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"Dear Cat..."

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catsofa · 18/08/2014 20:09

What do you wish you could say so your cat would understand?

Dear Cat,

No I am NOT awake yet.

What is that smell? I know it's something to do with you...

What do you dream of?

I go away on holiday sometimes but I promise I will always always come back to you.

Tell me honestly, do you ever jump up on the kitchen worktops when I'm not at home?

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FairPhyllis · 22/08/2014 13:21

Dear Cat

Please stop lounging on the bed and refusing to move when I am changing the sheets. You cannot ever win at this game. If you cling on to the bedclothes like grim death I will simply parcel you up in them and put you in the laundry basket.

The water glass by the bed is for me and me alone. You have the toilet and stagnant puddles to drink out of. Oh and that water bowl you refuse to drink from.

Stop climbing onto the roof of the house via the gazebo. Everybody knows you are not allowed in through the upstairs windows, so nobody will let you in however much you sit on the roof yowling. We know you can get down by yourself.

You might be desperate to be friends with my mum but she has a cat allergy so she really, really doesn't want to be friends with you.

The weather at the front of the house is unlikely to be significantly different from the weather at the back of the house. If snow is also involved, I definitely can't do anything about it.

Stop putting on a wounded attitude when I accidentally stand on you. I am not psychic. If you enjoy lying down directly behind my feet when I am cooking you have to accept that this is an inherently risky activity.

Really sorry about that time you got trapped in the study for 48 hours - we thought you were off enjoying the warm weather.

You are completely hilarious and excellent company in every way - I particularly love sitting on the deck in the sunshine with you, or being in bed with you nestled in my armpit.

Lillyludge · 22/08/2014 13:33

Dear kitty1,

You are the sweetest little boy cat I've ever known. I love the way you just have to sit on someone's lap they minute they sit down even if they don't like cats and I love that you sleep on my bed next to my feet. I love that you put up with your annoying brother and never lose your temper with him.
However, please stop bringing live birds into the house...it's good that you don't always harm them, but they are quite difficult to catch and do make a mess everywhere.
Oh and I'm sorry that everyone thinks you're a girl...it's just that you're very pretty and well, they just assume... Smile

Dear kitty2

You are the friendliest little boy cat I've ever know. I love the way you come and say hello to everyone when they come in the house even hoards of small children don't phase you and I love that you acknowledge you're not a proficient hunter (like your brother) by bringing me empty crisp packets and leaves instead.
But please leave your brother alone and don't pounce on him when he's asleep...one day he'll bite you back!
Oh and I'm so glad you recovered from being hit by that car. I really thought I was going to lose you...please don't go near the road again xxx

ladymariner · 22/08/2014 14:01

Dear old boy Cat

We still love you just as much as we ever did, you were here first and even if you are slightly psychotic unusual in some of your ways we are used to you. We love it when you come and sit on our knees, you don't do it often enough, but you look so hurt sometimes when you see the noisy usurper cuddling up to me....please don't bite me when I try to stroke you too!
Oh and I am so glad you have got out of your obsession with coming into the toilet with me!!

Dear little fatgirl Cat

You are truly soooo pretty, it's difficult to believe anyone could be so wicked to you and make you have the horrible life you had before we got you. You make me laugh when you chatter away to me, I've nev known a cat be so vocal as you but it's lovely to hear....during that first week of coming to live with us when all you did was shake with fear and hide from us we did wonder if you would ever settle. It's wonderful to see you know, following me round and cuddling up to me.
Please be aware your brother was here first, and he does have issues, be nice to him, even though he can be a bit difficult at times!

Both of you, always know we love you very much xxx

soapybubbles123 · 22/08/2014 14:10

Dear FriendsFluffyCat

It was lovely when you came onto the bed to snuggle with me when I was pregnant and feeling horrible, maybe it had something to do with the catcrack treats that I bought with me. But Oh my Days does your breath honk, especially when I woke up with your nose touching mine.

