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Adopting an old boy - am I crazy?

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ladybee28 · 24/04/2020 21:31

Have been toying with the idea of dog ownership ever since I settled in a new country 4 years ago.

I grew up with dogs, spent a lot of my 20s working on farms around the world, and recently moved into a rental, alone, in a pretty rural area in Spain. Now feels like it might be 'the time'.

If I go ahead with getting a pooch, I want it to be an adoption - and I'm not bothered about having a 'cute puppy'. Perfectly happy to skip that (and the teenager stage, and the chewing, and the toilet training, etc.) and just focus on settling an adult dog into their new home and building a relationship.

And now I've seen an old fellow. He's 10, but in good health. Chilled, well-behaved, gets on with other animals, happy in cars, walks well on a leash, great recall... and he looks like he probably drinks whisky, plays a mean game of cards and has some stories to tell.

Not going to lie, he seems too good to be true.

I've sent the refuge a message to find out more, but taking a step back for a second, am I being ridiculous here?

Am I setting myself up to fall madly in love with a hound I'm probably going to lose within a few years?

What are the sensible questions I should be asking myself before I let the love-mist set in completely?

I would of course get pet insurance and make sure vet bills etc. were covered, but what else should I consider before I think about committing to an OAP?

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ladybee28 · 11/12/2020 16:41

Ah, @Lurleene and @DaughterOfEvilReindeer you've both just sent me all emotional – thank you so much for thinking of us!

Morgan is HEAVENLY.

We've had quite the adventures already - he has congestive heart failure and arthrosis in his spine and ankles. But after lots of medication and time spent learning what he needs, he's like a totally different dog.

The panting and exhaustion is virtually non-existent now, and he goes bounding around in the valley beside my house like a puppy. Zoomies every day!

He's so full of character and has the most communicative face –he has long conversations with strangers in the street and wakes me up every morning by resting his head on the edge of the bed and huffing excitedly up my nose.

He has some dog friends, although he's not quite sure what to do with them –he runs excitedly up to them and then looks at me for instructions... no idea how to play with other dogs, but he does play with ME quite a lot, so I guess he's learning?!

We do seem to be back and forth to the vets a lot – most recently it's a haematoma in his ear flap. I guess it's all part of having an older dog... We're working on the separation anxiety, and it's taking a while. Trying to remind myself that my freedom is worth some patience!

But honestly, I could not conceive of a better dog –he's just amazing.

And so are all of you, for thinking of us and checking in.

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Lurleene · 11/12/2020 21:17

Oh thank you so much for updating, that's completely made my day! It's amazing to see your new pics, he is such a character, it just jumps out of the photos. I'm so pleased it has worked out for you both, and he has you to take care of him. You are the love story of the year Smile. I hope you both have a lovely first Christmas together.

userxx · 11/12/2020 21:32

I can't believe how quickly the time has gone!! Clearly something is working out well for Morgan because he looks younger than when he arrived!! He's landed on his paws. Beautiful boy 😍

dudsville · 11/12/2020 21:33

What a beautiful thread OP, and I wouldn't have had the joy of it if you hadn't updated as I missed it the 1st time around. Sounds like you have a lovely household.

Santaisironingwrappingpaper · 11/12/2020 21:35

Hope you have a magical Christmas op! He looks like he needs a festive hat or bandana!

ladybee28 · 11/12/2020 21:49

@Santaisironingwrappingpaper like this, you mean? Grin

He'll be wearing a dapper little bow tie for Christmas Day but he did an excellent reindeer impression at my friend's house the other week...

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Santaisironingwrappingpaper · 11/12/2020 22:01

He looks so excited for Santa coming!!

Iusedtobecarmen · 11/12/2020 22:08

Ive just cried at this.
Skimmed the thread si may have missed the ending

No brainer. OP, even if you have the dog 6 mths. He will have had a happy settled life and be loved.
He will have enriched your life, even though traumatic for you to lose him.

nicky7654 · 11/12/2020 22:08

I am going to rescue older dogs when my two pass. I want to give old dogs a few years of love and peace before they die.

Iusedtobecarmen · 11/12/2020 22:09

Omg
You have him. Im so behind. Hes adorable.

Santaisironingwrappingpaper · 11/12/2020 22:11

Our ddog is now 10/11. We have had her 3 years. Dh is sure she is acting younger each year!
She had 10 teeth out a year ago and is so gappy!!

coastergirl · 11/12/2020 22:17

I've just found this thread for the first time and I'm completely in love with Morgan! So happy that you and he found each other. I'll be following from now on.

Nohomemadecandles · 11/12/2020 22:19

I love him. If he ever needs a holiday...

He just looks so... Happy!

Serialcatmum · 11/12/2020 22:25

After a really shitty day I needed this.

Of course I’m not crying 😢😳

Hope you’re loving living the best life together!

moglovesmincepies · 11/12/2020 22:26

Op what a wonderful thing to do. He is gorgeous!

Honeyroar · 11/12/2020 22:27

Aw how lovely. So pleased to see this update. No wonder he’s got separation anxiety- he must think you’re the best thing that ever happened to him.

shinynewapple2020 · 11/12/2020 22:34

Lovely pictures @ladybee28
Glad he's settled in Smile

ColonelNobbyNobbs · 11/12/2020 22:36

Oh he’s just beautiful 😍😍😍. He looks so happy too. Happy Christmas Morgan and OP

Nicknamegoeshere · 11/12/2020 22:59

I rehomed a dog when she was about 8/9. She was so very loved, no regrets. Had her for almost six years. She passed away peacefully earlier this year. Sorely missed by us all.

pigsDOfly · 11/12/2020 23:53

I followed your thread from the beginning. You sounded so lovely and it was clear your gorgeous Morgan had stolen your heart and you his.

I'm so pleased to see your update.

It's lovely to see the recent photos he looks so happy and relaxed and very smart in his antlers.

Clearly he feels he's fallen on his paws with you.

Lucky dog, and lucky you to have found such a lovely old fellow.

HildegardeCrowe · 12/12/2020 00:11

What an beautiful dog OP with such character in his face. I haven’t read the whole thread but think it’s wonderful that you took on an older dog. My old boy is 13 now and brings me more happiness than ever. Hopefully you’ll have plenty of time together - you’re so lucky to have found eachother.

TheWeightOfWords · 13/12/2020 01:28

Lovely story. I hope Santa visits him.

TheWeightOfWords · 13/12/2020 01:30

PS: he really does look very shepherd in one of those photos, but also looks very much like a fox in the one where he's curled round. He's gorgeous. 🦊

ladybee28 · 20/04/2021 14:41

Hello you lovely bunch.

Just popping in here for a very small update, since it's Morgan's birthday today and he wanted to thank you all for tipping me over the edge to go get him 10 months ago.

At the ripe old age of 11, he is currently watching Chicken TV through the oven window as his dinner roasts, and feeling pretty lucky (I think) to have made it out of the refuge last year and into a home with someone who loves him so much it's actually a bit awkward.

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mumsiedarlingrevolta · 20/04/2021 14:52

I admit to having a little cry over this- what a lovely lovely happy ending for both of you!!

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