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Can someone explain the appeal of expensive Hermès bags to me

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KellyK2026 · 05/08/2026 13:26

I don’t know how, but I recently got sucked into watching a bunch of Love Luxury videos on YouTube which features rich people buying expensive Hermes bags. Can someone please explain the obsession with Hermes bags? To me, they look very basic or just plain ugly. I cannot fathom why someone would pay £20,000-200k on a bag which costs a fraction of that price to produce and was mostly made in China. I’d rather get a good quality bag which has been handcrafted locally for £200 or less. Someone please explain it to me?!

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ForDucksSake · 05/08/2026 18:51

I buy ethically too. These bags are just not something I could ever be interested in owning. Some people are interested in buying ethically, some people are not. I don't see that changing any time soon. 🤷

Dragonscaledaisy · 05/08/2026 18:53

KellyK2026 · 05/08/2026 18:46

Known globally by who? I work in deprived communities. If I went in there and asked what environmental impact do to think Nestle has, I can guarantee you the answers would be very vague. Mumsnet isn’t the general population. The audience on this site are primarily white middle class women. Take a look around at the world for god sake. Go to the most deprived ward in your area and sit in a community centre and ask people what they think of Nestle. I think you’ll find it an eye opener.

You stated upthread that ‘Most people won’t even know about Nestle’ and I challenged that stating global awareness of Nestle is high.
You didn't answer my question about whether have you actually visited or lived in any low-income countries.
You've also confused me with another poster – nowhere on this thread have I mentioned 'environmental' impact.

Dragonscaledaisy · 05/08/2026 18:56

KellyK2026 · 05/08/2026 18:48

Then you make the Thread if that’s what you want. Honestly, the audacity to go on someone else’s thread and demand they make another one is ridiculous but then again shouldn’t surprise me from someone who also has the audacity to think that killing two exotic animals to make a handbag is acceptable.

You were the person that started the discussion. I suggested it needs to be fair, balanced and evidence based. If it's a subject you feel strongly about, lobby for change.

KellyK2026 · 05/08/2026 18:56

Dragonscaledaisy · 05/08/2026 18:53

You stated upthread that ‘Most people won’t even know about Nestle’ and I challenged that stating global awareness of Nestle is high.
You didn't answer my question about whether have you actually visited or lived in any low-income countries.
You've also confused me with another poster – nowhere on this thread have I mentioned 'environmental' impact.

Have I visited any low income countries? I am from one, you patronising woman.

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Dragonscaledaisy · 05/08/2026 18:57

KellyK2026 · 05/08/2026 18:56

Have I visited any low income countries? I am from one, you patronising woman.

So then you will be only too aware of the impact of Nestle then.

Nutmuncher · 05/08/2026 18:59

I wouldn’t worry about them OP, hell would freeze over before Hermes SA’s ever considered offering you a bag.

KellyK2026 · 05/08/2026 19:00

Dragonscaledaisy · 05/08/2026 18:57

So then you will be only too aware of the impact of Nestle then.

Yes, but I’m not your average person from my country and please don’t assume what my community knows and doesn’t know. You’re embarrassing yourself now.

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KellyK2026 · 05/08/2026 19:01

Nutmuncher · 05/08/2026 18:59

I wouldn’t worry about them OP, hell would freeze over before Hermes SA’s ever considered offering you a bag.

Thank god

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Didimum · 05/08/2026 19:06

KellyK2026 · 05/08/2026 18:42

Personally I shop ethically. There are some products where, as you said, systems make it hard to live completely ethically. I drive a car but cycle whenever I can to reduce my carbon footprint. I can acknowledge, however, that I am in a privileged position and I have knowledge and awareness that others may not have. Yes, I work with charities and vulnerable people. A lot of adults I work with have the literacy age of a seven year old (this isn’t speculation, by the way, this is fact). These are the people living in poverty and eating poor quality food. I’ve even spoken to parents who will intentionally buy high calorie food to fill up their children, regardless of the health implications. This is not their fault. They live in a world where bad food is often the cheapest. Education on nutrition and, yes, environmental impact, is limited. They do not have the same buying power and knowledge that is available to the average person who can afford to buy a Hermes bag. So you can compare Nestle and Hermes but their average customer base looks very different. My question to anyone who has the knowledge and buying power, why a company that is so unethical when you can spend your money on a more ethical brand that doesn’t use exotic skins?

