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The royal family

Prince Harry’s Memoirs to be published.

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Madasahattersteaparty1749 · 19/07/2021 18:51

Blurb from publisher.

In an intimate and heartfelt memoir from one of the most fascinating and influential global figures of our time, Prince Harry will share, for the very first time, the definitive account of the experiences, adventures, losses, and life lessons that have helped shape him.

Covering his lifetime in the public eye from childhood to the present day, including his dedication to service, the military duty that twice took him to the frontlines of Afghanistan, and the joy he has found in being a husband and father, Prince Harry will offer an honest and captivating personal portrait, on that shows readers that behind everything they think they know lies an inspiring, courageous and uplifting human story.'

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Zuluqueen · 20/07/2021 15:05

[quote Roussette]@Zuluqueen

One of their 'nicknames' that somebody thinks is funny but is designed to mock them.[/quote]
Oh I see.

Zuluqueen · 20/07/2021 15:13

I will definitely read this book, but I wish he was not writing it now. I can’t guess what will be in it but to me it seems like picking on a fresh wound that hasn’t even began to heal yet. He just left working within the firm, his relationship with family seem strained, and I think he should have just focused on his work with Spotify, Netflix & all others. Since he has decided to write it anyway I hope it’s more about his military career, charity works & other stuff but not his family. Guess we will see, but I doubt he will go scotched earth. I like Harry so rooting for him, but human beings can be disappointing 🤷‍♀️.

DeRigueurMortis · 20/07/2021 15:14

Anybody who thinks this is anything but about making money is kidding themselves.

He's been working on this for over a year. During the same period they were touting for deals with Netflix/Spotify etc plus non-exec positions/speaking gigs and the like.

They chose to life a lifestyle they couldn't afford and this is the net result having come to the realisation that no, The Met and the Taxpayer (via the Duchy of Cornwall) were not going to stump up after they flounced off.

They have lots of options but choose a path that fulfilled their wants and anything and anybody else is/was collateral damage.

As I've always said, I absolutely understand them wanting a different life and defend their right to leave the RF, but I don't find anything admirable about the way they've gone about it.

They are playing a dangerous game by slagging off the very institution that has provided the very platform of privilege and opportunity they are now exploiting.

Im not sure how the RF will respond - I suppose it depends on what's said in the book, but to be honest I think that's the least of H's worries.

If this is how life story he's going to be talking about a lot of "private" people who reasonably could have anticipated he would respect their privacy as they have his.

For example, former girlfriends who have never spoken to the press about him. Or former private secretary's, army colleges etc?

If their "recollections vary" from what he prints I'd say it's fair game for them to tell "their truth" if they so please.

Because here's the thing, when you stop protecting other people's privacy then you don't get to insist they continue to protect yours and I'll bet good money that some of those people formerly close to H will have some pretty damning bombs to lob if they choose - ones that are going to damage their "compassionate/woke" brand.

Kokeshi123 · 20/07/2021 15:15

I did start this thread thinking that nobody, but nobody, could possibly this was a good move. Not even the Megs-and-Harry Fan Club. And yet, lo and behold.

One more thing "It's fine to write a book like this because Sarah Ferguson did it too" is not really the conversation-stopping retort some see to think it is.

IcedPurple · 20/07/2021 15:17

@Zuluqueen

I will definitely read this book, but I wish he was not writing it now. I can’t guess what will be in it but to me it seems like picking on a fresh wound that hasn’t even began to heal yet. He just left working within the firm, his relationship with family seem strained, and I think he should have just focused on his work with Spotify, Netflix & all others. Since he has decided to write it anyway I hope it’s more about his military career, charity works & other stuff but not his family. Guess we will see, but I doubt he will go scotched earth. I like Harry so rooting for him, but human beings can be disappointing 🤷‍♀️.
Nobody is paying him big money to write about his unexceptional military career or the charity work that was only possible because he was a member of the royal family. The publishers will want a return on their investment, and that means spilling royal tea.

