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susan12345678 · 04/09/2022 05:49

With another podcast set for release this week, The Sunday Times has a piece addressing Harry and Meghan's apparent strategy:

Courtiers are bemused by the Sussexes’ determination to rage against the past. As Davis observed of Meghan in her article: “She has taken a hardship and turned it into content.” A source who knows the Sussexes questions why Meghan “is constantly looking back at how awful it was to briefly be a royal. What does success look like, is it a number in the bank? Is it that they’ve killed off the monarchy?” Another Palace source says: “Ultimately they are bashing the institution that has put them in the position they’re in, the longevity of that strategy is not sustainable.”

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/harry-and-meghan-keep-bashing-the-monarchy-because-its-good-business-royals-believe-nq29p6g7z

I'm curious about their strategy, too. They seem to think that criticizing the royal makes them look better - it really doesn't. Instead, it just makes them look petty and increasingly irrelevant.

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VladmirsPoutine · 04/09/2022 20:06

That Oprah interview - of all the varying recollections one thing I think to be true is the questioning of how dark Archie would be by a senior member of the RF. That I can absolutely believe to have come from the mouths of some of them. And please, spare us, no-one cares if you and your family were innocently curious as to how your mixed race dc would come out. It's still objectionable.

Nanalisa60 · 04/09/2022 20:07

skullbabe VladmirsPoutine

its to show that not only are the U.K. press feed up to the back teeth with the ever ending woe is me, but the USA press are also getting feed up with it.

Front page of the New York post this week.

GertrudeOHara · 04/09/2022 20:09

When Harry said “my father cut me off financially” I assume he meant the Duchy of Cornwall would no longer fund his security. Harry was left money very sadly by the Princess of Wales and I think also by the Queen Mum. The consorts tend to leave their private wealth to non heirs (or more specifically, those far down the direct succession). So one assumes the Queen mother left more to Anne, Andrew and Edward than to Charles not because she loved them more, but because they need to live outside the taxpayers’ domain. Prince Philip, one assumes, will have done the same with Harry included as well as Beatrice and Eugenia and Louise and James. Not because they love Charles left but his finances are separate.

whatever millions Harry received in 1997, if they were in the most basic tracker he would be richer than most Mumsnet posters, even with inflation! He could have pottered to a Hereford or Norfolk farm and married the beautiful, articulate Meghan and had gorgeous babies and one hopes, been deliriously happy with their lot in life. Healthy children, 7 figures in the bank and being totally in love with each other.

I don’t know why that wasn’t good enough, honestly! Then I hear the Mariah Carey podcast and how cross she is at being called a “diva” and I get it.

derxa · 04/09/2022 20:18

GertrudeOHara · 04/09/2022 20:09

When Harry said “my father cut me off financially” I assume he meant the Duchy of Cornwall would no longer fund his security. Harry was left money very sadly by the Princess of Wales and I think also by the Queen Mum. The consorts tend to leave their private wealth to non heirs (or more specifically, those far down the direct succession). So one assumes the Queen mother left more to Anne, Andrew and Edward than to Charles not because she loved them more, but because they need to live outside the taxpayers’ domain. Prince Philip, one assumes, will have done the same with Harry included as well as Beatrice and Eugenia and Louise and James. Not because they love Charles left but his finances are separate.

whatever millions Harry received in 1997, if they were in the most basic tracker he would be richer than most Mumsnet posters, even with inflation! He could have pottered to a Hereford or Norfolk farm and married the beautiful, articulate Meghan and had gorgeous babies and one hopes, been deliriously happy with their lot in life. Healthy children, 7 figures in the bank and being totally in love with each other.

I don’t know why that wasn’t good enough, honestly! Then I hear the Mariah Carey podcast and how cross she is at being called a “diva” and I get it.

The farm idea is my heaven but I don't think H&M are interested in agriculture give or take some 'rescue' hens

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I agree plus they also didn’t agree when the alleged comment was made.
it’s the same with the allegation that a member of the media used the n word when referring to Archie and lilibet . Name and shame !

notanotheroneagain · 04/09/2022 20:33

Not too sure we know what the rf relationship is among everyone.

We were told that H&M are distant to everyone, but they say they are close to HMQ in a way - I do believe that.

They were still zooming with PP and HMQ - he just slams the laptop closed when finished talking😄. She brought Archie a pancake machine/waffle machine or something 😃.

