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Have you fallen out of “love” with a shop you previously loved?

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Britpopbaby · 29/07/2026 22:31

For me it’s &Other Stories. Granted I looked in yesterday and did try something in but there’s been a change of direction and Inam not liking it.

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Itsnouse · 01/08/2026 10:03

Thrump · 01/08/2026 09:29

OMG I would wear all of those Next clothes to death! Wow I love those slubby knits, all those pockets, that tartan wool. I would buy every outfit on that page except admittedly the Team GB blazer.

I never knew Next was ever like that. TBH I don't think I've ever been in a Next. But I've just looked on the website and it looks indistinguishable from Matalan now, and that's roughly where I placed it in my mental ranking. What happened?

What happened? I was involved with Next at that time. It wasn’t making any money and was about to go bust. They had brought a large mail order catalogue business to get the infrastructure to run Next Directory, (Freeman’s IIRC) which was sold to keep the business afloat. Many of the issues were blamed on the founder who left and went on ti create George at Asda. The remaining Next business was taken in a different direction with lots of Chinese manufacturing.

HarshbutTrue2 · 01/08/2026 10:09

Aluna · 31/07/2026 21:23

Was it Next Directory that was launched end of 80s? I remember it was one of the first good mail order catalogues.

I used to love my next directory. I used to drool over it.
I always wanted one of those patchwork cardigans that they did. Couldn't afford one.

I had a red next jacket that lasted for years. Plus, a red petite suit. It was very good quality. I think it was wool. It had a red short skirt and jacket, but it had something else too. Can't remember, maybe a longer skirt in a different material. Or a dress. It was in the power dressing days. 🤣

I think Next probably went down market when it got rid of the directory and moved online

PetulaGordeno · 01/08/2026 10:09

Itsnouse · 01/08/2026 10:03

What happened? I was involved with Next at that time. It wasn’t making any money and was about to go bust. They had brought a large mail order catalogue business to get the infrastructure to run Next Directory, (Freeman’s IIRC) which was sold to keep the business afloat. Many of the issues were blamed on the founder who left and went on ti create George at Asda. The remaining Next business was taken in a different direction with lots of Chinese manufacturing.

It got so big didn’t it and those directories must have cost a fortune to produce?
I can remember the first time my mum found a ‘made in China’ label in M&S and asked to speak to the manager. I wanted to die inside but she was raging.
It seems to do very well now because of its online presence? And it stocks lots of other labels like Reiss and Nobody’s Child.
The stores are still a bit grim but I suppose very little has hanger appeal now.

HarshbutTrue2 · 01/08/2026 10:16

Ooh. George Davies!!
He was the designer at Next . Yes. I remember. That was when it was good quality, stylish stuff.

I think he then moved to per una at marks and spencers. He had autonomy over the range - which was unusual for marks. In his time per una was good quality, and sought after. I had a gorgeous white skirt from there, which wasnt see through! It had a good lining. I wore it for years. It is impossible to buy a white skirt that isn't see through now.

I think he left marks for Asda. Per una went downhill after his departure. It is decidedly yuk. I rarely even look at it.

BestIsWest · 01/08/2026 10:20

I’ve mentioned this before but DM worked in the sewing factories that produced M&S clothes in the 70s and always said how exacting they were in terms of quality. They’d come round to watch the sewers at work and examine the clothes and if there weren’t 8 stitches to an inch (or whatever) they’d instantly reject everything. As a result we had brilliant seconds shops locally. It all got moved abroad in the 90s.

Lumpycat · 01/08/2026 10:25

I think some brands age at the same time as their clientele. So some like New Look and Primark will always be aiming for young people and others like Seasalt and Fatface and White Stuff and Weird Fish are now for the middle aged.
The stuff in the last four shops is very similar to what they sell on my local garden centre. Also, they really cluster don’t they? Any average upmarket town will have Seasalt and White Stuff. And RIP Joules and Laura Ashley in the same vibe- maybe their customers just got too old and died off!

HarshbutTrue2 · 01/08/2026 10:34

Etam. Never bought much from there. But enjoyed looking round. They had a teenage range called snob which was good quality.

BHS was ok , dull and dependable, until Philip thing took over.

I suppose the 2008 crash and private equity has ruined the high street and the shopping experience. Covid has a lot to answer for, shopping has not been the same since. I have lots of pre covid stuff in my wardrobe

PinkOrangeRed · 01/08/2026 11:20

Next now owns FatFace, Cath Kidston and Russell & Bromley, and has a majority stake in Reiss and Joules. It is also the UK licensee for Laura Ashley.

