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Wedding Guest Outfit - BOLD dress code

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RascalQueen · 29/04/2026 16:22

Wedding in August. Garden wedding, not going to be huge but one half is Irish.

I'm planning on wearing some gold block heels (no stilettos becuase of the garden).

The dress code is BOLD. Now, I'm more of a classic wedding guest dresser so this has thrown me a bit.

I'm 5'4'', blonde balayage hair, blue eyes (do not suit purples, yellows or orange). Late 30's, size 12-14 with a bit of a mum-tum.

I have ordered this jumpsuit but I don't love it - very heavy polyester which might not be great in August: https://www.nobodyschild.com/products/nc-x-lisou-pink-crepe-one-shoulder-jay-draped-jumpsuit-p255571pnk?_gl=15643js_upMQ.._gs*MQ..&gclid=Cj0KCQjwgr_NBhDFARIsAHiUWr4LtMTBA6jYu3cfM27m_iEhgVf8WFMb3aHtg4MEN0RaQE522HBYUqkaAjP_EALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds&gbraid=0AAAAADQCJIUMRZZKn5E7qngOHFvwhROfq

There is also a part of me that's considering turning myself into a human disco ball:

Option 1: https://www.asos.com/arrange/arrange-disc-sequin-halter-trapeze-maxi-dress-in-lilac/prd/209489937#ctaref-product_share_native

Option 2: https://www.asos.com/arrange/arrange-embellished-sequin-cami-midi-dress-with-full-skirt-in-soft-pink/prd/209554508#ctaref-product_share_native

I know some people hate dress codes, but they are such a fun couple that I really want to do the dress code proud and have some fun.

NC x Lisou Pink Crepe One Shoulder Jay Draped Jumpsuit

NC X LISOU Pink Crepe One Shoulder Jay Draped Jumpsuit

https://www.nobodyschild.com/products/nc-x-lisou-pink-crepe-one-shoulder-jay-draped-jumpsuit-p255571pnk?_gl=1*5643js*_up*MQ..*_gs*MQ..&gbraid=0AAAAADQCJIUMRZZKn5E7qngOHFvwhROfq&gclid=Cj0KCQjwgr_NBhDFARIsAHiUWr4LtMTBA6jYu3cfM27m_iEhgVf8WFMb3aHtg4MEN0RaQE522HBYUqkaAjP_EALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

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Cherrypie0210 · 04/05/2026 11:23

ForCosyLion · 03/05/2026 18:37

Beautiful style.

You have really good taste, @Cherrypie0210!

Aw thanks, i don’t get much chance to shop for dressy clothes with 3 little ones so i am happy to shop on others behalf and live vicariously through them 😅

JustSawJohnny · 04/05/2026 16:35

Namechangerage · 29/04/2026 19:14

I have this dress and highly recommend if you can get one in your size second hand. Search “jigsaw Roksanda dress”

it’s silk

https://ebay.us/m/F7enho

Is this really 'bold'?

I think maybe OP needs a bit of clarification on what exactly the couple are expecting because bold to some on this site seems to be everyday office to me!

JustSawJohnny · 04/05/2026 16:37

I hear there's a sale on pink, puffball sleaved 80's dresses but your friend's faces may let you know if they don't like it.....

JustSawJohnny · 04/05/2026 16:40

Imfukinradiant · 29/04/2026 22:12

Wow!! The last one is fabulous!!

I'm contemplating buying one myself! Lovely!

Allseeingallknowing · 04/05/2026 18:30

JustSawJohnny · 04/05/2026 16:40

I'm contemplating buying one myself! Lovely!

I don’t see how anyone can look lovely in that giant strawberry puffball!

JustSawJohnny · 04/05/2026 20:04

Allseeingallknowing · 04/05/2026 18:30

I don’t see how anyone can look lovely in that giant strawberry puffball!

Cus we're all different babes, and that's just fine.

NeedATreat · 04/05/2026 20:08

I love all three of your options OP. I clearly have no business being on S&B 🤣🤣

Goditsmemargaret · 05/05/2026 08:11

I can't see the ASOS links, could somebody post screenshots of the OP's two dresses after the jumpsuit

Twattergy · 05/05/2026 08:21

Sequins or shiny fabrics in August? No...if its hot you will die!!! Avoid for that reason.

allthegoldicouldeat · 05/05/2026 09:45

Another vote for Never Fully Dressed.

Scully01 · 05/05/2026 12:10

I love this dress code, maybe the only dress code I'd actually follow!! But I love bold styles so can see how this could be overwhelming for those into more traditional dressing.

ForCosyLion · 05/05/2026 15:56

Allseeingallknowing · 04/05/2026 18:30

I don’t see how anyone can look lovely in that giant strawberry puffball!

I agree! Unless you're six foot tall and are wearing heels, you'd look like a hot-air balloon that's lost its basket!

Allseeingallknowing · 05/05/2026 15:57

ForCosyLion · 05/05/2026 15:56

I agree! Unless you're six foot tall and are wearing heels, you'd look like a hot-air balloon that's lost its basket!

😂😂😂

ButterYellowFlowers · 05/05/2026 15:59

I would wear a dress I already own. I’m being bold by doing whatever I like.

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