Thank you though, really.

LisaJConway · 22/08/2014 14:56

Dear cat
Where did you hide my Monica Vinader ring, and false teeth?

deakymom · 22/08/2014 15:41

dear my two boys in pussycat heaven i miss you if your wondering why ive never got any more cats its because they would not be you you were unique in your funny ways the way big cat bob would play fetch with silver coins and once bought me a silver ring (which i still have) your obsession with plastic rings off milk bottles and deodorant tops was hysterical my dear tabby boy ive never met anyone as clean as you the way you washed for hours stopped to wash bob then started on yourself again was so sweet i hated seeing you with alzheimer's your bright eyes looking out with no recognition at all when you began drinking all day long we knew we had to put you out of your misery im sorry for that just two years after losing bob to cancer

to my little girl im sorry we had to rehome you i spoke to your new owner a month later he said you were happy now im so sad i couldnt keep you but you would not stop crying you hated being an only cat and the kids scare you when they try to come close you just wanted it to be you and the boys again i couldnt give you that so i gave you a home which was safe with another cat in there for you to play with and loads of mice for you to eat im sorry i never visit but i would just want to take you home and i miss you

former mad cat lady Sad

ladymariner · 22/08/2014 16:07

Flowers deaky xxxx

SirChin · 22/08/2014 16:24

Dear GuardCat,

  1. You are a cat, not a dog!
  2. You're crap at guarding! Do you really expect anyone/anything to be put off by a cute little ball of fluff constantly sleeping/washing herself on the front step - especially when you run off as soon as anyone/anything gets within 10 metres of you regardless of how 'asleep' you are?!

Your time-keeping is amazing though - around 7am to around 8pm every day with a brief lunch break around 1pm!

AND you're sooo cute if a little deluded so carry on as you are!

Love,

An Admirer

Jux · 22/08/2014 18:28

Dear BigBoy

You are a soppy old drooly thing. I will never forget when we first got you from CP how you hid behind the boxes in the conservatory and peeped out anxiously whenever I wandered in to see how you were getting on. And then you got brave and took over the house.

You were so kind to my poor old ancient girly when she'd gone senile and kept getting lost. She'd sit in the corridor between the kitxhen and sitting room and yowl. You'd rush out and guide her in, settle her down by the fire and lick her until she went to sleep. Remembering it still brings tears to my eyes 7 years on. You made sure her last months were comfortable.

As for the other ancient one! She did enjoy hiding behind things or around corners and leaping out to grab your bum.

Thank you, you soppy old drooly thing, for adding so much to the end of the lives.

I do love you, even when you're drooling all over my chest as you settle onto my lap.

xxx

Darksideofthemoon88 · 22/08/2014 20:15

Dear Oldest Cat: I love you, you grumpy thing. Sometimes you're really soft and sweet and it melts my heart, but when you hiss and spit and yowl it really worries me because I don't know if you hurt somewhere. I know you're stiff and can be uncomfortable after that RTA back when you were a kitten and I know that, at 15 years old, things aren't getting any easier for you. I hate to see you grumpy. It scares me. You've never been the friendliest of cats and you've never been one for too much fuss and attention though I know you care in your own way. I'm scared of losing you. I love you despite your grumpiness - and I reckon you love me too.

Dear Strong Young Cat: You prowl around like a mini-panther though your colouring betrays you. You're a handsome beast and I reckon you know it (though those meows are a little pathetic for a big strong boy-cat like you), and you could be so aloof if it wasn't for your soft nature. I love your loud rumbling purr and how you will literally throw yourself on your side for a tummy-rub. I was really impressed at how you rubbed up against my baby daughter the other week - I'd thought you'd be much more suspicious of her. Just as well you're not - I'm looking forward to your extended stay with my parents coming to an end and you moving back in with me!

