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I’m broke, what can take the place of Botox?

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FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 27/06/2026 21:07

I’ve been getting my 11s, forehead, and crows feet done for about 3/4 years, usually every 7-8 months.

But now I’m broke, and my crows feet in particular are beginning to bother me, and my left eyelid feels a bit droopy and uncomfortable.

Is there anything that remotely compares? I can’t use tret, i have eczema and my skin can’t take it.

Does anyone have any ideas? Please?

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FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 28/06/2026 12:21

Cherrytree86 · 28/06/2026 11:33

Fringe is too much faff and high maintenance.

just get Botox and make life easier for yourself, honestly!

Oh deffo not going near a fringe!

I just found a local place with a new client deal on Botox, and I can klarna it, so I’m considering that…

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FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 28/06/2026 12:21

TinDogTavern · 28/06/2026 11:41

Gin. Lots of it, for you and anyone who has to view your ravaged features. Gin

Noted 🤣

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WearyLilac · 28/06/2026 12:32

Reedle shot (can buy from Boots) - I've never had Botox and get asked if I have!

BettyJoanPerske · 28/06/2026 12:37

Nothing can really take the place of botox. Can you cut something else out in order to pay for it?

fivepastmidnight · 28/06/2026 12:54

I can't afford botox very often so throw pretty much everything else at my face.
hydration by drinking water ,on the skin with various moisturisers, collagen gua sha, facial cupping, acupen, face yga, face massage. fascia release you name it I do it I'm not sure how much they help but at least I feel like I'm doing something. I think in the main they work on softening lines and preventing them from getting any worse but they are a commitment and you need to do them regularly.

gillefc82 · 28/06/2026 13:52

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 28/06/2026 12:21

Oh deffo not going near a fringe!

I just found a local place with a new client deal on Botox, and I can klarna it, so I’m considering that…

Do some research first - you don’t want to go somewhere cheap because they use dodgy stuff! x

Charlize43 · 28/06/2026 14:29

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 28/06/2026 04:49

You could try this;
I read that Barbara Cartland used to use sticking plaster to 'hoist up' aging skin, and I think one can see how well it works from the attached photo.

These were called tape lifts - lots of older actresses used them as they weren't picked up by the camera (I assume with thick pancake make-up on top).

I heard that Marlene Dietrich maintained a youthful look into her 70s by having her hairline braided into thin plaits which were them pulled back to lift the skin and hooked into the scalp. Then a wig would be plonked on top. Sounds like a variation on the Croydon Facelift (see pic below).

Other options include
(a) Being comfortable in your skin and accepting how you look.
(b) Adding 10 years to your real age so people will always say, 'Wow! You look amazing!'
(c) A brown paper bag with holes.
(d) (e) and (f).

Charlize43 · 28/06/2026 14:32

Croydon Facelift (below)

I’m broke, what can take the place of Botox?
Toveylove · 28/06/2026 14:36

Use frownies overnight, until you can afford Botox again.

HoppingPavlova · 28/06/2026 14:39

Waitinggame42023 · 27/06/2026 21:14

The Ordinary's Argireline. Known as 'botox in a bottle'. Great for dynamic lines. It's gentle enough for me to use in my eye socket too and after about a month, I've noticed my more hooded droopy eye is less noticeable.

Yes, I have also had good results with this.

I refuse to use Botox, I recommend it in a medical sense for a range of things but don’t agree with cosmetic use for myself, so I do try different external lotions and potions.

The best results I have had was with some minuscule amp of eye serum. I used it on whole face for a week and had multiple people ask if I had work done. Can’t recall what it was, as it cost hundreds for a small vial so was not a sustainable routine product so didn’t invest any memory power.

AwwShucksOhWell · 28/06/2026 14:55

Charlize43 · 28/06/2026 14:29

These were called tape lifts - lots of older actresses used them as they weren't picked up by the camera (I assume with thick pancake make-up on top).

I heard that Marlene Dietrich maintained a youthful look into her 70s by having her hairline braided into thin plaits which were them pulled back to lift the skin and hooked into the scalp. Then a wig would be plonked on top. Sounds like a variation on the Croydon Facelift (see pic below).

Other options include
(a) Being comfortable in your skin and accepting how you look.
(b) Adding 10 years to your real age so people will always say, 'Wow! You look amazing!'
(c) A brown paper bag with holes.
(d) (e) and (f).

Edited

I genuinely do option B (well, I add 5 years). I am always complimented on looking young and people are also less rude about the age I had my kids. Win win!

Obviously doesn't work with people I've known a long time though.

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 28/06/2026 15:11

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 28/06/2026 10:31

Yeah, I don’t give a shit to be honest 🤣

It’s my skin, my face, my body, my choice, my decision.

It is. And of course you’ll only think of yourself. But what is heart breaking to me as a mother of daughters, is that your attitude, and that of many other women like you, impacts everyone. You are part of the problem why women continue to be judged on looks and youth. So whilst it may be your body, your choice, your actions impact society and women and girls at a wider level. If as women we refused to buy into this barbaric ridiculous trend that injecting stuff into our faces makes us more worthy, the world would be a much better for all women and girls. It’s so sad to me that this is the model we are passing down to our daughters.

lightreflectingonwater · 28/06/2026 15:21

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 28/06/2026 15:11

It is. And of course you’ll only think of yourself. But what is heart breaking to me as a mother of daughters, is that your attitude, and that of many other women like you, impacts everyone. You are part of the problem why women continue to be judged on looks and youth. So whilst it may be your body, your choice, your actions impact society and women and girls at a wider level. If as women we refused to buy into this barbaric ridiculous trend that injecting stuff into our faces makes us more worthy, the world would be a much better for all women and girls. It’s so sad to me that this is the model we are passing down to our daughters.

