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My cat is inside my neighbour’s wall cavity

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SerenityNowInsanityLater · 21/08/2024 16:04

So, we’re presently a wrecking ball of anxiety and sadness as my kids and I wait to find out if we’ll ever hold our cat again.

He went out, two nights ago, at 2am. I’d been up preparing for a hearing (divorce). He was sitting at the back door, always an indication that he needs to go out. He’s out every night and home by 7am, sleeping on a patio chair.

He didn’t come home. Didn’t think much of it. Attended hearing (5 hours) and around 2pm asked my kids if they’d seen Gus. They hadn’t. DD had mentioned that she was aware that he hadn’t come to her room for daily snoozy snuggles.

I put out an alert on neighborhood watch and it turns out, he’d wandered into my neighbour’s house and looked utterly terrified to be there. She sent photos her painter had taken of my cat (homeowner was at work). They are having building works. Apparently he was hiding underneath a table, the painter tried to coax him out and grabbed him. The cat got totally spooked and they are pretty sure he ran into an opening of a newly built/plastered basement wall and climbed inside the cavity, they ‘think’. Their last sighting of him was in the wall’s opening climbing an electric cable. It’s all so grim.

I’ve gone over with food, talking to him, tapping, calling for him, chatting to him. I can see into the wall’s cavity. It’s an incredibly tight squeeze and this immediately scared me. The space is limited and the neighbour’s father in law built the wall and explained that the cat wouldn’t have much space to explore as it’s very limited and extremely tight.

There’s been no sound. Nothing. I heard nothing. Nobody’s heard a thing. Food has gone untouched. Fire Brigade has visited twice with thermal cameras and they’ve detected nothing both times (the space however is full of beams, cables, and insulation which could inhibit detection). RSPCA said I’ve basically done all that I can.

What more can be done? What’s crazy is he’s such a timid cat. None of the neighbours really know him because, although he wanders, he’s not the Six Dinner Sid our ginger cat is, visiting all and sundry like relatives at Christmas. Our little timid boy isn’t like that. He is extremely shy of humans. He looked absolutely terrified in the photos the painter shared. I hate to think the worst.

But what now, 38 hours on? 😢

OP posts:
Branster · 25/08/2024 14:11

Good Lord! What a happy ending and I'm so pleased for you and your (gorgeous) cat OP.
What a kind neighbour too! Maybe get her a cat themed thank you card and a tin of fancy sardines from an exclusive food shop.
As a thorough dog lover, it's threads like these that make my heart melt - cat threads on MN are the best.

Davros · 25/08/2024 14:11

I always say this on here - TRAIN YOUR CATS! Mewler knows that, if she hears her special bell, she will get Thrive or Lik-E-Lix. She would climb a very big thing when she hears that bell. The two have to be paired, I.e. any time the bell is rung she MUST get a treat and anytime she gets a treat she MUST hear the bell. It has worked wonders over the years

Davros · 25/08/2024 14:11

P.S. so pleased about the happy outcome

MissEsmeWatson · 25/08/2024 14:29

Thank you for updating OP, I'm grinning so widely finding out he's ok. And what a handsome boy!

SerenityNowInsanityLater · 25/08/2024 15:15

It’s funny because I noticed that my neighbour had an extensive selection of wine in her kitchen. So I did think, ‘if there’s a good outcome, I’ll likely need to replenish her supply after these shenanigans.” I’m sure her supply has reduced significantly these past few days. 😆

Takeaway note: Must try and train my little rascal! It’s never too late. I will try!

OP posts:
Goingclipclipertycloponthestairs · 25/08/2024 16:45

So glad Gus is home. Thank you for the update.

GreenPoppy · 25/08/2024 18:24

So glad to hear this OP, I'd been silently following the thread and fearing the worst, and am so pleased he's home.

Grammarnut · 25/08/2024 18:26

SerenityNowInsanityLater · 25/08/2024 09:33

Oh my heavens! All of the MN love! THANK YOU!! All of you. Thank you SO MUCH!!
I'm coming back to this thread to finally update you all... and to apologise, sincerely for not updating until now.
I wish I could reply to each and every single one of you individually. So please, please, please accept my collective (and enormous!) thank you and MN hugs for hand holding and for all of the advice and unwavering support. Thank you!!

HE CAME HOME! Honestly, we're exhausted. Underslept, overcried, just so tired! We haven't been sleeping or even eating properly. So forgive me for being slow to reply. My little search party is exhaling with such relief!! We're still clinging onto our boy like he's our very own Christmas Miracle (in August)!!

