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Adopting an old boy - am I crazy?

223 replies

ladybee28 · 24/04/2020 21:31

Have been toying with the idea of dog ownership ever since I settled in a new country 4 years ago.

I grew up with dogs, spent a lot of my 20s working on farms around the world, and recently moved into a rental, alone, in a pretty rural area in Spain. Now feels like it might be 'the time'.

If I go ahead with getting a pooch, I want it to be an adoption - and I'm not bothered about having a 'cute puppy'. Perfectly happy to skip that (and the teenager stage, and the chewing, and the toilet training, etc.) and just focus on settling an adult dog into their new home and building a relationship.

And now I've seen an old fellow. He's 10, but in good health. Chilled, well-behaved, gets on with other animals, happy in cars, walks well on a leash, great recall... and he looks like he probably drinks whisky, plays a mean game of cards and has some stories to tell.

Not going to lie, he seems too good to be true.

I've sent the refuge a message to find out more, but taking a step back for a second, am I being ridiculous here?

Am I setting myself up to fall madly in love with a hound I'm probably going to lose within a few years?

What are the sensible questions I should be asking myself before I let the love-mist set in completely?

I would of course get pet insurance and make sure vet bills etc. were covered, but what else should I consider before I think about committing to an OAP?

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XelaM · 20/04/2021 16:04

Awwww this has got to be the loveliest thread on Mumsnet!!

XelaM · 20/04/2021 16:04

And Happy Birthday Morgan!

hiptobeasquare · 20/04/2021 16:13

This is one of the nicest threads I have ever read. Smile

ilovecardigans · 20/04/2021 17:41

Just... wonderful. 💕

Happy birthday, Morgan. x

Letsnotargue · 20/04/2021 18:41

What a lovely update. What a good job you decided to go and get him - sometimes you just know.

Happy Birthday Morgan, wishing you many more healthy and happy years.

Ellmau · 20/04/2021 19:00

So lovely :)

Happy birthday Morgan!

Icequeen01 · 20/04/2021 23:23

Oh what a treat to see your lovely up date. I often think of Morgan and wonder how he is getting on! What a fabulous life you have given him. Happy Birthday Morgan 🎉🎉🎉

Anordinarymum · 20/04/2021 23:28

@ladybee28

Have been toying with the idea of dog ownership ever since I settled in a new country 4 years ago.

I grew up with dogs, spent a lot of my 20s working on farms around the world, and recently moved into a rental, alone, in a pretty rural area in Spain. Now feels like it might be 'the time'.

If I go ahead with getting a pooch, I want it to be an adoption - and I'm not bothered about having a 'cute puppy'. Perfectly happy to skip that (and the teenager stage, and the chewing, and the toilet training, etc.) and just focus on settling an adult dog into their new home and building a relationship.

And now I've seen an old fellow. He's 10, but in good health. Chilled, well-behaved, gets on with other animals, happy in cars, walks well on a leash, great recall... and he looks like he probably drinks whisky, plays a mean game of cards and has some stories to tell.

Not going to lie, he seems too good to be true.

I've sent the refuge a message to find out more, but taking a step back for a second, am I being ridiculous here?

Am I setting myself up to fall madly in love with a hound I'm probably going to lose within a few years?

What are the sensible questions I should be asking myself before I let the love-mist set in completely?

I would of course get pet insurance and make sure vet bills etc. were covered, but what else should I consider before I think about committing to an OAP?

I think you are wonderful and I don't even know you x x x
DoomscroIIer · 20/04/2021 23:39

I'm not crying, you're crying.
Happy Birthday Morgan. OP, just the loveliest thread. Thank you x

ILovesPeanuts · 20/04/2021 23:51

First time I've seen this thread and what a kind earnest looking boy he is! Utterly gorgeous and he's proper lucked out with his forever home.

ladybee28 · 21/04/2021 09:15

Ahhh, thanks everyone!

He's a very loved old chap –and I think we do pretty good together.

And thank you @Icequeen01 for taking time to think of us every now and again –you and @Lurleene (and @fivedogstofeed, and @Windyatthebeach, and @BoreOfWhabylon, and @AbsolomChautney, and @pigsDOfly, and @Scattyhattie, and so many others) were all such a help and a reassurance in those early days.

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Lurleene · 21/04/2021 10:17

Oh thanks so much for tagging me @ladybee28, I missed this yesterday. Morgan looks so dapper in his birthday outfit! #bowtiesarecool A very happy belated birthday to him, I hope he enjoyed his special dinner. So lovely to have an update, DS and I saw a similar looking dog the other day that we christened a Morganalike. Thanks very much, you've made my day Smile

somethinginthewater · 21/04/2021 15:43

This is so lovely!
Thanks for the tag - I've name changed and not here much these days so would have missed this.
He's a gorgeous boy and so deserves the lovely life you're giving him.

BatleyTownswomensGuild · 24/04/2021 08:42

This story has absolutely been one of the best things on Mumsnet in years....

Happy Birthday Beautiful Boy! 😍

pigsDOfly · 24/04/2021 19:08

Oh, I missed this on the day.

How lovely to see your update.

Many happy, belated, birthday wishes Morgan. I'm sure you gave him a wonderful day.

So pleased to see you're still having lovely times together.

BiteyShark · 24/04/2021 19:18

Awww he looks so happy. What a lovely update Grin

tattychicken · 08/06/2021 21:34

Missed the update! Loving the birthday photo. Hope he's still whipping your arse at chess. ❤️

ladybee28 · 24/06/2021 09:11

Can you believe it's been a year already?

I thought it was tomorrow, and then popped in here to check and our anniversary was the 22nd!

How time flies! Morgan sends his love to you all - he's been making friends with the tortoise and enjoying long summer afternoon walks...

Adopting an old boy - am I crazy?
Adopting an old boy - am I crazy?
Adopting an old boy - am I crazy?
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Ellmau · 24/06/2021 18:54

The best year of his life!

Sisisimone · 25/06/2021 10:26

What a lovely, lovely thread OP. He is gorgeous 😍. You're both really lucky to have found each other

pigsDOfly · 25/06/2021 15:31

What a lovely update.

I can see you're still as besotted as ever Grin and Morgan is still just as handsome.

Here's to many more wonderful years together for you both Wine

spiderlight · 25/06/2021 16:37

I love him and I love this thread!

TeanupFlutter · 26/06/2021 14:12

He is awesome OP and so are you. Only just came across this thread and it's made my day, all the best to both of you.

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