Agree. It's devastating to me that we are creating a culture where even young women feel they have to pump their face full of crap.

Honeyhonay · 28/06/2026 15:26

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 28/06/2026 15:11

It is. And of course you’ll only think of yourself. But what is heart breaking to me as a mother of daughters, is that your attitude, and that of many other women like you, impacts everyone. You are part of the problem why women continue to be judged on looks and youth. So whilst it may be your body, your choice, your actions impact society and women and girls at a wider level. If as women we refused to buy into this barbaric ridiculous trend that injecting stuff into our faces makes us more worthy, the world would be a much better for all women and girls. It’s so sad to me that this is the model we are passing down to our daughters.

What is sad is your sanctimonious comments.
Focus on yourself instead of trying to dictate what other women do.

lovecotswoldsliving · 28/06/2026 15:27

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 28/06/2026 15:11

It is. And of course you’ll only think of yourself. But what is heart breaking to me as a mother of daughters, is that your attitude, and that of many other women like you, impacts everyone. You are part of the problem why women continue to be judged on looks and youth. So whilst it may be your body, your choice, your actions impact society and women and girls at a wider level. If as women we refused to buy into this barbaric ridiculous trend that injecting stuff into our faces makes us more worthy, the world would be a much better for all women and girls. It’s so sad to me that this is the model we are passing down to our daughters.

That’s ridiculous.
The younger generation are far more influenced by social media, than their Mothers etc. So if you feel your daughter will do as you want, you are in for a shock.
It’s the younger generation who are more likely to seek these treatments.
I was at a gorgeous, affluent wedding recently.
One of the guests, who is 35, told me she and her husband micro dose mounjarro. She also has regular Botox. When I looked surprised her comment was that all her friends are doing it!
I have to admit I was surprised about the mounjarro, not the Botox.
Then she said ‘ Don’t tell Mum - she is so judgey!’

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 28/06/2026 16:13

lovecotswoldsliving · 28/06/2026 15:27

That’s ridiculous.
The younger generation are far more influenced by social media, than their Mothers etc. So if you feel your daughter will do as you want, you are in for a shock.
It’s the younger generation who are more likely to seek these treatments.
I was at a gorgeous, affluent wedding recently.
One of the guests, who is 35, told me she and her husband micro dose mounjarro. She also has regular Botox. When I looked surprised her comment was that all her friends are doing it!
I have to admit I was surprised about the mounjarro, not the Botox.
Then she said ‘ Don’t tell Mum - she is so judgey!’

That’s EXACTLY my point. It’s become normalised because many women are doing it and it’s plastered across social media as a result. Every woman, of all ages, needs to stop promoting it. Whether via social media or directly to friends and family they know or live with.

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 28/06/2026 16:15

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Toveylove · 28/06/2026 16:15

What on earth are these people doing on the S&B board?! Much Yawn.

lovecotswoldsliving · 28/06/2026 16:16

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 28/06/2026 16:13

That’s EXACTLY my point. It’s become normalised because many women are doing it and it’s plastered across social media as a result. Every woman, of all ages, needs to stop promoting it. Whether via social media or directly to friends and family they know or live with.

The best thing you can teach a daughter is to think for herself, be her own person and do what she feels is right for her.
i have just had my first Botox at 60.
it made me look fresher and I haven’t told my daughters! This is about me and no one else.

FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 28/06/2026 16:18

AwwShucksOhWell · 28/06/2026 14:55

I genuinely do option B (well, I add 5 years). I am always complimented on looking young and people are also less rude about the age I had my kids. Win win!

Obviously doesn't work with people I've known a long time though.

Haha @AwwShucksOhWell maybe I will pretend to be 56 instead 🤣

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FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 28/06/2026 16:19

rapid3874greekyoghurt · 28/06/2026 15:11

It is. And of course you’ll only think of yourself. But what is heart breaking to me as a mother of daughters, is that your attitude, and that of many other women like you, impacts everyone. You are part of the problem why women continue to be judged on looks and youth. So whilst it may be your body, your choice, your actions impact society and women and girls at a wider level. If as women we refused to buy into this barbaric ridiculous trend that injecting stuff into our faces makes us more worthy, the world would be a much better for all women and girls. It’s so sad to me that this is the model we are passing down to our daughters.

Honestly love, don’t care. Maybe start the millionth thread this year about the tragedy of Botox if you are very exercised about it.

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FloodlightsOnTheSquare · 28/06/2026 16:20

lovecotswoldsliving · 28/06/2026 15:27

That’s ridiculous.
The younger generation are far more influenced by social media, than their Mothers etc. So if you feel your daughter will do as you want, you are in for a shock.
It’s the younger generation who are more likely to seek these treatments.
I was at a gorgeous, affluent wedding recently.
One of the guests, who is 35, told me she and her husband micro dose mounjarro. She also has regular Botox. When I looked surprised her comment was that all her friends are doing it!
I have to admit I was surprised about the mounjarro, not the Botox.
Then she said ‘ Don’t tell Mum - she is so judgey!’

My daughter thinks Botox and my tattoos and piercings are sad 🤣 she isn’t going to follow in my footsteps any time soon.

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rapid3874greekyoghurt · 28/06/2026 16:21

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rapid3874greekyoghurt · 28/06/2026 16:28

lovecotswoldsliving · 28/06/2026 16:16

The best thing you can teach a daughter is to think for herself, be her own person and do what she feels is right for her.
i have just had my first Botox at 60.
it made me look fresher and I haven’t told my daughters! This is about me and no one else.

Why do you think less wrinkles mean you look fresh? Wrinkles are simply a symbol of life experience. They have zero to do with looking fresh. What a bizarre thing to say.