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To be shocked at some RF members turning their back?

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fiheka · 06/05/2021 16:35

It has been reported that some Royal Family members literally turned their back on Prince Harry at Prince Philip's funeral and refused to even acknowledge him.
I have had extended family members behave badly and are in no hurry to be friendly. But I think this is appalling behaviour. I would never do that and especially not at a funeral.
It reminds me of that video being shared where William and Kate totally snub and ignore Harry and Meghan.
It is just so rude and awful.

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Marmaladeagain · 13/05/2021 20:37

Mr Uppity of Mr Men fame - but reminds you of being used of a woman? It is definitely a description for a person, not sexed either way in my opinion.

Re. it being racist in US, yes I'm grateful to know that and would be sure never to use it in the US, however we're not in the US.

That's the crux of the matter - to set up worldwide racist bingo based on words from your own country is rather arrogant. The world is bigger than the US experience. Do you intend to amend language every time you come across a word that may offend someone somewhere in the world, or is it only people from the US?

As for ITV they are trying to appease the woke crowd who complain about the "Queen of England" - see this week. So much in fact that BP released a tweet to explain that the Queen wasn't expressing her own opinions and coming up with a bunch of laws on her whim etc.

ITV generally a bunch of hypocrites - the whole shenanigan with Philip and "poor him" duping his wife the whole marriage is supposed to be "brave". No it's not it is cowardly and hypocritical and lying.

Anyhow the only issue is there are a couple of posters who keep dropping in N word and accusing others of racism and it's a bingo of words potentially used in US, that no-one has even used.... Hmmmm wonder why that might be? Trying to derail conversation, never addressing that a particularly offensive word in UK (the P word) and no I don't accept Harry's mealy mouthed words about "not knowing". He revealed far too much of himself. Much rather focus on trying to damn people for using US words - don't throw your garbage in the trash can etc. - it's a whole other language FGS.

Majority of people haven't read Harper Lee and most would have not realised that it was in any way used differently to how the UK use the word.

CallmeHendricks · 13/05/2021 20:37

How is any of this helping anything? What good does he think he's going to do for anyone, effectively slagging off his whole family and relating personal details that really are better off left private.
If he needs to offload them, how about doing so in the privacy of the therapist's office?
I don't want to know about it, and I don't know why he is so insistent he wants to tell the world? I mean, who really cares? Does it make any of us feel any better about our own lot in life, to know that a hugely privileged man didn't appreciate it and wanted out? Fine. You got out.
So please shut up about it now.

Lockupyourbiscuits · 13/05/2021 20:41

He has been counselled by someone that he has been damaged permanently by his upbringing and doesn’t seem to be able to move forward with his life
Unfortunately sometimes if you give someone a label they wear it and it becomes truth

StormzyinaTCup · 13/05/2021 20:42

Its a bit extreme but I really do start to wonder now if the object of the exercise is to do everything he can (obviously under some delusion) that he can smear sufficiently enough that Prince Charles won’t take the throne.

CallmeHendricks · 13/05/2021 20:42

"Unfortunately sometimes if you give someone a label they wear it and it becomes truth"

"Their" truth.

mermaidsariel · 13/05/2021 20:42

The question is whether the 'someone' is a therapist or his wife.
He's an absolute train wreck.

CallmeHendricks · 13/05/2021 20:44

Stormzy, But it may have the opposite effect. If he comes across as attacking Prince Charles too much, the age-old British "championing of the underdog" feelings might emerge.

Marmaladeagain · 13/05/2021 20:48

I agree - Diana's damage was from her upbringing - there would not have been a happy marriage anywhere for Diana. She required constant validation of her experience and seemed to have little sense of self other than through others. Anyone would say she was unhappy and to place her on a pedestal is not an adult way to look at a parent.

I expect, as is usually the case, the elder child protects the younger from some of the more difficult realities of their parent's behaviour.

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cheezy · 13/05/2021 20:57

I’m listen to the podcast now. He sounds thoughtful. And clearly very hurt. I think they did the right thing in leaving actually. He has a gorgeous voice Blush

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 13/05/2021 20:58

derxa

You’ve been deleted my lovely but you were right. The more this kind of guff goes on, the more you come to see it for what and who he is.

