Bloody disaster
Took dd to a birthday party and dh stayed home with ds and the dogs. BIL came round with niece. Got home home to find madam anxious as all hell, panting like mad and back end soaked her she’s wet herself in nervousness.
She had actually bit my niece. Just above her lip. Hard enough to make bleed but not hard enough to leave a scar.
I’m devastated. I knew madam was having some anxiety issues which is why I keep telling the kids to leave her alone and only give her attention when she wants it. Mine are 3 (nearly 4) and 5 (nearly 6) so old enough to understand and follow instructions but niece is only 2 and whilst she’s very capable she also has usual toddler impulse controls.
I’m currently sat upstairs with both of them who have immediately settled down and gone to sleep. I’ll stay up here with them until BIL and niece leave but I’m so stuck on what to do.
Her anxiety is rocketing. She growls every time someone enters the room (apart from me) she’s become increasingly protective of me too. Doesn’t like anyone else near me. I am pushing her away when she starts getting protective because I don’t want her biting anybody. But the fact I wasn’t home and she still bit worries me
I have an adaptil plug in, which doesn’t really seem to be doing sweet fuck all.
I haven’t got the funds for vets just yet but they will be next on the list.
I’m hoping they might be able to give her some anti-anxiety or something. I’m so stuck 