Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

The doghouse

If you're worried about your pet's health, please speak to a vet or qualified professional.

Someone thought my dog was an XL bully

171 replies

listsandbudgets · 04/10/2023 21:41

walking towards us on the pavement and loudly telling her kids to be careful of that awful XLA bulley dog and walk away from it...

I wouldn't mind so much if she looked a bit more like a bulldog of almost any variety but our lovely dog is a Sprocker..

say it just underlined for me how negative some people are becoming about dogs with all the recent news

OP posts:
Thread gallery
38
margotrose · 05/10/2023 18:42

NosnowontheScottishhills · 05/10/2023 18:25

If it doesn’t matter why call someone out if they go round “talking bollocks” it just seems unnecessary and rude.
Im not trying to be goady I just don’t get it. I work in a very specialised field but many people think they know about it and talk totally unresearched shit about it all the time I just ignore it, unless specifically asked. I know about cows and a lot about horses no one talks more bollocks than horse people again if I hear people talking crap I just ignore it as long as it’s not directly impacting on me and my horses who cares? Why be so unpleasant to people? Some people genuinely don’t know about dogs and dogs breeds they obviously have chosen not to know so what?

I haven't said I go up to random people in the street and accuse them of talking bollocks.

But I will refer to them as talking bollocks because well, they are Grin

I also don't believe that it's rude to call a grown adult out on spouting nonsense.

WhileMyDishwasherGentlyWeeps · 05/10/2023 19:31

margotrose · 05/10/2023 18:42

I haven't said I go up to random people in the street and accuse them of talking bollocks.

But I will refer to them as talking bollocks because well, they are Grin

I also don't believe that it's rude to call a grown adult out on spouting nonsense.

Edited

I don’t get this upset.

if I heard a passer-by telling their child that some tiny rat-on-a-lead sized dog was an Irish Wolfhound I’d think they were joking, or had very bad eye-sight, or - most probably - were just confused about what a particular dog breed looks like. I wouldn’t think it was “spouting bollocks” and that I’d be entitled to “call them out”.

Why does it matter?

Spudlet · 05/10/2023 19:37

People seem to be ignoring the fact that the woman was very rude - calling the dog 'awful' and speaking loudly (which to my mind is to involve others - it's passive aggressive 'performance outrage'). Just getting a breed wrong is one thing, we may roll our eyes a little internally, but it's hardly a terrible sin. But this was simple bad manners on the part of this person. Why should we then all be feeling terrible about calling out her bad behaviour? She acted like a muppet, not in terms of her mistake but in terms of her behaviour. Cap fits and all that.

margotrose · 05/10/2023 19:37

Blimey, you're like a dog with a bone @WhileMyDishwasherGentlyWeeps - different things are allowed to matter to different people, you don't need to understand it!

WhileMyDishwasherGentlyWeeps · 05/10/2023 19:50

margotrose · 05/10/2023 19:37

Blimey, you're like a dog with a bone @WhileMyDishwasherGentlyWeeps - different things are allowed to matter to different people, you don't need to understand it!

Edited

I’ve only responded once to one pp about dog awareness. 🤷‍♀️

sunnyseed · 05/10/2023 19:50

listsandbudgets · 05/10/2023 05:52

@HappiestSleeping This one is for you.

brilliant user name by the way. Its 5.50am and I'd love to be sleeping but the stupid cats woke me up

Oh my your dog is adorable 🥰 What kind of person would be stupid enough to confuse a Sprocker for an XL Bulley.

margotrose · 05/10/2023 20:00

WhileMyDishwasherGentlyWeeps · 05/10/2023 19:50

I’ve only responded once to one pp about dog awareness. 🤷‍♀️

Edited

Apologies, I got you mixed up with @NosnowontheScottishhills .

But the point still stands - people are allowed to be bothered by different things - it's not something you need to understand.

But for the record, I guess it matters because XL bullies are all over the media as problem dogs and lots of people (fairly understandably) don't want to be thought of as XL bully owners, or don't want their dogs to be seen as dangerous.

Also, I guess I just don't see the point in pretending you know what you're talking about - if you don't know a breed, just say so, or ask. Making stuff up (and being rude about it, as in the OP) just marks you out as a bit of an idiot, really.

WhileMyDishwasherGentlyWeeps · 05/10/2023 20:02

margotrose · 05/10/2023 20:00

Apologies, I got you mixed up with @NosnowontheScottishhills .

