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The Ultimate Wedding Guest Sandal

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Mathair2 · 03/08/2026 18:37

I am on the look out for mid sized block heel in gold. I want to be able to last the whole day and night in them. A pair to add to the wardrobe that will go with any dress. Bonus points if I can get a matching gold bag!

I never thought it would be possible to last thw day and night in a heel but my wedding shoes were the most comfortable things I've ever worn and lasted 13 hours in them but unfortunately the brand dont do gold sandals!

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AppleDumplingWithCustard · Yesterday 02:11

https://www.next.co.uk/style/sv097832/y64208

I have these. I wanted some sandals without an actual ankle strap as I find them uncomfortable. These are so comfortable and I like the block heel as it gives stability especially as I rarely wear anything other than a low heel these days.

EleanorMc67 · Yesterday 02:31

Promisingtree · 05/08/2026 22:00

So the bag shouldn't even be the same colour as the shoes?

It can clash if you want, it can match if you want, it can be somewhere in-between & tone but not match exactly. All will work, depending on the outfit!

Have a look at a site like The Outnet & you'll see all of those variants. For instance, in this outfit the blue bag & tan shoes don't match, but they each pick up a colour in the skirt & so it looks coordinated.

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EleanorMc67 · Yesterday 02:33

Similar with these outfits. The bag & footwear don't match - but they both tie in with colours in the dress they're worn with.

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EleanorMc67 · Yesterday 02:36

Here it's a clashing approach of yellow & black with hot pink (which doesn't work with the bag IMO, it's too heavy looking & another bright colour would have been better). I think you need to be quite confident at mixing/matching/clashing to make this work well.

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EleanorMc67 · Yesterday 02:37

In this outfit the accessories (belt, bag, footwear) don't exactly match but they are all raffia with leather, which ties them together.

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EleanorMc67 · Yesterday 02:40

In this, a black dress is worn with black sandals that have a silver toe strap. And the bag is silver to connect with that (as is her jewellery).

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EleanorMc67 · Yesterday 02:41

And this one is full-on matching bag & footwear! Looks pretty good to me ...

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Mathair2 · Yesterday 07:37

Eggybreadwithnuts · 05/08/2026 23:26

Did you find any @Mathair2 whens your wedding?

Im still filtering through the comments in between the "someone give us a scandal" comments that keep appearing 🤯🙄

Im loving all the options! I think the M&S ones are my favourite so far. Im looking for a more delicate look, some of the esska options look a bit too heavy for me.

I really like the look of a gold sandal and bag together, however "dated" it is! There's so many shades of gold its mad! I thought I liked a more champagne-gold colour but all these links are making me realise I do like a strong yellow gold colour.

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Mathair2 · Yesterday 07:40

AppleDumplingWithCustard · Yesterday 02:11

https://www.next.co.uk/style/sv097832/y64208

I have these. I wanted some sandals without an actual ankle strap as I find them uncomfortable. These are so comfortable and I like the block heel as it gives stability especially as I rarely wear anything other than a low heel these days.

Love the look of these too and yes ankle straps can be uncomfortable. I can never get them right - either too loose or too tight!

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Eggybreadwithnuts · Yesterday 08:16

Im going to a wedding in September and am looking at some of these for me as a guest.

Have you got time still to go look try on or is your wedding very soon or next year @Mathair2

Mathair2 · Yesterday 11:46

@Eggybreadwithnuts the next wedding I have is in October! I dont really have many good shoe shops around me, the closest ones to me would be cheapish, pretty but not comfortable, the exact type Im trying to avoid 🤣

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Advocodo · Yesterday 12:25

Jannergirl · 04/08/2026 21:15

Just coming on to say I misread the title as the ultimate wedding guest scandal and was disappointed mainly that there was no scandal in sight and also of course that it wasn’t yet another thread on a guest wearing a white dress to a wedding …. 😳

I did exactly the same!,

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