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Can someone explain the appeal of expensive Hermès bags to me

303 replies

KellyK2026 · 05/08/2026 13:26

I don’t know how, but I recently got sucked into watching a bunch of Love Luxury videos on YouTube which features rich people buying expensive Hermes bags. Can someone please explain the obsession with Hermes bags? To me, they look very basic or just plain ugly. I cannot fathom why someone would pay £20,000-200k on a bag which costs a fraction of that price to produce and was mostly made in China. I’d rather get a good quality bag which has been handcrafted locally for £200 or less. Someone please explain it to me?!

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Didimum · 06/08/2026 11:37

KellyK2026 · 05/08/2026 21:32

No, if you want to waste your time giving me unwanted advice then go ahead. I’ve been hundred percent transparent and said that I really do not care for the judgement of someone who thinks skinning two crocodiles to make a bag is OK. So honestly whatever you’re saying is going in one ear and out of the other. But if that’s how to want to spend your evening, knock yourself out.

Didn't you just say you couldn't care less? Which is it?

KellyK2026 · 06/08/2026 11:40

Didimum · 06/08/2026 11:37

Didn't you just say you couldn't care less? Which is it?

I couldn’t care less and I don’t care about your opinion are two statements that are one of the same.

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Retro12 · 06/08/2026 11:50

KellyK2026 · 06/08/2026 11:16

what a weird comment. You’re giving ‘I’m unemployed’ with the amount of time you’re spending reading comments that aren’t directed at you.

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Running off to do a bit more research so you can come back and enlighten us all is very David Brent of you.
Not unemployed, darling, just super wealthy! Although, judging by the number of posts you've managed to make, should we be asking if you're unemployed? Is that why you're crying into your plastic Primark bag?
The hypocrisy is absolutely glorious. 😆 As you were!

KellyK2026 · 06/08/2026 11:56

Retro12 · 06/08/2026 11:50

Running off to do a bit more research so you can come back and enlighten us all is very David Brent of you.
Not unemployed, darling, just super wealthy! Although, judging by the number of posts you've managed to make, should we be asking if you're unemployed? Is that why you're crying into your plastic Primark bag?
The hypocrisy is absolutely glorious. 😆 As you were!

Are you Okay? Like seriously, you seem to be struggling. Feel what you’re feeling. Go through it. And if it makes you feel better to accuse strangers on the internet of shopping at Primark because they don’t like Hermes bags than you do that. Have a glorious day.

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Retro12 · 06/08/2026 12:10

KellyK2026 · 06/08/2026 11:56

Are you Okay? Like seriously, you seem to be struggling. Feel what you’re feeling. Go through it. And if it makes you feel better to accuse strangers on the internet of shopping at Primark because they don’t like Hermes bags than you do that. Have a glorious day.

😆

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There you go again, twisting words...
Thanks for the character analysis, but you couldn't be further from the truth... I will leave this now, you can trot back off to Google

KellyK2026 · 06/08/2026 13:54

Retro12 · 06/08/2026 13:51

There you go again, twisting words...
Thanks for the character analysis, but you couldn't be further from the truth... I will leave this now, you can trot back off to Google

Hardly twisting your words saying that you are fabulously wealthy and I (a stranger on the internet whom you have never met and you don’t know my finances) has a plastic Primark bag. It’s not normal behaviour from an adult woman. Yes, please leave before you embarrass yourself further.

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Didimum · 06/08/2026 13:56

KellyK2026 · 06/08/2026 11:40

I couldn’t care less and I don’t care about your opinion are two statements that are one of the same.

You best stop replying then.

KellyK2026 · 06/08/2026 13:58

Didimum · 06/08/2026 13:56

You best stop replying then.

Telling someone to stop replying on their own thread when you’re the one that keeps commenting is comical

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LunaTheCat · 06/08/2026 22:28

Hermes are atrociously priced..but apparently a good financial investment.
i could never ever afford one in a million years.
I would be afraid of being mugged!
Louis Vuitton are so ostentatious and just plastic covered canvas for an enormous price!
I went to Paris and was gifted some money and bought a Chloe Marcie .. not up there with Chanel etc but I just love it! Very understated, no big logos, beautifully made. It’s the one and only label bag I own but I feel instantly chic when I wear it.

Pairlesssocks · 06/08/2026 22:56

Hermes do seem to be a good investment but it has a value way above its intrinsic worth. If I had the money for such an investment I would worry about a change of fashion wiping most of its value. But I guess for most at that level of the market such an investment is probably a small frivolous risk in their portfolio.

I wonder if there are also women for whom it is a way of acquiring their own wealth. Women who may have access to their partner’s wealth on a day to day basis but who don’t have the safety net of many assets of their own.

billycat321 · 07/08/2026 13:35

Some people have more money than sense

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 07/08/2026 15:08

Overtheatlantic · 05/08/2026 13:57

Clearly it’s a status symbol and wealth signifier. It’s how they let other rich people know that they belong in the club. I think they’re beautiful bags.

This. It’s a visible communication of status.

