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MAFS #5- Stevo is a massive knobbo, Ixperts are still gaslighting the contestants. We wish for more and get nothing but sad care bears. NO SPOILERS

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Dillite2 · 03/10/2025 23:06

You lot need to stop talking so much. I am 3 pints of gin in, it's hard work with everyone wanting to be in my business 😉

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murasaki · 05/10/2025 22:56

TinselAngel · 05/10/2025 22:54

Ejaculating outside rather than inside her.

Ah. From memory he was talking about parking in the rear garage so I read anal.

Dillite2 · 05/10/2025 22:56

FirstCuppa · 05/10/2025 22:55

@browneyes77 that's amazing. I wonder wtf they want Starmer to do about it?!
It's concerning that this is being touted as relationship advice but they should have tagged Jess Phillips, surely? She'd have something to say!

She's a woman. Nobody cares about what she has to say.

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Runningismyhappyplace50 · 05/10/2025 22:56

This is actually uncomfortable to watch. They are encouraging people to work on relationships when they clearly aren’t attracted to their physical appearance and or personality. Grace, Sarah and Nelly are all with the wrong partners.

murasaki · 05/10/2025 22:57

Dillite2 · 05/10/2025 22:56

She's a woman. Nobody cares about what she has to say.

And a Brummie woman at that. With, shock horror, an accent.

FirstCuppa · 05/10/2025 22:58

I still keep having flashbacks to Leah tapping Crystal's heart and saying "I'm just glad there's feeling in there" or similar. That was quite scathing and seemed to pass everyone by? Did I missunderstand? Was she not saying The Tin Man Has A Heart?

Donttellempike · 05/10/2025 23:00

JaquiRussell · 05/10/2025 22:39

100% and I bet Sarah is kicking herself she didn't bring up her deceased alcoholic Mother as an excuse for her comment now

Wouldn’t have mattered. She’s a woman. So no fucks given

murasaki · 05/10/2025 23:02

Yes, Sarah has not raised a legitimate excuse for trauma, as opposed to a step dad who is minorly unwell. As she's not an asshat.

Donttellempike · 05/10/2025 23:02

This whole show is a lesson in how to abuse women and get away with it.

And how the women should suck it the fuck up without complaining. It is appalling

browneyes77 · 05/10/2025 23:04

Dillite2 · 05/10/2025 22:54

I love that Paul is the only ixpert that seems to get tagged in these. Are the either two not on Twitter?

I’m not entirely sure to be honest!

Likely because Paul actually responds to tweets, to excuse his shitty relationship advice skills

Donttellempike · 05/10/2025 23:04

Fuck off Steven you lying abusive shit , another abusive twat has been green lit

FirstCuppa · 05/10/2025 23:05

Donttellempike · 05/10/2025 23:00

Wouldn’t have mattered. She’s a woman. So no fucks given

I'm so angry Dean just stared at her when she's in fucking tears saying she's not being her usual bubbly self and didn't even offer her a hug or comfort, just stared her out like she was being weird. He doesn't give a shit about her, he's self obsessed with being the one who is meant to be sad.

murasaki · 05/10/2025 23:07

FirstCuppa · 05/10/2025 23:05

I'm so angry Dean just stared at her when she's in fucking tears saying she's not being her usual bubbly self and didn't even offer her a hug or comfort, just stared her out like she was being weird. He doesn't give a shit about her, he's self obsessed with being the one who is meant to be sad.

To be fair she was probably relieved he didn't hug her.

Donttellempike · 05/10/2025 23:08

FirstCuppa · 05/10/2025 23:05

I'm so angry Dean just stared at her when she's in fucking tears saying she's not being her usual bubbly self and didn't even offer her a hug or comfort, just stared her out like she was being weird. He doesn't give a shit about her, he's self obsessed with being the one who is meant to be sad.

What’s been set up there is leaving me speechless TBH. Sarah is being denied any agency, and that narcissist manipulative slimeball has been told he can maul whenever he wants.

WTF

FirstCuppa · 05/10/2025 23:17

Donttellempike · 05/10/2025 23:08

What’s been set up there is leaving me speechless TBH. Sarah is being denied any agency, and that narcissist manipulative slimeball has been told he can maul whenever he wants.

WTF

And it's being shown to the whole country as an expert move! She seemed a lot of fun in her intro and now I feel she's going to actually be stalked by fat weirdo men all over the country after this.

Has Keith replied yet?

I wish Sarah, Nell and Anita had all banded together more and left in a group calling out the misogyny. They could have combined and done a legal ambush on the show for abuse and lack of vetting of the men.

OnTheBoardwalk · 05/10/2025 23:23

They really are showing a lack of duty of care to Sarah

she looks broken, she telling them she never acts this way normally but are encouraging Dean to touch his wife

this is frightening and disturbing viewing

Garamousalata · 05/10/2025 23:40

browneyes77 · 05/10/2025 22:37

I knew it would happen. I called it.

Sarah gets villainised for making a drunken flirty comment to a gay producer. But Steven, who’s been aggressive and verbally abusive to his wife and others, gets let off the hook, because you know ‘trauma’ 🙄

You’ve completely nailed it. I’m disgusted with MAFS for enabling this abusive behaviour from Steven.

Mafsisback · 06/10/2025 00:02

TitsInAbsentia · 05/10/2025 22:15

I am a bit confused by it to be honest, not like she's talking about her biological clock. I think a lot of women need counselling on how sometimes you are better off alone than compromising on a man with giant ears who smells of cabbage...

I think because her ex didn’t progress the relationship for 17 years (maybe father of her children?) and she feels that was a waste, she’s hyper sensitive to the mere whiff of a man stringing her along again .