Eugenie actually visited as we have seen.
Mike T indicated that there is a family whatstapp.
During the jubilee it seems H&M made some jokes with the dc, to wind them up maybe, it seems they were cackling all over the place and H&M were shushing them. We don't know what they said ofcourse, but dc will not fall your jokes and wind ups if you they view you negatively.

These are real people and their feelings should be taken into consideration.

Don't quote me and cling to it, as I don't remember the full details right now. Can't be bothered to have another look. At some point after the Diana tragedy, the palace employed someone who was credited as 'modernising' the rf. In that time, I remember that the press backed off Sophie, while pops were naturally taken, KM was given a helpline to deal and things we're not as visceral as now.

After H&M got married, that person was kicked out by PC. A couple of years later, HMQ did hire him back - but I guess it was too late at this point. The press narrated that he was there to 'keep an eye on mm'. I viewed it as HMQ worried about how she was treated and trying to see if anything can be done? Not sure what power and influence he had at that point. It's possible that he had no power at all all, don't know.

Things have gone back to gladiator fights right now. All unnecessary

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Puzzledandpissedoff · 04/09/2022 20:41

Why don't they expose the person and create genuine change and investigation

Perhaps because the potential for suspicion to fall on many suits H&M better?
Worst of all for me was Meghan smirking that naming them "would be damaging" ... as if so much else that they've done isn't

I'm another who has little time for sneaky allegations without proper detail, but I'm pretty sure the palace will have asked them who it was because that would be the obvious thing to do.
For their sakes I only hope they produced a credible reply, because anything less may have damaged them badly in the long run

notanotheroneagain · 04/09/2022 20:43

What? No, not the whole country is being presented as racist. H even says it out and out at the interview. That is what the media keeps on saying to try and get H&M hated.

Readinginthesun · 04/09/2022 20:45

notanotheroneagain · 04/09/2022 20:33

Not too sure we know what the rf relationship is among everyone.

We were told that H&M are distant to everyone, but they say they are close to HMQ in a way - I do believe that.

They were still zooming with PP and HMQ - he just slams the laptop closed when finished talking😄. She brought Archie a pancake machine/waffle machine or something 😃.

Eugenie actually visited as we have seen.
Mike T indicated that there is a family whatstapp.
During the jubilee it seems H&M made some jokes with the dc, to wind them up maybe, it seems they were cackling all over the place and H&M were shushing them. We don't know what they said ofcourse, but dc will not fall your jokes and wind ups if you they view you negatively.

These are real people and their feelings should be taken into consideration.

Don't quote me and cling to it, as I don't remember the full details right now. Can't be bothered to have another look. At some point after the Diana tragedy, the palace employed someone who was credited as 'modernising' the rf. In that time, I remember that the press backed off Sophie, while pops were naturally taken, KM was given a helpline to deal and things we're not as visceral as now.

After H&M got married, that person was kicked out by PC. A couple of years later, HMQ did hire him back - but I guess it was too late at this point. The press narrated that he was there to 'keep an eye on mm'. I viewed it as HMQ worried about how she was treated and trying to see if anything can be done? Not sure what power and influence he had at that point. It's possible that he had no power at all all, don't know.

Things have gone back to gladiator fights right now. All unnecessary

As with any family we never know the whole story however if the cousins are so close why didn’t H and M go for the boozy lunch which Mike talked about .
And it did look a bit frosty on the Abbey steps .
I do think they should go to Balmoral to see HM as I seriously doubt she will return to London .

Farmageddon · 04/09/2022 20:46

Wow, I went out for the day and missed all the drama. Can't MN just ban the offensive namechange person?

CathyorClaire · 04/09/2022 20:47

It’s the hypocrisy of earning a living mainly off slagging off the institution you couldn’t get away from fast enough while benefiting from the titles bestowed upon them that sticks in peoples throats.

I'm not convinced this was ever the original plan.

Covid scuppered the original intention to fleece bankers step out on the lucrative after dinner circuit which would have kept them afloat two or three months until they could pick and choose the megabuck business deals (that were bound to roll in) at their leisure. Global lockdowns left them casting around for a way to maintain the profile they needed to haul in the $$$.

They never had a Plan B but emergency shitting on their own doorstep has rather toxically turned into one.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 04/09/2022 20:51

It’s the same with the allegation that a member of the media used the n word when referring to Archie and lilibet . Name and shame !

