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Cat has decided to sleep on my bed - READ OP'S UPDATE BEFORE RESPONDING *Edited by MNHQ*

103 replies

mumsandaunties · 14/12/2025 22:29

I have an eleven year old female, who has never really been particularly friendly, and has never, ever slept on my bed….or even jumped on the bed wanting attention or when I’m offering dreamies. Never..in eleven years…until the day before yesterday.

She spent the day on my bed. I even took photos to send to my family it was so unusual. Evening on the couch as normal. Then the night, back on my bed.

Yesterday, same again. This morning she woke DH up at 5:30 by sleeping on his chest! Right now she’s cuddled close to me in the bed.

She doesn’t seem unwell. It’s just so bizarre I don’t quite know what to make of it.

Anyone got any ideas?

  • [Note from MNHQ: please see the OP's sad update (28/01) before responding]
OP posts:
Endofyear · 29/01/2026 23:49

So sorry to see your sad news OP. It sounds like grumpy cat had a wonderful life as part of your family and found comfort being with you at the end, bless her ❤️

SanFranBear · 29/01/2026 23:50

I'm so sorry, @mumsandaunties - she was a beauty! Sending love to you and your DD x

HolesInTheAlbertHall · 29/01/2026 23:51

I would like to go that way. Sorry for your loss, she was beautiful.

FlyHighLikeABird · 29/01/2026 23:52

OP, what a shame, it shows you knew her very well and knew something wasn't normal, she did too and like you, I'm glad it was painless for her. I'm sorry, she looks adorable and it's always sad when you lose them.

FloofyKat · 29/01/2026 23:53

I’m so sorry, OP. But how comforting that your most recent memories of her will be of her enjoying your company and sharing your bed x

downtownlights · 29/01/2026 23:59

So sorry OP for your loss. What an absolute beauty she was. Thankful it was quick and she didn’t seem to suffer. It was kind of you to let her get the comfort she needed at that time. She must have known how loved she was, and is.

HatStickBoots · 30/01/2026 00:00

So sorry for your pain and loss …. 😞 she was clearly loved and a dear member of your family.

SnowflakeSmasher86 · 30/01/2026 00:03

Aww what a lovely kitty, I’m so sorry for your loss, it’s so tough when you lose a furry friend. ((hugs for you))

My cat behaved similarly so I was concerned when I read the OP, and so sad to see it confirmed.

Empress13 · 30/01/2026 00:04

I’m so sorry OP she was adorable sending love 🥰

PhaedraWas · 30/01/2026 00:32

I'm sorry for your loss.

Guerlainade · 30/01/2026 00:41

She's beautiful & so sorry for your loss.

CallItLoneliness · 30/01/2026 01:00

What a lovely girl. I'm so sorry for your loss.

BillieWiper · 30/01/2026 01:03

Poor kitty. She looks gorgeous. But it does sound like she wasn't suffering badly.

I'm so sorry for your loss x

redlorryyellowbus · 30/01/2026 01:38

Awww op I’m sorry ❤️

She wanted to show you she loved you is my guess.

LucyLoo1972 · 30/01/2026 02:24

mumsandaunties · 28/01/2026 14:55

I knew it felt wrong. I have just found her stretched out lifeless on the dining room floor. 🥲

aww this is so sad. but she sought out comfort from you in her final days

LucyLoo1972 · 30/01/2026 02:28

she was a beauty and bless you x

EmpressaurusKitty · 30/01/2026 03:02

She’s gorgeous, OP, & she obviously loved you.

JustJoinedRightNow · 30/01/2026 03:06

I'm so sorry OP. She was a gorgeous lady. Big hugs to you and your poor DD too xx

ClairDeLaLune · 30/01/2026 04:50

mumsandaunties · 29/01/2026 23:15

Here she is. Monday night I was out until quite late. She met me in the hall with a disapproving stare as I took my boots off.

She was beautiful OP, so sorry for your loss 😿

Thesehills · 30/01/2026 05:06

She was very pretty, sounds as though she had a great character too.

I'm so sorry.

JimJonesLivesInMyHead · 30/01/2026 05:44

I'm so sorry OP. What a beautiful girl, and a beautiful thing she did in seeking your comfort out in her final days. So moving and a testament to the love you shared. RIP kitty xx

FlibbertyGibbitt · 30/01/2026 06:47

🌈💔☹️ ahh sorry Op. hurts like bloody hell.

Studyunder · 30/01/2026 07:30

💐💐💐

ThatLemonBear · 30/01/2026 07:54

I’m really sorry for your loss, she looks like she was quite a character!

kerstina · 30/01/2026 08:07

Am so sorry OP My lovely buffy cat just before she died she wanted to just sit on my lap all the time Just try and take comfort in that she wanted to be so near you at the end. In tears writing this . Sending love ❤️