'I'm not saying you are all racist,'
Well, thank you for that, for I am American-born and lived there for the first 31 years of my life. I am 40 now.
My husband is Scots, my children are.
I don't give a rat's fat arse what you are.
Ooo, bullying. 6 years I've been on this board, hardly a week goes by without a thread about horrible America, horrible Americans. Mostly I just ignore it now. Not worth wasting my breath. I can tell you know, the apple didn't fall far from the tree in many, many respects, and human nature is inclined to denegrate that which is most like itself, so I see where it comes from. Doesn't make it bristle any less, from time to time.
It's okay, I'm Latina as well, I know racism.
I didn't street party because as much as I wish two random strangers much happiness, and see how some people are proud (I know I am of my own country) and my elder daughter was interested in it, I don't 'get' monarchy and never will. I don't hold truck with people who use 'nobilty' titles. I can't lie and say I wouldn't be disappointed somewhat if one of my own daughters married into such a family.
If that makes me a racist, well, I've been called worse. And I know in my own heart of hearts that I am not.