Aw, I think that's a bit harsh, really. Because of her age and wanting to start a family, they rushed into marriage so she didn't have time to assess the dynamics of her position. She just didn't understand what was going on and was totally out if her depth. She had an idea of what it was like to be a princess that was never grounded in reality. And then she had a guy, nice but not the sharpest tool, who never understood how privileged and protected he was, advising her on what they should do. She just never stood a chance.
The problem is that these revelations make that narrative increasingly implausible.
The persona of an unprepared naive woman overwhelmed by circumstances and manipulated by couriers simply can't be reconciled with the sophistication/effort/planning/co-opting of staff the published emails evidence.