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My cat is inside my neighbour’s wall cavity

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SerenityNowInsanityLater · 21/08/2024 16:04

So, we’re presently a wrecking ball of anxiety and sadness as my kids and I wait to find out if we’ll ever hold our cat again.

He went out, two nights ago, at 2am. I’d been up preparing for a hearing (divorce). He was sitting at the back door, always an indication that he needs to go out. He’s out every night and home by 7am, sleeping on a patio chair.

He didn’t come home. Didn’t think much of it. Attended hearing (5 hours) and around 2pm asked my kids if they’d seen Gus. They hadn’t. DD had mentioned that she was aware that he hadn’t come to her room for daily snoozy snuggles.

I put out an alert on neighborhood watch and it turns out, he’d wandered into my neighbour’s house and looked utterly terrified to be there. She sent photos her painter had taken of my cat (homeowner was at work). They are having building works. Apparently he was hiding underneath a table, the painter tried to coax him out and grabbed him. The cat got totally spooked and they are pretty sure he ran into an opening of a newly built/plastered basement wall and climbed inside the cavity, they ‘think’. Their last sighting of him was in the wall’s opening climbing an electric cable. It’s all so grim.

I’ve gone over with food, talking to him, tapping, calling for him, chatting to him. I can see into the wall’s cavity. It’s an incredibly tight squeeze and this immediately scared me. The space is limited and the neighbour’s father in law built the wall and explained that the cat wouldn’t have much space to explore as it’s very limited and extremely tight.

There’s been no sound. Nothing. I heard nothing. Nobody’s heard a thing. Food has gone untouched. Fire Brigade has visited twice with thermal cameras and they’ve detected nothing both times (the space however is full of beams, cables, and insulation which could inhibit detection). RSPCA said I’ve basically done all that I can.

What more can be done? What’s crazy is he’s such a timid cat. None of the neighbours really know him because, although he wanders, he’s not the Six Dinner Sid our ginger cat is, visiting all and sundry like relatives at Christmas. Our little timid boy isn’t like that. He is extremely shy of humans. He looked absolutely terrified in the photos the painter shared. I hate to think the worst.

But what now, 38 hours on? 😢

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Jan678 · 25/08/2024 10:38

great news!😃

Fuzzykins · 25/08/2024 10:47

Oh my god, thank goodness. This post made me cry and then I saw your photo. He is the spitting image of my Fuzzybabes who sadly after 20 years I had to let him go over the rainbow bridge.
you cuddle him tight and give him lots of snuggles and kisses. I’m so pleased he came back to you. I’m just having a little cry here- well maybe a lot of tears. I’m so pleased for you all xx

musicalfrog · 25/08/2024 10:49

He's beautiful, so pleased he's back. Can only assume neighbour has never been owned by a cat, hence the lack of urgency!! I know I'd be just as anxious as you in her situation!

Icequeen01 · 25/08/2024 10:59

They will be the death of us won't they!

So pleased to hear he is home. He's a gorgeous little fella!

SerenityNowInsanityLater · 25/08/2024 11:11

Fuzzykins · 25/08/2024 10:47

Oh my god, thank goodness. This post made me cry and then I saw your photo. He is the spitting image of my Fuzzybabes who sadly after 20 years I had to let him go over the rainbow bridge.
you cuddle him tight and give him lots of snuggles and kisses. I’m so pleased he came back to you. I’m just having a little cry here- well maybe a lot of tears. I’m so pleased for you all xx

Oh this has made me tear up, Fuzzykins. Heavenly snuggles to your beautiful Fuzzybabes. It's funny because our nickname for Gus is Good King Fluffykins.💖
musicalfrog I have a feeling my neighbour is fervently praying that the cat distribution system permanently swerves past her house after all of this!* *Dogs and goldfish only!😆

"They will be the death of us won't they!"

Honestly, between the gulping sobs and sleepless nights, I had a fair few moments of "Really? A WALL? THAT'S the mess you've gotten yourself tangled up in?"
I mean... how he got into that house, down into a basement, and inside a wall...well actually, it's less how and more WHY? WHY a wall? So many questions. And his meows tell me nothing!😅

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MattDamon · 25/08/2024 11:11

I've never scrolled so fast to see if there was a happy resolution! 😂Thank goodness you had such a nice neighbour.

SerenityNowInsanityLater · 25/08/2024 11:15

MattDamon · 25/08/2024 11:11

I've never scrolled so fast to see if there was a happy resolution! 😂Thank goodness you had such a nice neighbour.

