AliGryllis, in the programme, when Juliet was asked why she didn't leave, she only said "I had nowhere to go". I really would have liked them to have just pushed that answer a Bit more. The character would have done a lot for women trapped in domestic hell if she'd said "he checks my visa payments on line every day" or "we don't have a joint account" or, he put "my savings into his savings account" or EVEN, (not this severe in my case) but I don't have my own atm card, my partner gives me cash when I ask for it.
Her just saying "i had nowhere to go" must have sounded so lame to the vast majority of people who haven't suffered "financial abuse".
Having NOWHERE to go and no money when you get there is actually the number ONE reason for not leaving I would guess. The ol' cliche of women saying I love them is just part of a facade I think. It's what you say when you want people to believe that there's no problem, look the other way, don't pity ME!
iykwim. good programme, but it could have said more i think.