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MAFSAUS#13 NO SPOILERS Fingers, mingers and zingers, get your pecs out for the lasses if you can get over THE HURT

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TinselAngel · 16/04/2026 22:07

Off we go…

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ruethewhirl · 18/04/2026 16:08

JellyBeanSpring25 · 18/04/2026 09:57

If Bec dislikes Gia so much, why is she messaging her?

This is what I've been wondering too... it doesn't add up. I think pp upthread might have been right that Gia either doesn't have 'receipts' (agree she couldn't have resisted showing them if so!) or has faked something.

ruethewhirl · 18/04/2026 16:12

WallaceinAnderland · 18/04/2026 14:47

So it was Stevo all along that caused the hoo ha.

Rach told Alissa the details, Alissa told everyone else. Bec said to Steven 'Good to hear you got a finger in' and Steven said.... 'Who says it was just one finger' and they all laughed. Alissa said keep it PG and then Becsstood up and made her speech thinking Steven was happy joking about it too!

That changes everything. Steven would never have admitted that if he hadn't been caught on camera.

I didn't know that!! (missed parts of the retreat episodes, got it on catchup atm) That's so disrespectful and must have made Rachel feel like a piece of meat, although she does seem too emotionally fragile for her own good.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/04/2026 16:19

Wtafmakeitstop · 18/04/2026 14:07

omfg, I’m watching After and howling with laughter at the solemn conversation about finger banging. How can the presenters keep a straight face?

I know. It’s so cringey.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/04/2026 16:20

ruethewhirl · 18/04/2026 16:12

I didn't know that!! (missed parts of the retreat episodes, got it on catchup atm) That's so disrespectful and must have made Rachel feel like a piece of meat, although she does seem too emotionally fragile for her own good.

I knew Alissa told everyone else. What a c u next Tuesday.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/04/2026 16:21

ruethewhirl · 18/04/2026 16:12

I didn't know that!! (missed parts of the retreat episodes, got it on catchup atm) That's so disrespectful and must have made Rachel feel like a piece of meat, although she does seem too emotionally fragile for her own good.

Why is Stevo doing that? It’s unkind.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/04/2026 16:21

stayathomegardener · 18/04/2026 14:59

They must have some access to social media even if via screenshots from friends as Mel found out early on Luke’s family were slating her on facebook.

Yes agreed.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/04/2026 16:22

Dantalya · 18/04/2026 12:26

At least you didn’t send in an application for the next MAFSUK.

Stevo apparently signed up when he was drunk at the pub. Bet he regrets it now.

WallaceinAnderland · 18/04/2026 16:24

ruethewhirl · 18/04/2026 16:12

I didn't know that!! (missed parts of the retreat episodes, got it on catchup atm) That's so disrespectful and must have made Rachel feel like a piece of meat, although she does seem too emotionally fragile for her own good.

It was shown on the After Party. They show clips that aren't aired on the main show.

@InertBird Rachel didn't know about it until the After Party. She didn't hear Steven say it and he kept it to himself. She said she would not have reacted the way she did if she knew that it was Steven laughing about it with Bec to start with.

Rachel said on After Party that after seeing the clip it all made sense and she could see why Bec felt it was ok to make a joke about it.

Stevo is the sly one.

dillite · 18/04/2026 16:34

TinselAngel · 18/04/2026 12:21

I drank some Makers Mark last night because you lot told me too, and woke up to find I’ve booked to go to a gig in London on my own in June.

Which gig?

ruethewhirl · 18/04/2026 16:38

WallaceinAnderland · 18/04/2026 16:24

It was shown on the After Party. They show clips that aren't aired on the main show.

@InertBird Rachel didn't know about it until the After Party. She didn't hear Steven say it and he kept it to himself. She said she would not have reacted the way she did if she knew that it was Steven laughing about it with Bec to start with.

Rachel said on After Party that after seeing the clip it all made sense and she could see why Bec felt it was ok to make a joke about it.

Stevo is the sly one.

Ahhh... that does make sense. I haven't got round to watching much of the after party shows.

stayathomegardener · 18/04/2026 16:38

This is an interesting podcast where Bec talks about drug use on the show and some interesting background information. I think she came across well.

OBVIOUSLY CONTAINS SPOILERS so maybe book mark for later.

MAFSAUS#13 NO SPOILERS Fingers, mingers and zingers, get your pecs out for the lasses if you can get over THE HURT
Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/04/2026 17:30

ruethewhirl · 18/04/2026 16:38

Ahhh... that does make sense. I haven't got round to watching much of the after party shows.

Very sly of Stevo.

The After Party shows are good but a bit spoilerish.

TitsInAbsentia · 18/04/2026 18:10

WallaceinAnderland · 18/04/2026 16:24

It was shown on the After Party. They show clips that aren't aired on the main show.

@InertBird Rachel didn't know about it until the After Party. She didn't hear Steven say it and he kept it to himself. She said she would not have reacted the way she did if she knew that it was Steven laughing about it with Bec to start with.

Rachel said on After Party that after seeing the clip it all made sense and she could see why Bec felt it was ok to make a joke about it.

Stevo is the sly one.

No she'd have gone off at Stevo if he'd known he said it. I don't get announcing to the fucking world you've had a fumble anyway, I mean really, it's so bloody childish. I noticed he stayed very veeeeeeeeeeery quiet when they aired that bit!