I thought it was supposed to have been only about Archie (?) but yes - just as with the unknown RF member's own "racist remark" if they've got something to say then say it, but otherwise don't expect sensible people to take the allegation seriously

And still nobody's identified where this n word was used by the media ... odd, that

notanotheroneagain · 04/09/2022 20:51

Maybe the palace could have had an opportunity to say who it was and what they meant? Instead of ' recollections may vary' which is so insulting - and may be used against them actually if they thought they were being clever.

In general, I don't think the person needs to be named, the whole thing was about the culture that is perpetuated at the firm and how it impact the family members.

A quick : apologies to H&M for taking it the wrong way, but that person (doesn't have to be named) was not trying to be mean or racist, they now recognise their mistake and how it can come across. We are learning more and more about racism and we are anti racist, happy that a person of colour has brought this up from their point of view.

Yes, I know this would still be questioned, but its' much better that that original statement - overall insulting to people of colour. Obv someone in pr could come up with something better.

Farmageddon · 04/09/2022 20:57

Puzzledandpissedoff · 04/09/2022 17:47

Just for you, CPL593H Wink

I'm another old gimmer who well remembers Watergate, but now I'll have to watch the movie again (only in a spirit of research, you understand ...)

Beautiful man, he's like an early 70's Brad Pitt 😀

CathyorClaire · 04/09/2022 20:57

The consorts tend to leave their private wealth to non heirs (or more specifically, those far down the direct succession). So one assumes the Queen mother left more to Anne, Andrew and Edward than to Charles not because she loved them more, but because they need to live outside the taxpayers’ domain. Prince Philip, one assumes, will have done the same with Harry included as well as Beatrice and Eugenia and Louise and James. Not because they love Charles left but his finances are separate.

We can't assume anything when royal wills disgracefully remain sealed.

Readinginthesun · 04/09/2022 20:58

notanotheroneagain · 04/09/2022 20:51

Maybe the palace could have had an opportunity to say who it was and what they meant? Instead of ' recollections may vary' which is so insulting - and may be used against them actually if they thought they were being clever.

In general, I don't think the person needs to be named, the whole thing was about the culture that is perpetuated at the firm and how it impact the family members.

A quick : apologies to H&M for taking it the wrong way, but that person (doesn't have to be named) was not trying to be mean or racist, they now recognise their mistake and how it can come across. We are learning more and more about racism and we are anti racist, happy that a person of colour has brought this up from their point of view.

Yes, I know this would still be questioned, but its' much better that that original statement - overall insulting to people of colour. Obv someone in pr could come up with something better.

What are your thoughts about the media allegedly using the n word ? Do you not think that needs clarified ? Someone should be sacked !

OhMargaret · 04/09/2022 20:59

I think we should stop pretending that any of this is really about them. Their team have started a monster of a PR strategy around race. The reactions they are getting remind me of the craziness surrounding the OJ Simpson trial.

There are only 2 possibilities:

  1. This woman is a victim of widescale racism, some of it overt and that is what is stopping her from becoming the A-list, Obama-style authority on racial justice and gender equality that she seems to want to use her voice for (alongside a little Goop-inspired lifestyling)
  1. There's more to it than that

Which is it folks? Roll up and join the bun fight. Each click grows their fame a little more.

(I haven't listened to the podcasts but loved the article in The Cut by Alison P. Davis, it sidestepped the trap so elegantly by suggesting that despite all of the publicity and firestarting, this whole story is a bit of a nothingburger - and one that has been bought and paid for by a pair of hilariously pretentious twerps).

Farmageddon · 04/09/2022 21:05

GertrudeOHara · 04/09/2022 20:09

When Harry said “my father cut me off financially” I assume he meant the Duchy of Cornwall would no longer fund his security. Harry was left money very sadly by the Princess of Wales and I think also by the Queen Mum. The consorts tend to leave their private wealth to non heirs (or more specifically, those far down the direct succession). So one assumes the Queen mother left more to Anne, Andrew and Edward than to Charles not because she loved them more, but because they need to live outside the taxpayers’ domain. Prince Philip, one assumes, will have done the same with Harry included as well as Beatrice and Eugenia and Louise and James. Not because they love Charles left but his finances are separate.

whatever millions Harry received in 1997, if they were in the most basic tracker he would be richer than most Mumsnet posters, even with inflation! He could have pottered to a Hereford or Norfolk farm and married the beautiful, articulate Meghan and had gorgeous babies and one hopes, been deliriously happy with their lot in life. Healthy children, 7 figures in the bank and being totally in love with each other.

I don’t know why that wasn’t good enough, honestly! Then I hear the Mariah Carey podcast and how cross she is at being called a “diva” and I get it.