If you personally find exotic leather use abhorrent, then that’s absolutely fine – no can argue that opinion out of you.

But it is, at then end of the day an opinion, and farming for exotic leathers is a legal practice. Should all ethical controversies be treated as fact rather than opinion? You may think so. But that is, again, another opinion. And wouldn’t it be a fine world if every person aligned with us ethically?

So many luxury wear brands have some exotic or ethically-controversial line. Chanel stopped using exotics … but then you have the whole Nazi informant business. Burberry did too … who were globally criticised for their destruction or unsold goods, and for their animal-derivative sustainability practices. Mulberry also denounced exotics … except they actually still make them in small number. Not terribly transparent or honest of them.

Every fashion brand, from Primark to Hermes is susceptible to ethically controversial, by the very nature of how supply and demand and mass production works.

Some people draw the line at unfair labour, others at any animal derivatives, others at palm oil, others at crocodile farms.

Do rich people have less excuse to be ethically uneducated? Absolutely. Do rich people have to prescribe to your own personal ethical structures? Absolutely not.

And then we have all the people in the middle. Who, yes, will fall into both brackets of ‘can’t afford an Hermes’ but ‘middle class privilege educated and fair earning’ – and those are the people still actively, and knowingly, consuming KitKats and Toyotas and Apple and possibly even a cheeky Chanel.

Where oh where does it end?

ForDucksSake · 05/08/2026 19:07

Nutmuncher · 05/08/2026 18:59

I wouldn’t worry about them OP, hell would freeze over before Hermes SA’s ever considered offering you a bag.

Wow. This thread really has reached a new level of bitchiness, even for MN. 😂

parkintrouble · 05/08/2026 19:08

sohard · 05/08/2026 14:21

They’re such granny bags too!

The appeal seems to be the kudos of being “guest listed” rather than the actual bags themselves.

Hermes really have pulled a blinder here fooling the gullible into spending such insane amounts of money.

Agreed. It's a genius bit of manipulation

loveawineloveacrisp · 05/08/2026 19:10

Does anyone want to see my new Chloe?

Didimum · 05/08/2026 19:13

ForDucksSake · 05/08/2026 19:07

Wow. This thread really has reached a new level of bitchiness, even for MN. 😂

This was a ‘overheard in Waitrose’ level comment!

Didimum · 05/08/2026 19:14

loveawineloveacrisp · 05/08/2026 19:10

Does anyone want to see my new Chloe?

I have my eye on woody tote!

loveawineloveacrisp · 05/08/2026 19:15

Didimum · 05/08/2026 19:14

I have my eye on woody tote!

Ooh my friend got one of those. That's what inspired my satchel purchase!

Cluelessfirstimer · 05/08/2026 19:15

Love luxuary is a second hand seller - ive seen those videos too.

You cant just buy a birkin or a kelly. You have to be offered to buy one - which often includes buying an awful lot of Hermes scarfs and other crap you probably dont want.

Its a status symbol. An elite club.

Personally i dont see the appeal. Even if I had the money they look ugly and yes some are made from real crocodile skin which is just horrible.

Yet, for some it is that symbol status of owning them. Others like to collect things and when you have enough money that may be these bags.

I am more than happy with my river island handbag

mishmashmess · 05/08/2026 19:15

loveawineloveacrisp · 05/08/2026 19:10

Does anyone want to see my new Chloe?

Enjoy it for now as the leather on them starts to deteriorate in no time (side eyeing my increasingly manky Marcie cross-body here).

I think Hermes bags are a bit naff - who would walk down the street with £20k in their hands, if they had any sense? Plus they are being sued as part of a class action case in the US owing to all the silly things they make people buy, just so they can 'develop a relationship' and (gasp) actually buy the bag they originally wanted.

WomBat55 · 05/08/2026 19:16

This is no different than someone buying a Lamborghini rather than a VW Golf - engineering, exclusivity etc etc. So what is it about designer handbags that bothers you? Is it that’s it’s a predominantly female product? Are you more judgmental of what women spend their money on than what men do? There’s plenty of high end luxury products that have dubious and unethical supply chains/sourcing, why so enraged about a designer handbag?

KellyK2026 · 05/08/2026 19:19

Didimum · 05/08/2026 19:06

If you personally find exotic leather use abhorrent, then that’s absolutely fine – no can argue that opinion out of you.