But the point still stands - people are allowed to be bothered by different things - it's not something you need to understand.

But for the record, I guess it matters because XL bullies are all over the media as problem dogs and lots of people (fairly understandably) don't want to be thought of as XL bully owners, or don't want their dogs to be seen as dangerous.

Also, I guess I just don't see the point in pretending you know what you're talking about - if you don't know a breed, just say so, or ask. Making stuff up (and being rude about it, as in the OP) just marks you out as a bit of an idiot, really.

Fair dos. All good.

pigsDOfly · 05/10/2023 20:17

Years ago when my now 12 year old dog was a puppy that weighed probably no more than 5kilo I was passed in the street by a women with a young child.

The woman grabbed hold of the child, pulled her into a shop doorway and in a very loud angry voice told the child 'don't go near that dog'.

The child had made no attempt to go near my dog and my dog had made no attempt to go near her child.

People can be very strange.

onwardsup4 · 05/10/2023 20:53

listsandbudgets · 05/10/2023 05:52

@HappiestSleeping This one is for you.

brilliant user name by the way. Its 5.50am and I'd love to be sleeping but the stupid cats woke me up

Awwww 🥰 this made me laugh out load though XL bully 🤣😂

listsandbudgets · 05/10/2023 20:59

My poor XL bully/sprocker has had an awful day - she ate SOMETHING NASTY probably in a bush in the park and spent all afternoon drooling so heavily my sofa is going to need cleaning as is the carpet... then she was sick really sick and started shaking. Had to take her to the V-E-T for checking over and anti nausea injection. He thinks she's eaten something mouldy and they'll take bloods if shes dosen't seem better by tomorrow afternoon. Right now though injection doing it's job and she's just wolfed down her dinner and is trying to steal mine...

She was so sad Sad

OP posts:
margotrose · 05/10/2023 21:21

Oh no - fingers crossed she makes a quick recovery OP.

Mine once made himself horribly sick eating goose poo - they really are grim!

TheCupboardUnderTheStairsAtTheMojoDojoCasaHouse · 05/10/2023 22:09

listsandbudgets · 05/10/2023 20:59

My poor XL bully/sprocker has had an awful day - she ate SOMETHING NASTY probably in a bush in the park and spent all afternoon drooling so heavily my sofa is going to need cleaning as is the carpet... then she was sick really sick and started shaking. Had to take her to the V-E-T for checking over and anti nausea injection. He thinks she's eaten something mouldy and they'll take bloods if shes dosen't seem better by tomorrow afternoon. Right now though injection doing it's job and she's just wolfed down her dinner and is trying to steal mine...

She was so sad Sad

Was it a baby she ate? Those small bones can be a bit tricky to digest when swallowed Grin

Sonolanona · 06/10/2023 01:11

Ah Op , I hope your dangerous XL Bully makes a swift Sprocker recovery.. it's awful when they are poorly :(

Mine is a rare breed.
We've had many guesses as to what she is...
but she's 25 kg, so a largish dog.

'Is she a giant Pomeranian'? is my favourite so far.
Along with 'Oh look it's a wolf...!' (!!!!!)
And no, she's not a GSD crossed with anything...!!

Someone thought my dog was an XL bully
Newestname002 · 06/10/2023 02:30

Memba · 05/10/2023 17:19

It's an easy mistake to make. Here's my two XL Bullies.

They look like they should be sitting around the boardroom table at no.10. I'm sure they couldn't do a worse job. 🌹

listsandbudgets · 06/10/2023 07:34

she's gorgeous .. I have nonodea what she is but I'd hazard a guess that SHE thinks she's a lapdog

OP posts:
lilyblue5 · 06/10/2023 08:44

@Sonolanona gorgeous! Also no idea..

@listsandbudgets how is she today?

Bandolina · 06/10/2023 09:05

We have a lot of guesses at what our dog is (not XL bully so far he's a bit floofy for that)

Common guesses
Old English Sheepdog
Bearded Collie
Labradoodle
Wolfhound

My favourite from a 3 year old admirer
Polar bear

In fact we don't really know what he is as he is a rescue but most likely a Romanian Mioritic sheepdog cross.