As for hoping he doesn't go 'going scorched earth', that ship sailed out of harbour in early March. Which makes one wonder what he really has left to say at this point.

EvenRosesHaveThorns · 20/07/2021 15:17

Dear lordie, what a publicity tart... Funny way to achieve that much talked about privacy he craves!

Samcro · 20/07/2021 15:18

@Roussette

To be honest Purple I only have to see you use the word 'Harkles' and I ignore the rest of your post. Because along with all the other insults you use on them, it's just rude and derogatory.

I'm prepared to be flamed on that as normal. Grin

well said,
EdithWeston · 20/07/2021 15:21

Good post DeRigueurMortis

Once someone puts an aspect of their life into the public domain, then it's open for scrutiny. Including by any third parties mentioned, who are free to tell their side of it if they wish.

If they breach other people's privacy, it will be massive hypocrisy.

If they don't, will the book be interesting enough?

Roussette · 20/07/2021 15:22

Nowhere have I said "what a brilliant idea, he's doing a book"
I think he should leave it for a few years till things settle down and think again

Pointing out about SFs book was to illustrate he's not the first and won't be the last

DeRigueurMortis · 20/07/2021 15:23

@EvenRosesHaveThorns

Dear lordie, what a publicity tart... Funny way to achieve that much talked about privacy he craves!

They never wanted privacy.

They didn't even want to leave the RF.

They wanted all the "good bits" but not to have to suck up the bad/boring/irritating aspects of Royal life.

In other words they wanted celebrity.

The plan was never to "lie low".

This talk of a toxic family only started after they were told they couldn't have their cake and eat it.

1forAll74 · 20/07/2021 15:24

I would never have imagined Harry, to have thought about putting his life out there,so to speak, as in writing a book, doing interviews, divulging his woes and problems for all the world to hear about etc. It has all happened since he married Meghan, she who always want's to be in the limelight. and profit from all this. She is most likely to be behind all these Harry disclosures.

I always thought that Harry would maybe do some good things in life, as in his Africa pursuits, his work with injured military persons, and other help for needy people. I never thought that he would be banging on to the Oprah woman, doing Hollywood stuff, and all the rest, and mostly hiding his children away etc.

He didn't wan't the royal life anymore, but now he keeps talking about it non stop, and probably getting paid big for it.

IcedPurple · 20/07/2021 15:27

@Roussette

Nowhere have I said "what a brilliant idea, he's doing a book" I think he should leave it for a few years till things settle down and think again

Pointing out about SFs book was to illustrate he's not the first and won't be the last

I think people are well-aware that others have written 'tell-all' memoirs for cash. It's hardly a new thing. Going on repeatedly about Fergie's book just seems like a deflection tactic.

Do you think it is right to write books invading your family's privacy? Yes or no?

Chickychickydodah · 20/07/2021 15:28

Don’t care, just more attention seeking again.

Worried234 · 20/07/2021 15:31

WGAF?

Roussette · 20/07/2021 15:35

Purple

We don't know what sort of detail the book will have. Of course dishing the dirt on your brother or father is not a good idea but I doubt very much that will be the case for one minute, although you've decided that's what it's going to be...

IcedPurple · 20/07/2021 15:40

@Roussette

Purple

We don't know what sort of detail the book will have. Of course dishing the dirt on your brother or father is not a good idea but I doubt very much that will be the case for one minute, although you've decided that's what it's going to be...

As I've said, nobody is paying Harry a big advance - not that I believe the figures being bandied about - to talk about Invictus or his mediocre military career. They're paying it for royal gossip. And given that he's been more than happy to repeatedly slag off his family in public, there's no reason to believe he won't be happy to do so yet again, so I'm not sure why you're so doubtful.
Roussette · 20/07/2021 15:47

Any insight into the RF would be called 'slagging off' undoubtedly because there is total opacity.

