I think Shilpa's behaviour is remarkably restrained considering what she's putting up with, can any of us imagine being locked up with 4 people who have made it VERY clear they don't like you and bitch about you constantly, also finger waggling is something lots of indian ladies do and it's jokey not rude, again, there are cultural differences which just becuase jo, dani, jade and furniture don't understand they make fun- THAT'S RACISM - it's not ok.