I have a Laura Ashley velvet dress and a beautiful beaded cardigan from the early 2000's. I can't bear to get rid of them even though I never have an opportunity to wear them now (maybe the cardigan at Christmas).

Yes, Next is not what it was in terms of quality and fabrics, but strangely enough the only clothes I have bought this summer came from there (linen blend barrel trousers & shirt).

Fleurchamp · 01/08/2026 11:20

As others have said - Whistles - for a good few years about 90% of my wardrobe was from there. Not sure what happened.

I moved on to Sezane after covid but I am finding myself buying less from there too.

Me & em is my current favourite but slightly over my budget so I only buy one or two pieces per season.

Surprised by the M&S hate - I have loved their clothes this summer and have a few linen pieces from there which friends have assumed to be more expensive. Their jeans too are great.

I am happy to spend a decent amount on decent clothing but I am fed up of buying something and it looking rubbish after two washes.

PetulaGordeno · 01/08/2026 11:39

I can remember going to Whistles and Hobbs in the 80’s and it felt like heaven. The tailoring was gorgeous.
Joseph was also fabulous but so expensive - I got a few bits in the sale when I could. I always wanted a Joseph coat.
Can almost still feel buttery leather shoes and handbags, too. Peak Russell & Bromley indeed. I bought shoes and a bag from there with my very first proper pay check - red suede, so not exactly classics. But they were just lovely.

NNforthispost · 01/08/2026 11:44

OnlyFrench · 29/07/2026 22:38

I used to be a Boden obsessive but I haven’t looked at their stuff for about ten years

I still look, but I am falling out of love with Boden now. The prices are very expensive whereas they just used to be a bit dear. It used to be worth it - I’m still wearing dresses I bought fifteen years ago. But stuff I bought four years ago just seemed to fall apart at the seams, or the beautiful patterned fabrics washed out and faded, or went all bobbly and I had to throw them away. So I can’t justify spending all that money on dresses that just won’t last. It makes me quite sad as I’m a sucker for a Boden pattern!

NNforthispost · 01/08/2026 11:53

also Laura Ashley - I got a pea green coloured wool coat from there for my 18th. I wore it to death and I only got rid of it in my early 30s. It was stunning but it was dear when I got it. But you get what you pay for I guess. I think I’d have to spend hundreds now to get something of comparable quality and I’d be worrried it wouldn’t last. Even Jaegar don’t seem to be the quality that they once were.

Gowlett · 01/08/2026 11:55

PetulaGordeno · 31/07/2026 15:52

I can remember when our first Principles store opened - about 1984? - and it felt so
posh. It had proper changing cubicles with swishy curtains. Like a lovely boutique.

This is a good point. I remember how beautiful the merchandising & displays were at Oasis. The Argyll St store was lovely to shop in. In later years they started pumping in a synthetic jasmine scent which was horrific… Worse than The White Company.

Last time I was in the fitting rooms at H&M, I was confronted with a polyester-clad blancmange mountain, that sadly was my own reflection. In the huge, no-escape mirror with prison-grade spotlights overhead. I didn’t buy anything, needless to say…

PetulaGordeno · 01/08/2026 11:59

Gowlett · 01/08/2026 11:55

This is a good point. I remember how beautiful the merchandising & displays were at Oasis. The Argyll St store was lovely to shop in. In later years they started pumping in a synthetic jasmine scent which was horrific… Worse than The White Company.

Last time I was in the fitting rooms at H&M, I was confronted with a polyester-clad blancmange mountain, that sadly was my own reflection. In the huge, no-escape mirror with prison-grade spotlights overhead. I didn’t buy anything, needless to say…

I worked in Miss Selfridge in the late 80’s and a couple of girls went to work in Oasis when it first opened and the stuff was gorgeous.
Lots of detailing, gorgeous suede skirts and bags.
That was a lovely street in London.
I can remember going to Kookai in Covent Garden and got some lovely things.
But Oasis was really great. Back in the day Warehouse when Jeff Banks had it was fabulous. Lots of lovely jersey draped tops, skirts and leggings.

Gowlett · 01/08/2026 12:03

PetulaGordeno · 01/08/2026 11:59

I worked in Miss Selfridge in the late 80’s and a couple of girls went to work in Oasis when it first opened and the stuff was gorgeous.
Lots of detailing, gorgeous suede skirts and bags.
That was a lovely street in London.
I can remember going to Kookai in Covent Garden and got some lovely things.
But Oasis was really great. Back in the day Warehouse when Jeff Banks had it was fabulous. Lots of lovely jersey draped tops, skirts and leggings.