PandorasMailbox · 20/07/2021 15:47

YAY! Finally a cure for my insomnia! Halo

GreenCrayon · 20/07/2021 15:48

I doubt very much that will be the case for one minute

I don't think it's an unreasonable assumption that he will spill the dirt and let some skeletons out of the cupboard. Unless he does he's basically only got his brief time in the military and his charity endeavours as content for the book and realistically no one is interested in that stuff.

SueSaid · 20/07/2021 15:53

'They never wanted privacy.'

'They didn't even want to leave the RF.'

'They wanted all the "good bits" but not to have to suck up the bad/boring/irritating aspects of Royal life.'

'In other words they wanted celebrity.'

'The plan was never to "lie low".'

'This talk of a toxic family only started after they were told they couldn't have their cake and eat it.'

This! I could almost hear the Oprah style Hollywood dramatic music as I read it Grin.

They were told no. No they couldn't have a royal franchise in America so they could be the no.1 stars and not the pesky Cambridges. Probably the first time anyone said no to poor H and it went down like a lead balloon didn't it.

AllTheUsernamesAreAlreadyTaken · 20/07/2021 15:54

All the people around Harry who will have been forced to sign non-disclosure agreements, the ex girlfriends, one night stands, ex soldiers he worked alongside etc, will those agreements still stand if he discusses those times publicly?
Or is this another case of him being very secure in the fact that anything he writes/ says not being disputed by the other party?

Or, if he misses those bits out completely, will we only get his “version of the truth”?

DeRigueurMortis · 20/07/2021 15:54

@Roussette

Purple

We don't know what sort of detail the book will have. Of course dishing the dirt on your brother or father is not a good idea but I doubt very much that will be the case for one minute, although you've decided that's what it's going to be...

The problem Rou, is that he hasn't led his life in a vacuum.

If he's writing his life story, it has to include people who, unlike the RF with their press office, have no such back up.

His life is so well documented then even if he anonymised them it's not going to be hard to work out who these people are.

I mentioned former army colleagues, girlfriends but also what about someone like Tiggy LB?

Don't they have a right to privacy? They've certainly offered that to Harry over the years....

Even if he's nice as pie about them, you can't deflect from the argument that this, coming from someone whose repeatedly complained (with some justification) about his privacy being breeched is prepared to breech that of people who've been absolutely loyal to him, is a hugely hypocritical stance.

SpanishLady · 20/07/2021 15:54

Looking at it from H's point of view - what does he want?

Some might immediately say money and I think we can't discount that but he's said he's giving it to charity (assuming that is fact and not inference - not sure of the source of this) so let's accept that. That said wanting money when it brings you into conflict with your family is quite a thing just for cash is odd so there's more to it of course surely.

What does he want from his family? What does he want from the general public or the media?

Is it an apology? And for what? A sense of his being considered right? Nothing at all?

What is the point of what he is doing and how is repeating his messaging over and over effective?

StormzyinaTCup · 20/07/2021 15:54

Very well put @DeRigueurMortis

@EvenRosesHaveThorns ’Dear lordie, what a publicity tart...’ 🤣

DeRigueurMortis · 20/07/2021 15:58

@SpanishLady

Looking at it from H's point of view - what does he want?

Some might immediately say money and I think we can't discount that but he's said he's giving it to charity (assuming that is fact and not inference - not sure of the source of this) so let's accept that. That said wanting money when it brings you into conflict with your family is quite a thing just for cash is odd so there's more to it of course surely.

What does he want from his family? What does he want from the general public or the media?

Is it an apology? And for what? A sense of his being considered right? Nothing at all?

What is the point of what he is doing and how is repeating his messaging over and over effective?

It's said proceeds were going to charity.

Not what percentage of the proceeds or which charity so I think the jury is out on that.

No mention of the £20m advance so I think it's fair to assume that's money banked a s they are not shy about promoting their charitable donations.