What an utterly depressing programme.
The poor child has spent her life looking after her siblings and now she is married off to a life of servitude to her husband and children. No wonder they go so OTT on her wedding, it is the only time in her life she will feel like the 'number one' or even on the agenda. Poor bugger.
Let her have her meringue dress and fairy tale cake, after that the fairy tale is over with a bang. 