JellyBeanSpring25 · 06/10/2025 00:09

In-laws week coming up along with new blood.
So no photo ranking task this year?

Steve’s crying was so predictable
Divvy needs to man-up
Dean is ever the victim
Ashley cant do right from wrong
Tats and Bailey - hmmmmm

The only couple I can sort if believe in is Davide and Keye but I fear that disappointment may be round the corner.

Mafsisback · 06/10/2025 00:28

I agree Steve got off very lightly. Especially considered how hard Mel was on Sarah!

His excuse about his stepdad was BS because why not have a drink or just chill out indoors with his wife if he wanted to distract himself? Why is his first port of call out with these boys he’s not known much longer than his wife?

If this is how he deals with the stresses that life sends him it doesn’t bode well for their future. Every time something isn’t going well in his life he is going to be abusive!

I said from the beginning I’d love to hear his exes take on how he was/is as a partner and father. I can imagine him kicking off under the stress of their SEN child.

It’s obvious his tears were massively manipulative. I clocked his clenched jaw and angry eyes just a few moments earlier when Julia mentioned her husband should have spoke up when she was arguing with him.

If he was genuinely sorry he would have apologised profusely to Julia and others for his aggressive outburst.

It is a shame though how this is showcasing even “decent” men, especially heterosexual ones, don’t challenge each other on their behaviour. Look at how even Maeves seemingly nice fella was urging her to “keep out of it” . And Bailey was it just trotted behind Steven when he called them “a bunch of cunts”. Divarni was completely useless . Only man who has stood up to him is Keay who is obviously gay.

I get that some people don’t want drama or conflict but it smacks of the whole bro code thing. I feel if Sarah attacked Dean like that the same men remaining silent would be piping up.

Pinkfluffypencilcase · 06/10/2025 00:39

JellyBeanSpring25 · 06/10/2025 00:09

In-laws week coming up along with new blood.
So no photo ranking task this year?

Steve’s crying was so predictable
Divvy needs to man-up
Dean is ever the victim
Ashley cant do right from wrong
Tats and Bailey - hmmmmm

The only couple I can sort if believe in is Davide and Keye but I fear that disappointment may be round the corner.

He’s a performative victim.

browneyes77 · 06/10/2025 00:51

Mafsisback · 06/10/2025 00:28

I agree Steve got off very lightly. Especially considered how hard Mel was on Sarah!

His excuse about his stepdad was BS because why not have a drink or just chill out indoors with his wife if he wanted to distract himself? Why is his first port of call out with these boys he’s not known much longer than his wife?

If this is how he deals with the stresses that life sends him it doesn’t bode well for their future. Every time something isn’t going well in his life he is going to be abusive!

I said from the beginning I’d love to hear his exes take on how he was/is as a partner and father. I can imagine him kicking off under the stress of their SEN child.

It’s obvious his tears were massively manipulative. I clocked his clenched jaw and angry eyes just a few moments earlier when Julia mentioned her husband should have spoke up when she was arguing with him.

If he was genuinely sorry he would have apologised profusely to Julia and others for his aggressive outburst.

It is a shame though how this is showcasing even “decent” men, especially heterosexual ones, don’t challenge each other on their behaviour. Look at how even Maeves seemingly nice fella was urging her to “keep out of it” . And Bailey was it just trotted behind Steven when he called them “a bunch of cunts”. Divarni was completely useless . Only man who has stood up to him is Keay who is obviously gay.

I get that some people don’t want drama or conflict but it smacks of the whole bro code thing. I feel if Sarah attacked Dean like that the same men remaining silent would be piping up.

His ex (the mother of his children), did a TikTok video the other day defending him 🙄

Mafsisback · 06/10/2025 01:23

browneyes77 · 06/10/2025 00:51

His ex (the mother of his children), did a TikTok video the other day defending him 🙄

Edited

You’re right - I just saw that a few minutes ago! Perhaps I’m wrong on that front then since his ex appears to be a fan lol

Possibly his ex knows none of this is genuine and he’s just in there for fame/money which might benefit her too, so she’s going along with it. But who knows.

Either way still think he’s awful and the “editing” can’t be blamed for how unhinged he has been.

Daygloboo · 06/10/2025 03:15

hoxtonbabe · 05/10/2025 21:15

I actually side eyed the Ipad when she started waffling on about being a private person. I mean even if you’ve not seen the show the fact you are on TV is enough to know that’s not the right environment for you (unless you just BS about “being private” )

Grace seems very highly strung ...but I missed some so maybe I'm being unfair

PollyDarton1 · 06/10/2025 05:54

Wow, each time I watch I wonder why I do when the ixperts allow abhorrent behaviour and leave it mostly unchallenged and here we are again. Angry men, whether it’s caused by stress or whatever, are always angry men, either on a surface level or deep down and the fact Steven can go that far that quickly shows it is his core personality. Abusive people are still abusive even if they have stressors. We all deal with stress, but we don’t all call our partners fucking idiots because we have nothing intelligent to come back with, or have the emotional range to discuss in a healthy way. Shame on the production company for keeping this POS in. It speaks volumes to Nelly needing to be loved (even it never happens) that she would write stay when he’s flipped out like that at her, and generally dismissed and disrespected her in the last week.

Grace and Ashley I feel sorry for - they are not compatible, the way they express and value love are on two different pages and I don’t think either of them are ‘wrong’, although I’d say I fall more on Grace’s side of the fence (I think she’s definitely ND, so I relate to that too).

NorthFaceofthelaundrypile · 06/10/2025 07:32

Steven’s “I can’t lose my temper” reminds me of Prince Andrew’s “I can’t sweat”.
Both blaming it on past trauma, and both nasty pieces of work.

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