I mean it sounds lovely, but in her mind she gave up her career and had some what of a profile before this. I don't think she would have been content to just play happy families in a field somewhere.

SallyLockheart · 04/09/2022 21:12

If one of the royal rota journalists used the n-word, then that person should be named and called out on it and dealt with according.

if she won’t and can’t name anyone and prove it - ie it needs to be more than a “feeling” that the word was used - then Meghan needs to apologise for slurring the British journalists involved in the rota.

Readinginthesun · 04/09/2022 21:16

SallyLockheart · 04/09/2022 21:12

If one of the royal rota journalists used the n-word, then that person should be named and called out on it and dealt with according.

if she won’t and can’t name anyone and prove it - ie it needs to be more than a “feeling” that the word was used - then Meghan needs to apologise for slurring the British journalists involved in the rota.

I completely agree . It’s a terrible thing to say and if the allegation is true , the person needs to be dealt with .

skullbabe · 04/09/2022 21:32

GertrudeOHara · 04/09/2022 19:28

As a norfolk resident who flies to scotland to visit family I thought that Flybe replaced the Loganair flight. When I have flown to Aberdeen from Norwich it has been on an old dornier and if Flybe flew a big branded Flybe plane down to take advantage of William and. Kate’s annual flight to Scotland they will have been gutted as everyone getting on a Loganair flight feels very private jet! You have a tartan thing on your pillow and are offered a tunnocks teacake with your tea.

if you were a billionaire and much richer than the royals you would be v irritated by Flybe working your flight commercially. But they were likely alway on that flight and could do nothing about the operator.

Ooh I’ve often wondered what LoganAir was like when I thought of flying from Norwich - thanks for this.

skullbabe · 04/09/2022 21:34

Serenster · 04/09/2022 19:13

What is the EasyJet story ?

I suspect this means the FlyBe story (If there’s an EasyJet story I apologise!).

In August 2019 the Cambridge family travelled from Norfolk to Aberdeen on a FlyBe flight. They sat in the very front rows of the plane, getting on last, and exiting first (i.e. the usual security protocol for VIPs on scheduled flights). As they walked across the tarmac at Aberdeen airport they were filmed by people still on the plane.

It then transpired that FlyBe had realised a few days in advance of the flight (likely when the request was made about seat allocation and boarding) that the Cambridge family and their security detail would be travelling on this scheduled flight. The company made the decision to swap the plane that normally makes this run (an Eastern Airlines-branded plane, which partnered with Flybe) for a Flybe-branded aircraft. This was interpreted as an attempt to maximise press coverage for Flybe. Eastern Airways confirmed that this swap had happened. It involved the Eastern Airways plane that had flown down from Aberdeen earlier in the day being flown away empty to get it out of the way, while and empty FlyBe aircraft was flown to Norwich to pick up the passengers that had booked onto the flight.

The airline also stated that William and Kate were completely unaware of the switch and had not asked for special treatment, aside from their security request to board last/leave first

Anyway, as this happened mere days after Meghan and Harry had been criticised by the press for taking a lot of private jet flights in a short period of time, Cambridge hate-sites posited that this was all a plot by William and Kate to show up their brother and sister in law (and that it made a mockery of their eco-credentials as it involved empty planes being flown around). That is the line that has been taken by posters on these threads also, despite no actual evidence for this interpretation.

(I note Kate and two of her children travelled up to Aberdeen again on a scheduled flight a couple of weeks ago, and against were photographed walking across the tarmac. I await this being the taken up as latest instalment in the alleged smear campaign….)

Yes - it’s this.

skullbabe · 04/09/2022 21:43

Nanalisa60 · 04/09/2022 20:07

skullbabe VladmirsPoutine

its to show that not only are the U.K. press feed up to the back teeth with the ever ending woe is me, but the USA press are also getting feed up with it.

Front page of the New York post this week.

You are aware that other posters significantly more critical of Meghan (on the other side of the aisle so to speak) also criticised your post.

The New York Post is the equivalent of the Daily Mail. It is a Murdoch owned enterprise.

It hardly bolsters your cause including commentary from media who are in the fastest race to the bottom of the gutter. People on your side of the debate agree it shouldn’t have been included.

skullbabe · 04/09/2022 21:45

“I don’t know why that wasn’t good enough, honestly! Then I hear the Mariah Carey podcast and how cross she is at being called a “diva” “

How many times? She was not cross.

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