We’ve finally watched all of it.
We really enjoyed it, they managed to cover a significant amount of time without it being rushed.
Episode 4 was very good and done very well, I like how they included the lack of access to appropriate NHS care without it being overly in your face. Touching on how the family members of someone with a mental health condition can suffer and fail to put themselves first was very well covered with Nick and Tori.
Once again loving that we have a straight male character with zero toxic masculine traits, also nice to see Nick shown as being one of the girls, while Charlie is one of the lads. Also very good to see it reinforced again that sport is also for gay people.
As always Nick and Charlie’s bedrooms are far too tidy to realistically belong to teenagers, also Tao and his vintage camera, vintage!!!! I was also concerned by the lack of gravy. How does Nick not notice that three members of his family are in marvel? “Oh god” being the response to lots of plans is something I very much feel too.
I saw the below that is very true, and felt after the first two series as well
“I’m 38 but i realise we never got to grieve the lost teenage years where at most times we were just fighting to survive every day. As queer youth we never got what our other peers got and it's okay to grieve that.
At times I'm angry we were robbed all those first times and had to figure out a lot in our twenties and thirties. Being gay is so special and now I am so happy I am but it was bloody hard. I find myself pausing at times now just to look back and I honestly can't believe how far I've come.
Watching this season just shows how hard we have it as queer youth and that no matter what age we are now we still have that small scared child buried down deep who just needed a hug. I know I speak for a lot of us that when we watch this show it brings out stuff in us that we sometimes find hard to face, the pain, the regrets, the constant need for approval when we were young and that we didn't have what Nick and Charlie have.
I guess I just needed to share that it's okay for us to grieve a youth I guess we never had and it's okay to comfort our inner child. We have to be kinder to ourselves.”