Dear Little Dainty-Knickers: That squeak of yours is pathetic. What kind of cat can't meow?! I jest, I jest: it's very sweet, just like the rest of you. You're such a sweetie, but why don't you talk to me so much any more? I only sent you to live with my parents because I had to - this flat is no place for you. We used to be so close, and I'll never forget how as a tiny lost little kitten, you adopted me as your new mother and would nestle into my hair and try to suckle, thinking you were in the fur of your real mum's tummy. Poor little scrap that you were! You've grown so much; I never thought you'd make a normal-sized cat. I only hope you can forgive me for moving you had - I miss you all the time and I'm dying to have you back. Hopefully we can be the same again. I love you, little cat.

abigamarone · 22/08/2014 23:33

Dear black'n'white kitten, why will you only ever spend time curled up on my lap if I pretend not to have noticed you? I long to stroke you but as soon as I do you get up and move. You're so cuddleable I can't help myself.

ThomasLynn · 23/08/2014 01:32

BabyCat. How are you 8? How have I had you for five years? Gosh, we've been through a bit, you and me. 6 houses in three years, a whole relationship, a baby, a new relationship. You don't even flinch when we move house any more, just jump out of your carrier and decide where you want your bed. You're grumpy, and cranky, and bite me a lot, but then you curl up on my lap chewing my hand like a comfort thingy and I fall in love with your cranky arse all over again. You're so tiny! 5 kilos in your carrier, and so much fluff. Which you shed everywhere, always. Especially on my pillow.
I deeply appreciate how you always use the tray. I don't appreciate the way you use my mum's cane chair as your scratching post, you know this and stop the second you hear the nerf gun cocked.
I'm sorry I had to cart you from pillar to post when it was just us, especially as you're so hideously car-sick.
Of all my cats, you're my cat. My BabyCat, lapcat and grumpypants extraordinaire. Never change.

PatchyPoo, what the hell? Seriously. You're the most patient cat of catkind, sitting still for three year olds to pat you the wrong way, stretching and purring and farting in bliss, but you cannot wait one minute for me to scoop the one, lone poop and shit off the side, instead. Why? Oh, and please stop trying to go outside. You just cost me $1500 in vet bills, you're not leaving this house until you are 100% in working order. Stop.
You've shredded my dining table and the chairs are going the same way. You don't flinch when a nerf shotgun is emptied two inches from your front paws, purr in bliss when squirted with water and peed everywhere when I wrapped the legs of the table in carpet. Despite all this, I will miss you hugely when your Real Mummy moves and can have you back, I'll miss your cuddles and your head bonks. DD will pine for you, just as your Real Mummy does now.

Bootiebum. Of all my cats, we've had the rockiest of relationships. First you scratch me so hard I needed a stitch. Then you freak out if anybody so much as breathes next to you, and finally you tried to have a show-down with BabyCat. The vet bill from that was substantial. You observe one poop in the tray, and proceed to poop in the bath, no matter how many are in there. You're a spunky thing, I'll give you that. You're not a lap cat, but I love how you sit so close to me I can feel your little heartbeat, and clean my trackies with deep concentration. Cutie.

Ebi, my little fraidycat. You're still so nervous, aren't you? You used to bolt to the other side of the house if anyone considered perhaps maybe looking at you, but yesterday I walked past you in the kitchen and you stayed still! Mummy has never been more proud. You came for cuddles this morning, too, purring and head-bonking and chirping. You've come a long way, Ebi. Mummy's proud.

Hmm. Essay on my cats.

patienceisvirtuous · 23/08/2014 09:09

Dear Cat no1. I love you with all my heart. So does your dad. You truly are a cat in a million. You are the sweetest little soul and I wouldn't be without you. I am glad you're only two. Please let's have at least another twenty years together. I hope you are happy we got you a new little sister to keep you company. I knew you'd be patient and kind with her, even when she relentlessly dives on you. You smother her with cuddles and kicks. That's because you are special. I will be at your whim as long as you'll have me :)

Dear cat no2. You are a sweet, funny, adorable little thing. You make me laugh when you wander out to greet me when I get in from work with sleepy eyes :) I love it when you knead on me for ages when I am in bed then I wake up and you're sound asleep on my chest. Please be nice to your big sister. She has a very gentle nature and sometimes your play-attacks frighten her. She does love you though, as you know because she grooms you and snuggles you whenever she gets the chance.

