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Wedding Guest Outfit - BOLD dress code

113 replies

RascalQueen · 29/04/2026 16:22

Wedding in August. Garden wedding, not going to be huge but one half is Irish.

I'm planning on wearing some gold block heels (no stilettos becuase of the garden).

The dress code is BOLD. Now, I'm more of a classic wedding guest dresser so this has thrown me a bit.

I'm 5'4'', blonde balayage hair, blue eyes (do not suit purples, yellows or orange). Late 30's, size 12-14 with a bit of a mum-tum.

I have ordered this jumpsuit but I don't love it - very heavy polyester which might not be great in August: https://www.nobodyschild.com/products/nc-x-lisou-pink-crepe-one-shoulder-jay-draped-jumpsuit-p255571pnk?_gl=15643js_upMQ.._gs*MQ..&gclid=Cj0KCQjwgr_NBhDFARIsAHiUWr4LtMTBA6jYu3cfM27m_iEhgVf8WFMb3aHtg4MEN0RaQE522HBYUqkaAjP_EALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds&gbraid=0AAAAADQCJIUMRZZKn5E7qngOHFvwhROfq

There is also a part of me that's considering turning myself into a human disco ball:

Option 1: https://www.asos.com/arrange/arrange-disc-sequin-halter-trapeze-maxi-dress-in-lilac/prd/209489937#ctaref-product_share_native

Option 2: https://www.asos.com/arrange/arrange-embellished-sequin-cami-midi-dress-with-full-skirt-in-soft-pink/prd/209554508#ctaref-product_share_native

I know some people hate dress codes, but they are such a fun couple that I really want to do the dress code proud and have some fun.

NC x Lisou Pink Crepe One Shoulder Jay Draped Jumpsuit

NC X LISOU Pink Crepe One Shoulder Jay Draped Jumpsuit

https://www.nobodyschild.com/products/nc-x-lisou-pink-crepe-one-shoulder-jay-draped-jumpsuit-p255571pnk?_gl=1*5643js*_up*MQ..*_gs*MQ..&gbraid=0AAAAADQCJIUMRZZKn5E7qngOHFvwhROfq&gclid=Cj0KCQjwgr_NBhDFARIsAHiUWr4LtMTBA6jYu3cfM27m_iEhgVf8WFMb3aHtg4MEN0RaQE522HBYUqkaAjP_EALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

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Imfukinradiant · 29/04/2026 16:27

The jumpsuit fits the bill fine. I like it.
I’m sorry but the dresses are gawd awful.

7238SM · 29/04/2026 16:38

Well you are much braver than me. I wasn't expecting anything SO bold 😆
I too like the jumpsuit. I don't like the dresses. That pink disco ball dress has no support. (I ask because I absolutely can't even have a strapless bra without my boobs bouncing off my knees!)

John Lewis have a sale currently but nearly all their jumpsuits are also nylon. What is it with UK clothing that its all plastic! Sorry I'm no help, but a hopeful bump to someone that can.

Rocknrollstar · 29/04/2026 17:53

There’s bold and bold. These three look like fancy dress!

ODFOx · 29/04/2026 18:05

Vivian of Holloway and a big petticoat.
jumpsuits aren’t bold this year.

ODFOx · 29/04/2026 18:10

And a fabulous hat

Magsbd · 29/04/2026 19:11

I love the jumpsuit!

NeverTalksToStrangers2 · 29/04/2026 19:11

I can't see the dresses for some reason?

Namechangerage · 29/04/2026 19:14

I have this dress and highly recommend if you can get one in your size second hand. Search “jigsaw Roksanda dress”

it’s silk

https://ebay.us/m/F7enho

Wedding Guest Outfit - BOLD dress code
Magsbd · 29/04/2026 19:14

I also like most of the dresses on Little Black Dress and would pick one of the bolder ones.

Namechangerage · 29/04/2026 19:21

I like the pink jumpsuit but hate the dresses too, sorry OP!

I also hate dress codes like this… just let people dress how they like for gods sake, especially when it’s so open to interpretation.

ForCosyLion · 29/04/2026 19:31

Imfukinradiant · 29/04/2026 16:27

The jumpsuit fits the bill fine. I like it.
I’m sorry but the dresses are gawd awful.

I think the exact opposite! 🤣 The jumpsuit is garish imo and the cut looks huge and silly. Option 1 Asos is fun but opportunities to wear it will be limited. I think Option 2 Asos is GORGEOUS!

GU24Mum · 29/04/2026 19:33

I’d wear what you want and say that you decided to be bold and ignore the dress code!

ForCosyLion · 29/04/2026 19:34

I can't believe everyone likes that hideous jumpsuit so much!

The Farm Rio pick is beautiful.

IsThistheMiddleofNowhere · 29/04/2026 20:32

The jumpsuit is great.

mondaytosunday · 29/04/2026 20:43

Love the jumpsuit. The others look uncomfortable and not appropriate for a garden wedding.

LiquidSquid · 29/04/2026 20:44

Your dresses aren't showing up for me.

Oasis have some nice bold colour dresses in.
For that dress code, if I wasn't used to wearing bold colours, then I'd probably go for one bright colour dress & a clashing handbag & shoes.

Wedding Guest Outfit - BOLD dress code
Wedding Guest Outfit - BOLD dress code
Wedding Guest Outfit - BOLD dress code
Wedding Guest Outfit - BOLD dress code
Amiacoolorwarmcolour · 29/04/2026 20:47

That jumpsuit is bold. I don’t think you can go much bolder than that.
I prefer the last dress but maybe that’s not bold enough.

PhaedraTwo · 29/04/2026 20:48

NeverTalksToStrangers2 · 29/04/2026 19:11

I can't see the dresses for some reason?

Me neither. ASOS links never work.