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MOTB dress help

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scoobs321 · 07/06/2026 09:03

My DDs wedding is fast approaching and although I've tried on many dresses and have kind of got an ok dress, I'm not 100% sure it's the one. Wedding will be bright and colourful, church followed by gorgeous victorian conservatory venue reception. I'm 56, 5'8 Sz 14-16 with a largishbust/hourglass figure.
I want a block coloured magenta/,fuscia pink which i think will complement my hair which is salt& pepper but is being grey blended and styled before the big day.

Can I have your honest (but not too harsh) opinions please?
The one I think I'll go with is fron Wallis from vinted having exhausted my search for a new one online. I can upload the others that I have also bought.

Also to say I prefer longer length as I do have a pesky varicose vein in my calf that I'm a bit self conscious of.

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AnchorWHAT · 11/06/2026 12:18

scoobs321 · 09/06/2026 12:58

Thank you for all the comments and suggestions I really do appreciate them.
I am keeping an eye open for other dresses but think I'll probably stick with what I've got eg the 1st dress in my op.
Loving the suggestions to go bold with silver jewellery /silver throw passing and shoes.
I've seen a bag like on vinted, if I was to go with chunky silver necklace, etc do you think this would suit?

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Yes. I love that

Allseeingallknowing · 11/06/2026 12:23

EleanorMc67 · 08/06/2026 03:21

As is this bright pink one. Both these eBay shops accept returns.

https://ebay.io/m/inMW3A

Looks like a maternity dress and the sleeves are over fussy - awful!

AnchorWHAT · 11/06/2026 12:31

now I know that Shein is frowned upon, but I got sucked in to buying these, lovely quality, chunky and really stunningly different. Wore to recent wedding and got lots of compliments.

https://www.shein.co.uk/1pc-Retro-Exaggerated-Metal-Leaf-Brooch-Fashionable-Luxurious-Floral-Accessory-Suitable-For-Women-s-Daily-Wear-And-Formal-Events-p-356407228.html?mallCode=1&pageListType=4&detailBusinessFrom=0-2&imgRatio=3-4&detailBusinessFrom=0-2&pageListType=4

https://www.shein.co.uk/1pc-Women-s-Elegant-White-Enamel-Iris-Leaf-Bracelet-Silver-French-Fashion-Design-Suitable-For-Daily-And-Party-Wear-Versatile-Accessory-For-All-Seasons-p-223581343.html?mallCode=1&pageListType=4&detailBusinessFrom=0-2&imgRatio=3-4&detailBusinessFrom=0-2&pageListType=4

https://www.shein.co.uk/1-Pair-Exaggerated-Gold-Silver-Plated-Alloy-Crinkle-Ocean-Series-Fish-Tail-Earrings-Suitable-For-Women-Vacation-Travel-Beach-Date-Fashion-Versatile-p-68610730.html?mallCode=1&pageListType=4&detailBusinessFrom=0-2&imgRatio=3-4&detailBusinessFrom=0-2&pageListType=4

https://www.shein.co.uk/Wedding-Bridal-Hair-Accessories-Handmade-Glass-Crystal-Rhinestone-Hairpin-Comb-Side-Hair-Clips-Wedding-Decor-Wholesale-p-50313649.html?src_identifier=st%3D4%60sc%3DSilver%20Hair%20Accessory%60sr%3D0%60ps%3D6&src_module=search&src_tab_page_id=page_store1781177293204&mallCode=1&pageListType=4&detailBusinessFrom=0-1_50313649%7C0-2&imgRatio=3-4&detailBusinessFrom=0-1_50313649%7C0-2&pageListType=4

https://www.shein.co.uk/risk/action/limit?risk-id=E4839854966172479488

Allseeingallknowing · 11/06/2026 12:34

These just come up as page 403!

AnchorWHAT · 11/06/2026 13:19

Allseeingallknowing · 11/06/2026 12:34

These just come up as page 403!

Oh sorry, will check again

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AnchorWHAT · 11/06/2026 13:20

Can only do images linking wont work 🤨

nailslikeknives · 14/06/2026 18:22

Your first dress is lovely and really suits your figure.
As MOTB, I think you should wear a hat or fascinator, I think it’s important to look a bit more important! Lots of the guests will be in nice outfits and I think you might want to stand out from them. Plus if MOTG’s look is top to toe, you might feel underdressed with a bare head.

bafta16 · 14/06/2026 18:24

scoobs321 · 07/06/2026 09:03

My DDs wedding is fast approaching and although I've tried on many dresses and have kind of got an ok dress, I'm not 100% sure it's the one. Wedding will be bright and colourful, church followed by gorgeous victorian conservatory venue reception. I'm 56, 5'8 Sz 14-16 with a largishbust/hourglass figure.
I want a block coloured magenta/,fuscia pink which i think will complement my hair which is salt& pepper but is being grey blended and styled before the big day.

Can I have your honest (but not too harsh) opinions please?
The one I think I'll go with is fron Wallis from vinted having exhausted my search for a new one online. I can upload the others that I have also bought.

Also to say I prefer longer length as I do have a pesky varicose vein in my calf that I'm a bit self conscious of.

Hey What do I know? But I'd choose something a bit less fitted. Maybe a small pattern. Accessories need to be up to the minute, not frumpy.

Katie0909 · 15/06/2026 12:30

The dress looks stunning on you and will be perfect with the right shoes and some jewellery.

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