But it is, at then end of the day an opinion, and farming for exotic leathers is a legal practice. Should all ethical controversies be treated as fact rather than opinion? You may think so. But that is, again, another opinion. And wouldn’t it be a fine world if every person aligned with us ethically?

So many luxury wear brands have some exotic or ethically-controversial line. Chanel stopped using exotics … but then you have the whole Nazi informant business. Burberry did too … who were globally criticised for their destruction or unsold goods, and for their animal-derivative sustainability practices. Mulberry also denounced exotics … except they actually still make them in small number. Not terribly transparent or honest of them.

Every fashion brand, from Primark to Hermes is susceptible to ethically controversial, by the very nature of how supply and demand and mass production works.

Some people draw the line at unfair labour, others at any animal derivatives, others at palm oil, others at crocodile farms.

Do rich people have less excuse to be ethically uneducated? Absolutely. Do rich people have to prescribe to your own personal ethical structures? Absolutely not.

And then we have all the people in the middle. Who, yes, will fall into both brackets of ‘can’t afford an Hermes’ but ‘middle class privilege educated and fair earning’ – and those are the people still actively, and knowingly, consuming KitKats and Toyotas and Apple and possibly even a cheeky Chanel.

Where oh where does it end?

You have experts in leather and handbags who had evaluated Hermes bags and estimated that the average cost of making a Hermes bag sits between $800-$1,400. This is just 15% of what they retail for, which is a huge mark up. So even the ethical argument aside, the materials and craftsmanship (and I’m not arguing with they are decently made bags) still is nowhere near the price point. So just looking at it from a materials and craftsmanship point of view, it’s not worth it.

Then you have the ethical side of the business and I would definitely argue that using exotics is outdated and dangerous actually. We’ve just come out of a global pandemic that was caused by pathogens from animals. We know that reptiles carry different pathogens to humans, so even putting the animal welfare argument aside, it’s irresponsible at best. Especially because we know that reptile farms are a breeding ground for disease.

So, logistically, the bags, objectively speaking, aren’t worth it and the company is unethical. Now I have absolutely no doubt that people will continue to buy the bags because I also don’t assume that people care about many things and, certainly, they seem drawn to status symbols. What’s the saying? Money brings out the worst in people.

This Thread has had mixed responses and I think many of the arguments have been really tenuous. I mean, comparing Nestle to Hermes, really? If you want to buy from Hermes, knock yourself out.

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loveawineloveacrisp · 05/08/2026 19:20

mishmashmess · 05/08/2026 19:15

Enjoy it for now as the leather on them starts to deteriorate in no time (side eyeing my increasingly manky Marcie cross-body here).

I think Hermes bags are a bit naff - who would walk down the street with £20k in their hands, if they had any sense? Plus they are being sued as part of a class action case in the US owing to all the silly things they make people buy, just so they can 'develop a relationship' and (gasp) actually buy the bag they originally wanted.

Noooo, don't tell me that! Don't they go all slouchy and lovely? I didn't have manky in mind 😭

KellyK2026 · 05/08/2026 19:20

WomBat55 · 05/08/2026 19:16

This is no different than someone buying a Lamborghini rather than a VW Golf - engineering, exclusivity etc etc. So what is it about designer handbags that bothers you? Is it that’s it’s a predominantly female product? Are you more judgmental of what women spend their money on than what men do? There’s plenty of high end luxury products that have dubious and unethical supply chains/sourcing, why so enraged about a designer handbag?

Men can and do buy designer handbags as far as I’m aware

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MidnightMeltdown · 05/08/2026 19:23

Rich people need something to spend their money on OP. They don’t want to carry the same bags that poor people carry.

KellyK2026 · 05/08/2026 19:23

loveawineloveacrisp · 05/08/2026 19:20

Noooo, don't tell me that! Don't they go all slouchy and lovely? I didn't have manky in mind 😭

Glad you’ve also pointed this out. If any other company treated customers like they did they’d be huge backlash.

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WhyamIinahandcartandwherearewegoing · 05/08/2026 19:24

Love knowing about them, wouldn’t be daft enough to spend the money on them 🤣

KellyK2026 · 05/08/2026 19:25

WhyamIinahandcartandwherearewegoing · 05/08/2026 19:24

Love knowing about them, wouldn’t be daft enough to spend the money on them 🤣

Yes! Haha

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