She really is a nice neighbour! So tolerant because I really have been an absolute wreck. I am making her a cake today (I hope she likes cake!). Maybe I should do flowers instead. I'm not sure. Maybe a nice candle... a pet odour eliminator. 😆I did tell her to let me know if there is any damage or smell. As the urgency slides away and normal cat ownership resumes, I'm beginning to feel this subtle guilt about how weird and wild it must be having some stranger's cat inside your wall. I am sure she was so worried about a really adverse outcome.

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Fuzzykins · 25/08/2024 11:19

SerenityNowInsanityLater · 25/08/2024 11:11

Oh this has made me tear up, Fuzzykins. Heavenly snuggles to your beautiful Fuzzybabes. It's funny because our nickname for Gus is Good King Fluffykins.💖
musicalfrog I have a feeling my neighbour is fervently praying that the cat distribution system permanently swerves past her house after all of this!* *Dogs and goldfish only!😆

"They will be the death of us won't they!"

Honestly, between the gulping sobs and sleepless nights, I had a fair few moments of "Really? A WALL? THAT'S the mess you've gotten yourself tangled up in?"
I mean... how he got into that house, down into a basement, and inside a wall...well actually, it's less how and more WHY? WHY a wall? So many questions. And his meows tell me nothing!😅

I honestly believe the phrase that “cats are liquids”. I have witnessed them making their body’s extremely flat like they have removed their bones to squeeze into the smallest of spaces. And don’t believe the saying that the whiskers help them stop getting themselves stuck as none of the cats I have had have ever been taught that lesson! 😬. I’m so pleased he came back- I hope your neighbour has now closed up the access to the wall. A cat tracker might be the way to go, mind you, it’s another phone app to get addicted too. 🤣.
im just so pleased he’s home for you. I’ve been checking every day for news. I felt completely invested. Maybe he is related to Fuzzybabes in some very distant way 🤣. You should write a book of his escapades! Xx

Apileofballyhoo · 25/08/2024 11:20

So glad you got him back, OP. Flowers and cake and candles and wine for the neighbour, I think, so nice to set up a camera and everything.

Pudmyboy · 25/08/2024 11:21

Wow! Brilliant news!! He seems as delighted to be back as you all are to have him back!! What a relief, to you and your kitty, but also to your Mumsnet crew who were on tenterhooks waiting for this lovely news!😻
(He is a very handsome fella btw!)

LoneHydrangea · 25/08/2024 11:25

I’ve only just seen this thread and the update has made my day!

CormorantStrikesBack · 25/08/2024 11:32

Blimey, yes bet there’s some cat poo in that wall cavity 😁🙈

PTSDBarbiegirl · 25/08/2024 11:36

Cat could have been spooked and bolted elsewhere, fingers crossed they will appear in a couple of days. Check garages and ask neighbours too.

TF4646 · 25/08/2024 11:45

The post we’ve all been waiting for. I’m so pleased for you and Gus - love the pic 😻

Beautiful3 · 25/08/2024 12:36

Amazing update 👏 👏 👏 I'm over the moon for you. I was actually thinking about your cat last night, and I wished him safely home. I'm relieved he's back and safe. ❤️

margotlabourezlesvignes · 25/08/2024 13:04

I'm so, so, so happy for you and your family and for Gus most of all, home safe! I had read this thread and had no suggestions beyond what had already been posted, but (having dear and foolish cats myself) I couldn't get it out of my mind. Thank you for letting us know – it's wonderful to see photos of him, back where he belongs.

ChaToilLeam · 25/08/2024 13:08

Glad to hear he is home! What a lovely kitty he is (even if very naughty for getting stuck in such a daft spot).

OkPedro · 25/08/2024 13:25

Yes!! Welcome home Gus 😻 He's a beautiful boy

Nsky62 · 25/08/2024 13:30

Lovely ending!

Greentrilby · 25/08/2024 13:31

Such a relief! Welcome home Gus. Now I want a cat tracker for my cat - any recommendations?

CatChant · 25/08/2024 13:48

What wonderful news and what a beautiful cat!

You poor things, you must be exhausted after all that worry. Take it easy and cuddle your lovely Gus a lot.

SerenityNowInsanityLater · 25/08/2024 13:51

Greentrilby · 25/08/2024 13:31

Such a relief! Welcome home Gus. Now I want a cat tracker for my cat - any recommendations?

I'd love advice too! I'm sort of overwhelmed by the options!

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OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 25/08/2024 13:58

Oh Thank Goodness !!!

I have been waiting and waiting on this update !
( you really should have popped on a quick one yesterday !)

Cake and flowers and wine - the neighbour needs the wine !!! after the stressfull days she has had.

yorkypuds · 25/08/2024 13:58

Oh my word. Love the ending!
We use Tractive- it probably wouldn't be that accurate but you can use radar to see when they are very close to you and it would give you an idea of location!

ladyintherain · 25/08/2024 14:00

yay