sureitsgrand "The foster Mum was a bit creepy I thought.... "
What made you think that?
purpleme12 "I'm confused about the 'foster parents'. It seemed to me like they were foster parents too but I couldn't understand cos it also seemed like they maybe adopted her? It spoke about them choosing her? You don't choose foster kids. ??" The foster parents were just that but had chosen to adopt her and were going through the process to do that. The foster dad asked about a court date when SL arrived.
I think the talking about choosing her was in the appeal to try and find out information before they realized she had been killed. Sometimes people think you cannot love an adopted child as much as a birth child so sometimes people talk about choosing their child as a way of expressing how much they love them.
I have a birth child and an adopted child. I was wondering how I would feel if our son had been taken off to see family when we were caring for him before he was legally adopted.