Many owners will appreciate the design, craftsmanship, materials etc… but those wouldn’t be enough to justify the price or the intentionally created scarcity (or former scarcity)…

mtobrokeme · 07/08/2026 15:17

billycat321 · 07/08/2026 13:35

Some people have more money than sense

The first part I can agree with! ‘Some people have more money’. That’s it! It’s nothing with to do with sense!

Redredrumdedrum · 07/08/2026 15:21

It's the exclusivity. It's basically the equivalent of pokemon cards or something like that, but in fashion.

As people get richer and richer and can buy anything they want, the only challenge to acquiring something becomes exclusivity. People buying 200k Hermes bags are chasing the thrill of getting it. And they have money to burn.

I watched a video with the owner of love luxury and she said that when people get to a certain point, they're literally looking for things to spend their vast amounts of money on.

KellyK2026 · 07/08/2026 15:29

Redredrumdedrum · 07/08/2026 15:21

It's the exclusivity. It's basically the equivalent of pokemon cards or something like that, but in fashion.

As people get richer and richer and can buy anything they want, the only challenge to acquiring something becomes exclusivity. People buying 200k Hermes bags are chasing the thrill of getting it. And they have money to burn.

I watched a video with the owner of love luxury and she said that when people get to a certain point, they're literally looking for things to spend their vast amounts of money on.

Oh I believe that. I just don’t understand it myself, but then again I’ve never been interested in luxury goods. I’m always thinking the world is burning, people are starving, why on earth would I spend £10k on a bag?! But people are like magpies, they like shiny things.

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Thingcanonlygetbetter · 07/08/2026 16:49

Pure notions and more money than sense.!

malware · 10/08/2026 22:12

Hermes were the choice of the elite made with high quality materials and attention to detail. There were waiting lists so Hermes could choose who they sold to and they chose the "right" kind of people (bleugh..I know). So your bag was your elite membership card. A signal to the world of the club you belonged to.

But then 3rd party market meant anyone with cash could buy one, so they don't have the cachet they used to have and the elite have moved on to other more "whispery" brands and left Hermes to elite-wannabee types.

I don't know (nor care) what those more whispery brands are. I am more of an M&S person myself and I find the whole thing a pretty sad waste of effort and money.

OtterlyAstounding · 10/08/2026 23:39

I most definitely could never afford a designer bag, but I wouldn’t want one either.

The only thing it does is advertise that you’re silly enough (or insanely rich enough) to blow a ridiculous amount of money on something that’s only worth a fraction of the price.
A bag will hold items just the same whether it’s £30 or £30,000, and they don’t look thousands of pounds prettier. Sure, a proper, quality bag will last longer than a cheap one, but you can get one of those for £300!

I can think of things I'd much rather spend my money on, if I had thousands to blow on a bag. It seems very hollow and empty.

Redredrumdedrum · 11/08/2026 22:20

OtterlyAstounding · 10/08/2026 23:39

I most definitely could never afford a designer bag, but I wouldn’t want one either.

The only thing it does is advertise that you’re silly enough (or insanely rich enough) to blow a ridiculous amount of money on something that’s only worth a fraction of the price.
A bag will hold items just the same whether it’s £30 or £30,000, and they don’t look thousands of pounds prettier. Sure, a proper, quality bag will last longer than a cheap one, but you can get one of those for £300!

I can think of things I'd much rather spend my money on, if I had thousands to blow on a bag. It seems very hollow and empty.

Especially as you can get the exact same quality at a fraction of the price. Still in the thousands range, granted, but not tens or even hundreds of thousands

OtterlyAstounding · 11/08/2026 22:32

Redredrumdedrum · 11/08/2026 22:20

Especially as you can get the exact same quality at a fraction of the price. Still in the thousands range, granted, but not tens or even hundreds of thousands

Exactly! Were I stinking rich (if only!) I could see myself buying a really good quality bag for under £600, but anything over that just seems more about brand and throwing money away for the sake of it. Really, I'd rather spend £300 and donate £10k to a charity.

Redredrumdedrum · 11/08/2026 23:19

OtterlyAstounding · 11/08/2026 22:32

Exactly! Were I stinking rich (if only!) I could see myself buying a really good quality bag for under £600, but anything over that just seems more about brand and throwing money away for the sake of it. Really, I'd rather spend £300 and donate £10k to a charity.

You can go to an independent French atelier (Hermes makes its bags in France) and pay something like £3000 for a good-sized, hand stitched, exceptional quality bag.

When you take into consideration the materials and the fact it can take up to 100 hours of a highly skilled artisan’s time, that starts to look like a fairly fair price. Still out of my price range sadly haha

JustAQuestion12 · 20/08/2026 20:05

KellyK2026 · 06/08/2026 13:58

Telling someone to stop replying on their own thread when you’re the one that keeps commenting is comical

Why do you feel such ownership over a thread because you started it?

I've just advanced search your name and saw very similar on your thread about Arday. You can't control people replying to you.

JustAQuestion12 · 20/08/2026 20:10

KellyK2026 · 07/08/2026 15:29

Oh I believe that. I just don’t understand it myself, but then again I’ve never been interested in luxury goods. I’m always thinking the world is burning, people are starving, why on earth would I spend £10k on a bag?! But people are like magpies, they like shiny things.

Goodness me. You sound very condescending.