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Anyone tried hyaluronic acid filler for changes to the outer labia?

160 replies

Doreknocker · 22/05/2026 16:54

Almost 50 and my outer labia are getting a bit deflated.

Can get uncomfortable in tight trousers and also it doesnt look as nice as it used to - have had laser hair removal all over so it does show.

Any insight or recommendations foe intimate filler - I would want hyaluronic acid not fat transfer.....?

Im in London.

OP posts:
OriginalPedant · 22/05/2026 18:29

Sounds painful.

My gynae friend gets on his soapbox about topical oestrogen cream. He says all women over 40 should be using it to save their twats and flaps.

Crushed23 · 22/05/2026 18:29

Pinkissmart · 22/05/2026 18:08

Christ. Women aren’t allowed to age at all, in any way. I despair

They are. 99.99% of women will leave their ageing labia alone.

SoScarletItWas · 22/05/2026 18:30

Filler migrates. Pop some more in your cheeks and it’ll get there eventually.

Thiswasanescapeplan · 22/05/2026 18:31

OriginalPedant · 22/05/2026 18:29

Sounds painful.

My gynae friend gets on his soapbox about topical oestrogen cream. He says all women over 40 should be using it to save their twats and flaps.

Takes a twat to know a twat I suppose

9YearsOfPain · 22/05/2026 18:33

Thiswasanescapeplan · 22/05/2026 18:27

Sunny bank holiday weekend and suddenly MN is full of very dodgy threads. 🤔

You’re not wrong.

Years go (more than 20!) I was on a wedding planning forum and there was a bride who wanted recommendations for a long lasting bright red lipstick she could paint her nipples with so they would be visible to the groom through her sheer satin dress.

i genuinely wonder if this is the same poster. It has similar levels of weird.

Perrygreen · 22/05/2026 18:38

9YearsOfPain · 22/05/2026 18:27

I had to have Botox in my perineum when my episiotomy wouldn’t heal. They wouldn’t put the rest in my face which I thought was fucking cruel.

I had botox for an anal fissure. I was dead annoyed I couldn't have my face done too.

9YearsOfPain · 22/05/2026 18:40

Perrygreen · 22/05/2026 18:38

I had botox for an anal fissure. I was dead annoyed I couldn't have my face done too.

They gave me the most handsome gynae to do it as well. #Mortified

ladyrinths · 22/05/2026 18:42

My gynae friend gets on his soapbox about topical oestrogen cream. He says all women over 40 should be using it to save their twats and flaps.

what happens to your twats & flaps without it?

SoScarletItWas · 22/05/2026 18:43

Thiswasanescapeplan · 22/05/2026 18:31

Takes a twat to know a twat I suppose

He’s right though! [winces in menopause]

Thiswasanescapeplan · 22/05/2026 18:45

SoScarletItWas · 22/05/2026 18:43

He’s right though! [winces in menopause]

Really hope he doesn't go around calling women's anatomy twats though

Flannelfeet · 22/05/2026 18:45

SweetSummerHerbs · 22/05/2026 17:26

I know they have specialised hand, feet , eye and teeth models but I have never heard of a labia model.

So when you say that "in a manner of speaking" you are an outer labia model, do you mean flashing your fanny on film?

🤣🤣🤣 love it!!!!

Flannelfeet · 22/05/2026 18:46

Stuff that, I bet thats braw and sair 😬😬😬

Thiswasanescapeplan · 22/05/2026 18:47

9YearsOfPain · 22/05/2026 18:33

You’re not wrong.

Years go (more than 20!) I was on a wedding planning forum and there was a bride who wanted recommendations for a long lasting bright red lipstick she could paint her nipples with so they would be visible to the groom through her sheer satin dress.

i genuinely wonder if this is the same poster. It has similar levels of weird.

Do you think she was aware that if her groom could see her (bright red?!) nips then...so could the vicar/her mother in law/great aunty Ethel delete as applicable 😩 grim!

Flannelfeet · 22/05/2026 18:48

Port1aCastis · 22/05/2026 17:41

You can get a Barbie done on your flaps, I know this because I googled.

Barbie hasn't got one. Well the barbies is had in the 80s just had a smooth bit of nothing there 😆 🤣 Ken had the same

Flannelfeet · 22/05/2026 18:50

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 22/05/2026 17:51

Padded knickers.

Horse riders everywhere are nodding. I can get a bit sore around the flap area when doing extensive saddle-work, but I've found Gina pessaries have helped enormously. Plus padded knickers.

Ooohhh those knickers with the built in camel toe 🤮🤭. Only problem is, when the fanny modeling is happening it will just deflate.

ToastCraving · 22/05/2026 18:50

9YearsOfPain · 22/05/2026 18:33

You’re not wrong.

Years go (more than 20!) I was on a wedding planning forum and there was a bride who wanted recommendations for a long lasting bright red lipstick she could paint her nipples with so they would be visible to the groom through her sheer satin dress.

i genuinely wonder if this is the same poster. It has similar levels of weird.

These days one of the lip tints that are blue at first then you wipe them off would be great for nipple shading

SummerMadnessBegins · 22/05/2026 18:52

OriginalPedant · 22/05/2026 18:29

Sounds painful.

My gynae friend gets on his soapbox about topical oestrogen cream. He says all women over 40 should be using it to save their twats and flaps.

Save their flaps and twats from what?!?!?

MightyGoldBear · 22/05/2026 18:53

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 22/05/2026 17:51

Padded knickers.

Horse riders everywhere are nodding. I can get a bit sore around the flap area when doing extensive saddle-work, but I've found Gina pessaries have helped enormously. Plus padded knickers.

Oo where are you getting your padded knickers from? Fellow horserider and cyclist here.

9YearsOfPain · 22/05/2026 18:54

ladyrinths · 22/05/2026 18:42

My gynae friend gets on his soapbox about topical oestrogen cream. He says all women over 40 should be using it to save their twats and flaps.

what happens to your twats & flaps without it?

Atrophy.

9YearsOfPain · 22/05/2026 18:54

SummerMadnessBegins · 22/05/2026 18:52

Save their flaps and twats from what?!?!?

Atrophy

Thiswasanescapeplan · 22/05/2026 18:56

No amount of cream will get your bits a trophy 🏆

Thiswasanescapeplan · 22/05/2026 18:56

(sorry couldn't not)

Marmalademorning · 22/05/2026 18:57

Blimms · 22/05/2026 16:55

Seriously?

I know, right?! 😂

midJulytarget · 22/05/2026 18:57

Thiswasanescapeplan · 22/05/2026 18:56

No amount of cream will get your bits a trophy 🏆

My bits still worked the other night, age 50 after 2.5 years of no action, so I feel they deserve a trophy

Am googling topical oestrogen cream just in case

viques · 22/05/2026 18:58

I am going to wait for the Kardashians to lead the way. 😎