You both make our days brighter. And we would clean a 100 litter trays a day if it was the difference between having you and not having you.

Love, your humans x

patienceisvirtuous · 23/08/2014 09:10

*cuddles and licks

cuddles and kicks wouldn't be nice Blush

catsofa · 23/08/2014 23:21

Dear cat,

I just found out that I'm going to have a baby. I hope you'll be ok with that. Please cuddle me and help me through this massive scary change in my life, just like you helped when my mum died. I couldn't bear for anyone else to touch me, but snuggling up with you was lovely and you were so sweet to me when I cried. Thank you.

What do you think we should name the baby?

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catsofa · 23/08/2014 23:22

Raeaow? How do you spell that? It's quite nice...

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LastingLight · 24/08/2014 08:57

Congratulations catsofa!

catsofa · 24/08/2014 17:13

Thank you! I'm more worried about the cat's reaction than anyone else's...

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ThisFenceIsComfy · 24/08/2014 21:13

Congrats Catsofa! My cat was okay about the baby but absolutely furious when he grew into a toddler.

ElectricalBanana · 24/08/2014 21:22

Dear cat

You are now 19 yrs old and we know we are on borrowed time. What we will do when you go I don't know. You have been DD2s best friend since she was 3 and now she is 22. You know she has autism and global delay and react kindly and patiently when she grabs you for cuddles.
You are exactly the same with the little folk I childmind, your name is usually the first word they say.
Why do you only eat fish based food in pouches yet will eat beef and chicken off our plates?

We love you so much even though you smell a bit now...

TrustMeImLying · 24/08/2014 21:53

Dear Cat,

My eyelashes are not your toy, I really don't like you trying to chew them in the middle of the night.

Also, I know you are very very proud that you have learnt to fetch but after an hour I do start getting bored. Sorry about that.

You are the most awesome little thing in my life and in so glad I got you.

Love the giant scratching post xx

LuluJakey1 · 28/08/2014 00:23

Dear Cats
We love you both very much. However, being your concierge can be exhausting at 2 am and 3 am when you meow and tap at the bedroom window to come in.
We would also appreciate it if you did not bring us a vole or a mouse in at that time and throw it under the bed. We understand they are gifts and are very grateful but it is just the timing- trying to retrieve them in the dark is not easy.
I am particularly honoured that you use me as a cushion and comb my hair with your paws. Your dad is very touched by the Whiskas whiskers you kiss him with after you have had your tea.
You are both very entertaining when you have a mad half hour together.
We don't know what we would do without you both. We promise you will not have your little noses pushed out when the baby arrives.
Thank you for allowing us to be your staff.

catsofa · 02/09/2014 19:09

Dear Cat,

The sweet almond oil is supposed to help me not get stretch marks. It may smell very very tasty, but please do not wriggle under the covers and try to lick it all off my belly in the middle of the night, you are very tickly!

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LastingLight · 02/09/2014 19:46

Grin Thanks for the laugh Catsofa, I needed it. I once had lavender hand cream that my old boy just couldn't resist... I would rub cream on my hands and he would lovingly lick it all off again.

heronsfly · 02/09/2014 20:04

Dear Cat.
When I have just got settled in bed after spending five minutes calling you, please don't yowl under my open bedroom window I always get up and let him in
When you have been rolling in the smelly, dirty ditch why do you always choose my bed to have a nice wash on.
Why will you only eat pouches and turn your nose up at tins ?
Will you please stop walking up and down the fence laughing at next doors dogs.
You are the beautiful kitten we got after losing our two lovely old boys one after the other Sad you have grown into a huge ginger fluffy furball that rules the house and we love you Grin

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