Dd starting to get more tattoos and family members just make comments to me or if they don't just make back handed comments.
I'm not keen on them as some now on face forehead but I want to keep my mouth shut and support her whilst keeping strong when speaking to her grandparents etc who are very judgmental.
I wish she hadn't had them either but she will be covered and a adult so want to be strong for her without falling out with others who are judgemental about them.
It's so hard.
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Relatives going on about dd tattoos
shatteredmelon · 24/08/2023 15:27
yogasaurus · 24/08/2023 15:29
I think you’re naive if you think forehead tattoos
are not going to be a talking point
Joolsin · 24/08/2023 15:40
I had a friendly word with a relative who was making comments directly to DD about her tattoos. I said I understood that they didn't like tattoos, but that DD loved them, considered them very much as part of her and therefore negative comments felt like a direct attack on her. I asked if they could stop as I was sure they didn't intend to make DD feel bad about herself. No further negative comments were made.
RugglesB · 24/08/2023 15:47
Just shut it down every single time. Tell them you don't want to hear it and put the phone down/walk away every single time. It's unacceptable to keep sneering about it.
yogasaurus · 24/08/2023 15:29
I think you’re naive if you think forehead tattoos
are not going to be a talking point
shatteredmelon · 24/08/2023 15:49
It's hard as grandparents who I'm close with and aunt uncles
RugglesB · 24/08/2023 15:47
Just shut it down every single time. Tell them you don't want to hear it and put the phone down/walk away every single time. It's unacceptable to keep sneering about it.
Mariposista · 24/08/2023 15:56
To get tattoos on your face is attention seeking. Let her suck up the attention she obviously craved by getting them. Yuck
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Valerie23 · 24/08/2023 16:03
If she's the type of person to have facial tattoos and piercings, I highly doubt she gives a fuck about what other people think!
Their friends are often also covered i tattoos and piercings and it's a lifestyle choice that can be seen as being anti social.
That look is often sported by the idle children of the rich who have more money than sense and deface their bodies with mindless scribbled for want of something to do. Mar I Pierre Whites son springs to mind.
Then there are others who use the tattoos as a way of removing themselves from the norms of society such as getting a job and working.
Your relatives are right to be concerned and mention it as your daughter could well face poverty if she is unemployable because of her facial tattoos.
Valerie23 · 24/08/2023 16:17
It is attention seeking. Unless you gaze at your facial tattoos in mirrors or other reflections, then they are there to be looked at by everyone.
A facial tattoo is screaming 'LOOK AT ME!'
That's not being nasty. That's a fact.
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