WallaceinAnderland · 18/04/2026 18:13

He was very cowardly letting Bec take the heat and not telling Rachel that she had it all wrong.

FergoMcFergFace · 18/04/2026 19:06

I don't know, it's one thing someone making a drunken cheeky remark one-to-one and giving a quick quip back (ie Steven's "Who said it was one finger" remark) but that's a bit different from making a speech to the whole group about a finger-banging.

But I agree, don't bloody announce it to the whole group in the first place. It's all a bit "Michelle Andrews* in year 10 got poked round the back of the beach huts".

*Names changed for privacy - apologies to any real Michelle Andrews.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/04/2026 20:09

FergoMcFergFace · 18/04/2026 19:06

I don't know, it's one thing someone making a drunken cheeky remark one-to-one and giving a quick quip back (ie Steven's "Who said it was one finger" remark) but that's a bit different from making a speech to the whole group about a finger-banging.

But I agree, don't bloody announce it to the whole group in the first place. It's all a bit "Michelle Andrews* in year 10 got poked round the back of the beach huts".

*Names changed for privacy - apologies to any real Michelle Andrews.

But Bec was making an ill timed and crass joke. Which she thought was ok to say as it was in the public domain as it were.

WallaceinAnderland · 18/04/2026 20:18

FergoMcFergFace · 18/04/2026 19:06

I don't know, it's one thing someone making a drunken cheeky remark one-to-one and giving a quick quip back (ie Steven's "Who said it was one finger" remark) but that's a bit different from making a speech to the whole group about a finger-banging.

But I agree, don't bloody announce it to the whole group in the first place. It's all a bit "Michelle Andrews* in year 10 got poked round the back of the beach huts".

*Names changed for privacy - apologies to any real Michelle Andrews.

It wasn't 1-1 it was when they were all sitting together outside. Rachel didn't hear Steven but others did.

Ophir · 18/04/2026 22:18

TinselAngel · 18/04/2026 12:21

I drank some Makers Mark last night because you lot told me too, and woke up to find I’ve booked to go to a gig in London on my own in June.

See! Good stuff 😄

what’s the gig?

mcmuffin22 · 18/04/2026 22:22

Empress13 · 18/04/2026 07:45

Totally agree Bec is a nightmare when drunk but my opinion was purely on the ‘Joke’ she said to Rachel. Felt sorry for her because it wasn’t said nastily but Rachel made such a bloody drama of it both her and Stevo are such wet lettuces. She tried to apologise but then the mean girls saw it as an excuse to jump on her with their toxic behaviour. Btw can anybody explain what exactly she said?

At this point I think it was more the continued stuff the next day (merch) and trying to get people on her side.

Dantalya · 18/04/2026 22:30

Imagine hundreds of thousands of people around the world essentially discussing you being fingered. I have to say, I would be absolutely mortified.

murasaki · 18/04/2026 22:45

Dantalya · 18/04/2026 22:30

Imagine hundreds of thousands of people around the world essentially discussing you being fingered. I have to say, I would be absolutely mortified.

Yep. In a way more embarrassing than it being said that you've had sex, as it is blindingly obvious that that was as far as he was prepared to go.

DeadBug · 18/04/2026 23:03

Do you reckon he kept his marigolds on ?

OvernightBloats · 19/04/2026 06:34

Dantalya · 18/04/2026 22:30

Imagine hundreds of thousands of people around the world essentially discussing you being fingered. I have to say, I would be absolutely mortified.

Yes! The added pressure of the cameramen and all the other crew filming. The crass joke announced to the whole group. The realisation that everyone had been discussing her getting 'finger banged'.

No wonder she reacted the way she did. Knowing that this was going to be shown to millions of people around the world and discussed (like we are doing!). Poor Rachel - it is humiliation x 1000. On a scale that none of us have experienced.

I have changed my mind about Stevo and Alyssa as well. They are both not as sweet natured as first appeared. Team Rachel!

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 19/04/2026 10:17

OvernightBloats · 19/04/2026 06:34

Yes! The added pressure of the cameramen and all the other crew filming. The crass joke announced to the whole group. The realisation that everyone had been discussing her getting 'finger banged'.

No wonder she reacted the way she did. Knowing that this was going to be shown to millions of people around the world and discussed (like we are doing!). Poor Rachel - it is humiliation x 1000. On a scale that none of us have experienced.

I have changed my mind about Stevo and Alyssa as well. They are both not as sweet natured as first appeared. Team Rachel!

I think Alissa is not as nice as she makes out. Stevo, no idea. He seems nice. But looks can be deceiving.

RodJaneandBungle · 19/04/2026 11:43

Dont know if been said up thread - I didn’t like how Alyssa gaslit her partner - publicly saying how she needs “more stimulation” operates on a “higher frequency” & basically called him out for being boring & then when he brought it up with her & said that hurt his feelings a bit she gaslit him.

I dunno her tone & attitude was v like when she forced him to get on bended knee at her on her wedding & didn’t feel real.
Maybe was all scripted? It didn’t seem natural how she said “it’s ok babe I’ll go out & fill up my cup getting blowdrys or beauty treatments or w’ever it’s fine”.
Surely if you want stimulation & more energy going to chill & have treatments wouldn’t be what you’d do? Weird. Either way it made him look like an idiot & I can’t at same time see him being ok for this pretend conflict to air - just for a storyline??

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