Yes, Warehouse did lovely silk dresses. Oasis had great suits & wool coats, too. French Connection as well. I’ve kept some pieces.

Cucurella · 01/08/2026 12:10

PetulaGordeno · 01/08/2026 11:59

I worked in Miss Selfridge in the late 80’s and a couple of girls went to work in Oasis when it first opened and the stuff was gorgeous.
Lots of detailing, gorgeous suede skirts and bags.
That was a lovely street in London.
I can remember going to Kookai in Covent Garden and got some lovely things.
But Oasis was really great. Back in the day Warehouse when Jeff Banks had it was fabulous. Lots of lovely jersey draped tops, skirts and leggings.

I had forgotten how much I loved Warehouse. I had a couple of lovely jackets from there in the 90s which I wore to work for years. And a gorgeous black ankle length skirt.

Aluna · 01/08/2026 12:15

Warehouse in the 80s rocked.

When I was 15 I had bought some black harem pants, a beige linen jacket and a black fitted jacket.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 01/08/2026 13:04

Gowlett · 31/07/2026 12:32

& Other Stories. Have a couple of nice dresses from Seasalt, wouldn’t see them now though. Benetton has become too $$$.

TK Maxx, wouldn’t find the gems anymore as the brands supplying to it have gone to shite. I go for toys, homewares, toiletries now.

I want to love Arket. But I just… don’t. I still have some old 90s / early 00s clothes. The quality went after the financial crash in 2008.

I bought a lovely wool coat from tk maxx for only £40 after returning two m and s ones that ripped only after a couple of wears. Was hoping for more from there but not seen anything else sadly

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 01/08/2026 13:07

I still have a lovely wool little black dress from warehouse I bought 18 years ago or thereabouts and a couple of years ago I lost weight and wore it to my Christmas party. I genuinely don’t know where to buy nice clothes from anymore. I’ve been looking for a proper leather jacket for ages and can’t find anything I trust.

Cantonet · 01/08/2026 13:16

I still remember my first ever Next outfit when it opened. A dark red angora cardigan with a check wool skirt. It was exceptional quality & made with natural fabrics. I haven't set foot in my local Next for years ever since my kids grew out of the kids clothes, which were relatively decent.

Warehouse was fantastic in the 80's.
I vividly remember a lime green t & trousers in cotton I bought in my late teens that looked really good on.
Later on I bought several silk dresses. In fact dd2 is wearing an old black one of mine this summer I found at the back of a wardrobe. It's lined in silk too. You rarely have that even in pricey brands now

Likewise Principles set me up for my first job when I needed suiting. Good blouses and jackets for starting off.

Daygloboo · 01/08/2026 13:22

Puffalicious · 30/07/2026 14:41

The Next directories were awesome! My older sister had an account & I'd flick through and dream!

I know. I know. I had some fantastic stuff from those places too. What the hell happened ?

Cantonet · 01/08/2026 13:22

@teaandtoastwithmarmite wool coats are arriving online now at Tk Maxx. I particularly like Nicole Farhi coats and bought a couple last year in wool/cashmere mix and have seen some similar fringed wool ones coming in.

Daygloboo · 01/08/2026 13:24

PistachioTiramisu · 30/07/2026 13:07

Another shop was Etam - some rubbish but they sold a lot of cotton separates and nice skirt/top combinations. BHS too had some good clothes - nice suits for the office and lovely cotton summer clothes. Where have they all gone??

👍

HarshbutTrue2 · 01/08/2026 13:41

BestIsWest · 01/08/2026 10:20

I’ve mentioned this before but DM worked in the sewing factories that produced M&S clothes in the 70s and always said how exacting they were in terms of quality. They’d come round to watch the sewers at work and examine the clothes and if there weren’t 8 stitches to an inch (or whatever) they’d instantly reject everything. As a result we had brilliant seconds shops locally. It all got moved abroad in the 90s.

Yes. Those would have been in the days of the st Michael brand. Good British quality. Real wool.
I used to buy in the seconds shop. It didnt look like seconds.
There is such rubbish in the m&s outlet centres today.

HarshbutTrue2 · 01/08/2026 13:51

I had some Laura ashley dresses and tops. There's some Laura ashley fashion in Rivals, i love watching it for the fashion nostalgia.

They also sold their own material and patterns at one time. I made some of my own Laura ashley dresses in Laura ashley material.
I had a black baby cord dress with a floral pattern, which I bought. It lasted years. Their baby cord was so soft. A smaller cord than pincord.

I currently have a jumper and nightie from Laura ashley but they're not natural fibres.

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