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Anyone tried hyaluronic acid filler for changes to the outer labia?

160 replies

Doreknocker · 22/05/2026 16:54

Almost 50 and my outer labia are getting a bit deflated.

Can get uncomfortable in tight trousers and also it doesnt look as nice as it used to - have had laser hair removal all over so it does show.

Any insight or recommendations foe intimate filler - I would want hyaluronic acid not fat transfer.....?

Im in London.

OP posts:
SoScarletItWas · 23/05/2026 08:06

Chasingsquirrels · 23/05/2026 07:22

@SoScarletItWas
@OriginalPedant

Thanks for posting about this.

I haven't noticed any such symptoms, but came off HRT last autum and started estrogen inhibitors post hormone positive breast cancer a few months ago.

My desire has fallen off a cliff - is this something topical application could help with? And do you know if it is contra-indicated given the estrogen inhibitors?

I'll be making enquiries with my GP & oncologist now!

Topical oestrogen can help restore sensation yes. But you may need testosterone to increase actual libido and desire in the first place. It’s difficult but not impossible to get testosterone prescription added to an HRT regimen. However, if your oestrogen is too low, the body converts T to O. You need blood tests to ensure your O levels are optimum (usually via systemic HRT patches / gel / spray) before GP will consider adding T to the mix.

There is info here about local oestrogen and breast cancer:

https://www.breastcancer.org/research-news/vaginal-estrogen-safe-for-women-with-breast-cancer

And here specifically about using alongside aromatase inhibitors:

https://www.ruh.nhs.uk/patients/patientinformation/BRU028Vaginaldrynessandbreastcancer.pdf

Study: Women With Breast Cancer Can Use Vaginal Estrogen

A study found that vaginal estrogen was safe and effective in treating genitourinary syndrome of menopause in women with breast cancer.

https://www.breastcancer.org/research-news/vaginal-estrogen-safe-for-women-with-breast-cancer

Chasingsquirrels · 23/05/2026 08:11

SoScarletItWas · 23/05/2026 08:06

Topical oestrogen can help restore sensation yes. But you may need testosterone to increase actual libido and desire in the first place. It’s difficult but not impossible to get testosterone prescription added to an HRT regimen. However, if your oestrogen is too low, the body converts T to O. You need blood tests to ensure your O levels are optimum (usually via systemic HRT patches / gel / spray) before GP will consider adding T to the mix.

There is info here about local oestrogen and breast cancer:

https://www.breastcancer.org/research-news/vaginal-estrogen-safe-for-women-with-breast-cancer

And here specifically about using alongside aromatase inhibitors:

https://www.ruh.nhs.uk/patients/patientinformation/BRU028Vaginaldrynessandbreastcancer.pdf

Edited

Thank you for your reply & links, really appreciate you taking the time.

I'm no longer on HRT (had only been on it about 4 months when I found my breast cancer and had to stop it) and am now taking Letrozole as an estrogen inhibitor. Death of desire has pretty much been in the last 3 months since starting the Letrozole. Very frustrating as I want to want sex, but just feel nothing.

I'll contact the GP.

StarlightLady · 23/05/2026 08:13

And to think l once got criticised on MN for saying that l often didn’t wear knickers with long summer dresses in the warm weather.

SoScarletItWas · 23/05/2026 08:13

Chasingsquirrels · 23/05/2026 08:11

Thank you for your reply & links, really appreciate you taking the time.

I'm no longer on HRT (had only been on it about 4 months when I found my breast cancer and had to stop it) and am now taking Letrozole as an estrogen inhibitor. Death of desire has pretty much been in the last 3 months since starting the Letrozole. Very frustrating as I want to want sex, but just feel nothing.

I'll contact the GP.

You’re welcome, we’re all learning! If only these symptoms were talked about as much as hot flushes, eh?

Wishing you all the best x

Ihateboris · 23/05/2026 08:16

cloudysky75 · 22/05/2026 18:18

You on only fans?

Or Only Flaps?

Lifestooshort71 · 23/05/2026 09:15

Love this thread but being serious for a mo, if you're on an aromatase inhibitor post breast cancer, get your oncologist's advice before using anything that replenishes oestrogen.

Chasingsquirrels · 23/05/2026 09:32

Lifestooshort71 · 23/05/2026 09:15

Love this thread but being serious for a mo, if you're on an aromatase inhibitor post breast cancer, get your oncologist's advice before using anything that replenishes oestrogen.

Yes, I wouldn't just take something, I typed GP but would definitely ask the Oncologist.
Having read through the leaflet linked, vagina estrogen isn't advised with my medication (Letrozole).

It does mostly seem to be about physical symptoms & dryness, which I don't have an issue with (yet, I seem to be quickly falling apart).

Lifestooshort71 · 23/05/2026 11:54

Chasingsquirrels · 23/05/2026 09:32

Yes, I wouldn't just take something, I typed GP but would definitely ask the Oncologist.
Having read through the leaflet linked, vagina estrogen isn't advised with my medication (Letrozole).

It does mostly seem to be about physical symptoms & dryness, which I don't have an issue with (yet, I seem to be quickly falling apart).

Yrs, that's what I'm on. 4 years down the line, all my flaps have vanished and I get various UTIs. Another bonus from the little devil pill!

Azandme · 23/05/2026 14:37

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 22/05/2026 19:15

Oh for heavens sake. Labia fillers are not a feminist win and we don't need to rah rah YOU GO GIRL to everything a woman does.