Someone thought my dog was an XL bully
Someone thought my dog was an XL bully
Someone thought my dog was an XL bully
Novemberish · 06/10/2023 09:26

I had a similar situation a few years ago (pre-covid) when walking my very elderly, 14 year old (yes, it was a bit of a miracle), King Carles Spaniel. She was on a short lead and not so much walking as shuffling along at a painfully slow pace, keeping as close to my legs as possible. I know this sounds like she was in discomfort but I promise you she was happy and these walks/shuffles were the best part of her day. She was tiny, even for a KCS and happy snuffling along the country path beside me. For context, this path is wide enought to frequently accommodate horses wriding four-abreast.

Anyway, we were wandering along on one side of the pathway - I always stayed well to the side because we were so slow and didn't want to get in others' way - when a bloke with two young kids appeared, walking in the other direction. The kids started screaming that there was a dog and the father strode up towards me with his hand outstretched telling me to keep that dog away from his kids. I was very pleasant and polite, agreeing that of course, he had no need to worry.

"it needs to be on a lead", he said. So, slightly puzzled, I showed him the very obvious lead in my hand and assured hm I had no intention of letting her loose as well as pointing out the ample amount of space availble for us to pass each other. He kept yelling at me that "if that thing attacks my kids, I'll see you in jail" - fair enough but there has honestly never been a less threatening dog in existence and I did wonder how they would cope with an exubriant labrador on the path.

I offered to wait at the side until they had passed but he kept yelling that he wasn't taking his kids anywhere near an out of control dog. By this point, because we had stopped for so long, DDog had yawned and lain down on the path for a snooze. She had never been reactive to loud noises so the yelling from the bloke and screaming from the kids didn't bother her. I ended up picking her up and walking on with her in my arms, while the bloke continued to yell at me for having a dangerous dog.

I do understand and sympathise with thise who have phobias. I have a couple of debilitating phobias myself (not animal related) so always try to put myself in the shoes of others when I see they are uncomfrotable and will do what I can to make things easier. One of my close friends doesn't like dogs and I'd always ensure our dog is shut away upstairs when she visits - this is reasonable. Likewise, I always walks dogs on leads other than in designated of-lead parks and beaches. When I see someone is uncomfortable, I'll ensure the dog is kept as far away from them and as close to me as possible. I also understand that people who have not grown up around dogs and have no interest in them are unlikely to know breeds and probably couldn't tell a labrador from a malamut. That's fine - there's no onus on them to know that. What I do think is reasonable though is that people are able toa ssess a situation and understand that not all dogs are dangerous, not all owners are bloodthirsty or irresponsible and to find coping strategies, whatever that might mean for an individual. We are a nation of dog lovers and they are not going to disappear from society.

Jenzine · 06/10/2023 10:13

@Sonolanona finnish lapphund??

Sonolanona · 06/10/2023 19:18

Jenzine No, but she is a Northern breed..sort of!
She's a Eurasier :)

listsandbudgets · 06/10/2023 19:24

@Sonolanona For some reason she puts me in the mind of an extra fluffy Finnish Spitz though I'm sure she's not one

OP posts:
PugInTheHouse · 17/10/2023 22:22

I get asked if my dog is a wolf quite regularly, not just by children. I am baffled that people think I am just wandering around with a wolf on a lead. Hrs an alaskan malamute and obviously gets mistaken for a husky a lot also, they actually look quite different I think but I get why people would make that mistake.

I also have a pug, he's never been mistaken for a doberman but he thinks he could take one on.

I've only ever met 1 XL bully, he was a pup and very sweet. They do make me nervous, due to the press I am guessing as I haven't had any personal bad experiences or even heard of any first hand or local to me.

Someone thought my dog was an XL bully
Someone thought my dog was an XL bully
WhileMyDishwasherGentlyWeeps · 17/10/2023 22:54

On the day of yet another awful attack by one of these wretched dogs…

AllTheChaos · 18/10/2023 09:27

Sonolanona · 06/10/2023 01:11

Ah Op , I hope your dangerous XL Bully makes a swift Sprocker recovery.. it's awful when they are poorly :(

Mine is a rare breed.
We've had many guesses as to what she is...
but she's 25 kg, so a largish dog.

'Is she a giant Pomeranian'? is my favourite so far.
Along with 'Oh look it's a wolf...!' (!!!!!)
And no, she's not a GSD crossed with anything...!!

I cannot guess the breed except that she is a cuddle bug! Gorgeous!