NRTFT, but I found it frustrating! Dr Max Pemerton is a scientist and he should know his experience of ADHD is anecdotal, as is the case of Max. It takes RCT to establish
reliable outcomes at population level.
One person with ADHD is just one person. Three people in my family have ADHD and they all present differently. DH has had to work harder, but he has been a successful professional, as Dr Pemberton clearly has. However, I do all the life admin and organisation in our house. The mortgage company would have repossessed the house, and the gas and electricity would have been cut off long ago, if it were left to DH!
DD2 imo is more severely affected than DH, and she hasn’t developed his coping strategies. She can’t keep a job, and cannot live independently. She can’t drive or cook with three saucepans, because it’s too complicated for her limited attention. She doesn’t understand what people are saying, she doesn’t understand what she reads or films/tv programs of length. IMO, it’s complicated by autism, but she turned down an assessment as an adult.
She was on methylphenidate for years, as an adult and it enabled her to do a job, that required precision. She found its effects to be positive - she didn’t make silly mistakes and she wasn’t as emotionally volatile. She didn’t walk out of jobs, while she was on it.
DGD is also more severely affected than DH. She can’t learn in a mainstream classroom, because of specific learning difficulties, which could be alleviated by medication; and she struggles socially, because of autistic traits.
It’s all very well professionals saying children shouldn’t be medicated to fit into our education system; but when they cannot understand what is going on, that’s not just about suppressing lively behaviour.