That's absolutely not the point I made.

The point was we don't have to pull women down if they choose to do something we wouldn't.

Nothing "rah rah" about that.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 23/05/2026 14:55

MightyGoldBear · 22/05/2026 18:53

Oo where are you getting your padded knickers from? Fellow horserider and cyclist here.

I wear cycling underwear, but you can get it particularly for riding, apparently. I've never bought it because I also use it for cycling and it works just as well! Have a look here https://www.cyclinguk.org/cycle-magazine/group-test-padded-pants and see if anything suits!

Group test: Padded pants | Cycling UK

Skin-tight Lycra isn’t the only option for saddle-proofing your posterior. Lauren Brooks tests four pairs of padded pants for women

https://www.cyclinguk.org/cycle-magazine/group-test-padded-pants

Error404FucksNotFound · 23/05/2026 14:58

If you are experiencing pain perhaps surgery to remove the excess skin that is causing the pain might be an option.

ThreeDaysinJune · 25/05/2026 02:13

SoScarletItWas · 22/05/2026 19:36

Before your GP visit you might like to know about the two formats local oestrogen comes in.

Vagifem (tiny pessaries that you insert) are best for bladder issues. Put them about halfway up to ‘align’ with the bladder and keep the oestrogen closest to where it’s needed.

You can also get a cream which can be used internally (bit messy) and / or externally all over the vulva including clitoris.

Oh! ‘Clitoral atrophy’ is another horrible sentence to read. But yeah. That can also happen.

@SoScarletItWas can you use the pessaries internally and the cream externally?

Confuserr · 25/05/2026 02:24

Azandme · 23/05/2026 14:37

That's absolutely not the point I made.

The point was we don't have to pull women down if they choose to do something we wouldn't.

Nothing "rah rah" about that.

I actually think we (aka feminists) should "pull women down" if they are contemplating injecting acid into their flaps. Which they've already had lasered.

SoScarletItWas · 25/05/2026 05:36

ThreeDaysinJune · 25/05/2026 02:13

@SoScarletItWas can you use the pessaries internally and the cream externally?

Yes. But some GPs will tell you it’s one or the other so you may have to push.

Guidance from the BSSM says to consider combining two local treatments if symptoms don’t improve with one route. Think it’s about page 8 of the guidance.

https://bssm.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Position-statement-for-management-of-genitourinary-syndrome-of-the-menopause-GSM.pdf

https://bssm.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Position-statement-for-management-of-genitourinary-syndrome-of-the-menopause-GSM.pdf

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 25/05/2026 10:26

Azandme · 23/05/2026 14:37

That's absolutely not the point I made.

The point was we don't have to pull women down if they choose to do something we wouldn't.

Nothing "rah rah" about that.

Why should we encourage or even be neutral on women injecting shit into their labia to make them look plumper?

StarlightLady · 25/05/2026 10:31

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 25/05/2026 10:26

Why should we encourage or even be neutral on women injecting shit into their labia to make them look plumper?

Am l wrong from reading this thread that it is a health issue being discussed though? Not a case of looking plumper.

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 25/05/2026 10:35

StarlightLady · 25/05/2026 10:31

Am l wrong from reading this thread that it is a health issue being discussed though? Not a case of looking plumper.

There's no mention of a health issue. The OP has already had one aesthetic procedure on her genitals.

Error404FucksNotFound · 25/05/2026 11:19

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 25/05/2026 10:35

There's no mention of a health issue. The OP has already had one aesthetic procedure on her genitals.

Op says it causes her pain. I would argue pain is a health issue.

roses2 · 25/05/2026 11:22

This reminds me of that movie called Spread where the lady had baby fat implanted in her vagina to feel tighter for her younger boyfriend!

ThreeDaysinJune · 25/05/2026 11:26

Thanks @SoScarletItWas - very helpful.

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 25/05/2026 12:19

Error404FucksNotFound · 25/05/2026 11:19

Op says it causes her pain. I would argue pain is a health issue.

Um no, she says it can get "uncomfortable" in tight trousers.

This is very clearly about aesthetics.

FictionalCharacter · 25/05/2026 12:44

9YearsOfPain · 22/05/2026 18:54

Atrophy.

Which is hell. I wish I'd known about this before menopause hit me. It's still not well known - most info out there talk about "dryness" and it's SO much more than that, and much worse.

Doesitneverend · 25/05/2026 12:57

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 25/05/2026 12:19

Um no, she says it can get "uncomfortable" in tight trousers.

This is very clearly about aesthetics.

One person's uncomfortable is another person's severe pain. We all have different thresholds. As the original OP has vanished and the thread has become a useful discussion about vaginal atrophy and it's management, which the OP likely has, maybe it is better to let your views on other people's aesthetic preferences go.

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 25/05/2026 13:19

Doesitneverend · 25/05/2026 12:57

One person's uncomfortable is another person's severe pain. We all have different thresholds. As the original OP has vanished and the thread has become a useful discussion about vaginal atrophy and it's management, which the OP likely has, maybe it is better to let your views on other people's aesthetic preferences go.

Maybe it's better you don't engage someone in conversation if you don't want to hear their views?

If you have to make up stuff about "severe pain" to justify your point, then you don't have a good point.

I will continue to speak up about women putting themselves at risk with aesthetic surgery.