The neighbour, whose wall he was inside of, said, "You really need to broaden your search because I don't think he's in my wall or my house."
So we sent out flyers, re-flooded our local whatsapp groups, walked around the roads and alleyways looking for him (even at midnight, we were out looking for him). No joy whatsoever.
I got a lovely email from the fire brigade saying, after two thorough checks, there wasn't much more they could do. So, on the one hand, we were so relieved to think, "Ok, he's probably not inside the wall." But on the other hand, there was that sinking feeling of, "Where is he? If he's free from the wall, why didn't he come straight home?"
And then... He came rolling home at 6am yesterday! DD came running into my bedroom to say she could hear him meowing outside (furiously! He had SO much to say!). And there he was, at the back door. He came flying into the house, looking very thin and a quite strung out. He was so vocal. He had so much to tell us. He was really unsettled when he first came home, antsy, nervous, couldn't stop roaming the house, exploring, sniffing everywhere, as if it was his first time inside his own home.
Later on in the morning, around 8 or 9am, my neighbour (with the wall) sent a video of him (she'd set up a camera in the basement where the wall is) roaming around the room a few hours before he came home. She said the video captured him at 1:30am. "He's come out of the wall!" She wrote. The video doesn't show him coming out of the wall, but he is skulking around the basement room, looking anxious, skittish, and a bit, "Where the heck am I?".

She must have opened her back door when she woke up in the morning and at some point, he quietly slipped out without her knowing. She said she'd never actually seen him in person the entire time. So, she's had this cat in her wall, who came into her house, then left a few days later without being seen by her in the flesh. I feel so badly because this is the first time I've met this neighbour (she's recently moved in) and she's met this totally falling apart, bedraggled cat lady who can't function without her tuxedo. I'd been trying so hard not to be demanding, very aware that this is her home, I can't just barge in- even though my cat's in her wall. I couldn't just go in and invade her space. But oh god, how I wanted to! It's a terrible feeling, looking across at her fence at 4am, knowing the cat's inside her wall, and there is absolutely nothing to be done about it. Such a powerless and helpless feeling.
So I have taken an oath!
If anyone's cat is ever suspected of being inside my wall, I will tear it down. That is my oath to cat people everywhere! There will be no 'wait and see'. That is my promise to my feline loving friends.

So it is SUCH a happy ending... although, every hair on my head has turned white. I swear, at an age when I cannot afford to age even more, every jowl on my face has just jowled even more. I need to scoop my jowls off the ground! But he's worth it. We can't stop snuggling him. And he is super snuggly! It's like he's stored up his snuggle supply while stuck behind that wall. My kids are totally done with my 'Mr. Gorbachev. Tear down this wall!' references, which was the only joke keeping me going.

THANK YOU, with all of my heart, my loving army of MNers, for all of the support and love for Gus!! The obligatory cat photo has been added!

So glad your cat came home.

cocoloco23 · 25/08/2024 21:35

I’ve been checking your thread every day, hoping for a positive update. SO happy to read he’s home safe!

spiderlight · 25/08/2024 22:05

So happy that he's home!! ☺️

TheBalletCats · 26/08/2024 16:26

Just read this all in one go & m my goodness am so pleased for you all that it ended well!

user1471538283 · 26/08/2024 16:50

This is amazing news! Honestly these DCats! 😺

RosaMoline · 26/08/2024 18:07

I’m thrilled to see your update.
♥️♥️♥️

MelainesLaugh · 27/08/2024 10:02

So pleased he’s home!

Has he stopped telling you all about it now and how it’s all your fault?!

Goodtogossip · 27/08/2024 14:33

I very much doubt he's still in the wall. I think you'd have heard him crying if he were still in there. Has he maybe got out without anyone seeing & is hiding somewhere else. Fingers crossed he'll get over the scare & come out of hiding & come home.

SoupDragon · 27/08/2024 14:53

Goodtogossip · 27/08/2024 14:33

I very much doubt he's still in the wall. I think you'd have heard him crying if he were still in there. Has he maybe got out without anyone seeing & is hiding somewhere else. Fingers crossed he'll get over the scare & come out of hiding & come home.

Read the thread or at least the OP's updates! 😂

JohnTheRevelator · 28/08/2024 01:19

Oh my goodness! I am SO glad to hear he's home safe and well. This has made my day!

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