natural death, remembering what happened with George V

It's not really our business, but FWIW I expect Charles and Anne were minded to stay reasonably close in view of her known frailty, and Charles stays at Balmoral in late summer most years anyway

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