I agree with that, Ruffle - bit of an aside, but are you familiar with [[https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrew_Greeley Andrew Greeley? He was a well-known priest in the US who took exactly that view of the importance of sex in marriage - hence he clashed with the Vatican’s decision in the 60s to condemn the pill. (That’s also when my mum started questioning her Catholicism.) His interpretation on Catholicism keeps occurring to me as I’m watching this.