Marmaladeagain · 13/05/2021 20:59

can't get his story straight at all can he. Want's half-in/half-out.

Wants titles/titles are a trap, delete according to which audience.

He is an unpleasant character and always has been.

StormzyinaTCup · 13/05/2021 21:00

@CallmeHendricks

Stormzy, But it may have the opposite effect. If he comes across as attacking Prince Charles too much, the age-old British "championing of the underdog" feelings might emerge.
I agree, I think it will undoubtedly backfire and it will be like watching a car crash in slow motion.

I know someone who was ‘counciled’ this way. They were mentally very fragile at the time and such was their desire to fix/find a cause for their mental health struggles they were very open to suggestion and it caused irreparable damage within the family. People like this are seen as easy prey if the so called ‘counsellor’ is unscrupulous/manipulative/just trying to make a buck.

pinkmagnolias · 13/05/2021 21:02

I like Harry and find it hard to find what he is saying. I refuse to click on the Daily Fail. Now I'm sure I can find what he says in interviews if I actively search. I'm baffled why people on MN trawl through and dissect every word of someone they despise.

BalloonSlayer · 13/05/2021 21:03

Another one to chime in here and say as a white middle-aged Englishwoman I view uppity as 100% a racist word that I wouldn't use in a million years.

LoveGucci · 13/05/2021 21:04
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Roussette · 13/05/2021 21:09

I’m listen to the podcast now. He sounds thoughtful. And clearly very hurt. I think they did the right thing in leaving actually

I agree. He comes across well in it and yes, thoughtful.

PurpleRainDancer · 13/05/2021 21:10

@CallmeHendricks

How is any of this helping anything? What good does he think he's going to do for anyone, effectively slagging off his whole family and relating personal details that really are better off left private. If he needs to offload them, how about doing so in the privacy of the therapist's office? I don't want to know about it, and I don't know why he is so insistent he wants to tell the world? I mean, who really cares? Does it make any of us feel any better about our own lot in life, to know that a hugely privileged man didn't appreciate it and wanted out? Fine. You got out. So please shut up about it now.
This in a nutshell. The cringe inducing ‘interview’ with James Corden was appallingly toe curling, and now another whinge fest. It appears that Harry has a happy marriage a lovely son and another baby on the way. An incredible home and more money than you could imagine. And the opportunity to really do some good due to the fact that he is a member of the RF - if he was Joe Bloggs no one would give him the platform he has. Does he have no appreciation for the incredible opportunities life has given him? Stop moaning and bitching now Harry it’s time to grow up (long overdue).
derxa · 13/05/2021 21:13

@SheldonesqueTheBstard

derxa

You’ve been deleted my lovely but you were right. The more this kind of guff goes on, the more you come to see it for what and who he is.

Grin Thanks darling
mermaidsariel · 13/05/2021 21:13

What I’m wondering is why if he hated being a member of the RF all along and viewed himself as being in the ‘Trueman Show’ he would then willingly become a full time working Royal on marriage? Why would he encourage his wife to enter that life and become a full time working Royal? She had the option to keep her career. He could have moved to the States when he married her and done what he’s doing now! It is just nonsense.

CathyorClaire · 13/05/2021 21:14

He seems desperate to force them into cutting him off

Bank of Dad has already cut him off as whined about on Oprah.

This is the manchild spitting the dummy.

mermaidsariel · 13/05/2021 21:15

Also, he would not have the platform he has now to make money by selling his family down the river if he hadn’t been part of the Trueman show.

smilesy · 13/05/2021 21:16

I agree with pp who said that Harry telling us all about his “horrible” life as a Royal does not benefit us in any way. It just comes across as more whining. Someone else said they thought that he spoke well. Of course he does. He was brought up surrounded by people who deliver speeches all the time.

mermaidsariel · 13/05/2021 21:18

He also had a very expensive education. He’s trying his hardest to downplay that now, Americanise his accent and erase his past.

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