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Is 'vanity sizing' getting worse?

191 replies

LaburnumGrove · 04/04/2026 10:34

Years ago I was a 10 and my wedding dress was a 10 (very fitted waist) and my waist was 24 inches.

We all know that has changed and some 10s now are 28 inch waist.

But what about tops too?

I've noticed that more and more tops (T shirts etc) are available in a size 6 which was very unusual before.

I'm usually an 8 now in many clothes but some tops I'm verging on needing a 6. I'm petite and 32D bust but size 6 hardly ever existed in most brands years ago.

OP posts:
jeIIy · 04/04/2026 14:33

Wedding dresses have always had different sizing - they come up very small.

bedfrog · 04/04/2026 17:16

Doggymummar · 04/04/2026 14:32

I sell vintage clothes online and an 8 was a 24 inch waist in monsoon in the 90s. I'm an 8 now and it varies widely depending on style and fit. But as has been said, it doesn't matter what the label says so long as it fits. I buy exclusively online due to personal preference and it's not hard if you know your measurements

I'm a 90s 8 and I can't find clothes in shops that fit me any more! It's a nightmare, so now I only buy vintage. I was over the moon when I bought a vintage dress recently and it fit like a glove. I hate vanity sizing.

GreaterCassowary · 04/04/2026 17:19

LaburnumGrove · 04/04/2026 14:21

30 years ago, when you were 15, a size 10 was not a 28 inch waist.
My wedding wasn't that many years before then and a 10 was a 24 inch waist.

Edited

It most certainly was. It was fairly recently that I got rid of some jeans I had from Topshop that were that size from when I was 18/19. I got married at 27 and my 25.5" waist needed a size 8, which is consistent with a 10 being 28".

thedevilinablackdress · 04/04/2026 18:15

bedfrog · 04/04/2026 17:16

I'm a 90s 8 and I can't find clothes in shops that fit me any more! It's a nightmare, so now I only buy vintage. I was over the moon when I bought a vintage dress recently and it fit like a glove. I hate vanity sizing.

That's not exactly about vanity sizing. More that your size is no longer a large enough demographic for most retailers to cater for.

JMAngel1 · 04/04/2026 18:21

MynameisJune · 04/04/2026 10:41

Does it matter? As long as you can find clothes that fit properly does it really matter what size the label says?

it does matter if you’re a true size 6 and everything drowns you.

Petrine · 04/04/2026 18:28

I bought a vintage skirt (St Michael which was M&S clothing). It's marked large, waist 26". I don't know what a large waist size is now but I do know that it's not 26"

When I was a teenager my waist was 22" and that wasn't unusual. I was a size 10.

LaburnumGrove · 04/04/2026 18:33

GreaterCassowary · 04/04/2026 17:19

It most certainly was. It was fairly recently that I got rid of some jeans I had from Topshop that were that size from when I was 18/19. I got married at 27 and my 25.5" waist needed a size 8, which is consistent with a 10 being 28".

I'm going back to before you were alive !

In the 1970s -early 1980s, a 24 inch waist was a size 10.
I had dress patterns from that era which show sizes and measurements.

You can't make a call on this by one pair of trousers from Top Shop.

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thedevilinablackdress · 04/04/2026 19:01

JMAngel1 · 04/04/2026 18:21

it does matter if you’re a true size 6 and everything drowns you.

Then you buy a modern 2 or 4. If they don't exist, it's per my previous post about retailers catering only to the majority. Unfortunate for many.

Legomania · 04/04/2026 19:26

I mean, if you go back 50 years in a huge variety of products, things will have changed, yes

ArwenUndomniel · 04/04/2026 19:29

Oh great, it's the weekly "Let's make women feel shit about themselves and their size" thread. These are always catnip to people with disordered eating because it allows them to reassure themselves that they're not really too thin at size 6, it's just everyone else that's too fat. "Vanity sizing" has such a nasty, sneering undertone too, like "Look at all these vain fatties thinking they're slim because they can get into a size 10 when back in the 70s they would have been a 20 and nobody would have even made clothes to fit them".

And before anyone accuses me of having a chip on my (fat) shoulder I'm currently significantly underweight due to an eating disorder, and I can find clothes to fit me just fine. I'm usually a 6, but sometimes an 8, depending on the shop. So I'm afraid I simply don't believe these people who claim that they're perfectly normal-sized but all the clothes on the high street are somehow swamping them and driving them to the children's section. I think it's just a way of announcing that they are The Thinnest.

Btw, I don't expect clothes manufacturers to base their standard sizing around my abnormal proportions because if they did that they would go bankrupt. They have to make clothes that the majority of women will be able to wear so anyone who is an outlier at either end of the spectrum is going to find it harder to buy anything. That's just the way the market economy works, it's got nothing to do with "vanity". But as it happens, I can still shop from standard ranges without much of a problem, especially in European brands like Mango, H&M and Zara. Maybe look there if you're really struggling.

Legomania · 04/04/2026 19:33

Also, brands aimed at middle-aged women have always come up much bigger than those aimed at a younger market.

henlake7 · 04/04/2026 19:38

I really don't see why this is bothering people. Surely you either just try clothes on in the shop or go by the measurement charts on line? Whatever fits is the size you are who cares what you used to be or might have been in the 1950s!

Also maybe it's vanity sizing but women have gotten bigger over the decades. Meaning taller and wider, not just fatter. So today's small will naturally be larger then a small from decades ago.

Petrine · 04/04/2026 19:47

I don’t think it is bothering anyone. It just makes a bit of a nonsense of sizing when each shop differs from another. I bought a pair of size 10 Hobbs trousers and found the waist measured 30” - ridiculous in my view.

I find it interesting to see just how big people have become in my own lifetime. It has happened relatively recently too. Most shops used to go from sizes 10 to 18. Now I’ve seen size 32 on the rail.

Catcatcatcatcat · 04/04/2026 19:55

LaburnumGrove · 04/04/2026 18:33

I'm going back to before you were alive !

In the 1970s -early 1980s, a 24 inch waist was a size 10.
I had dress patterns from that era which show sizes and measurements.

You can't make a call on this by one pair of trousers from Top Shop.

Edited

I still have a size 12 skirt from the 1970s which clearly states it’s a 24 inch waist. I can wear it again now all my current skirts are size 6/8!!

Squirrelsnut · 04/04/2026 20:03

IWasThereOnce · 04/04/2026 11:41

Yes it’s really confusing and I can’t order online anymore as I always pick the wrong size ! As a teen in the 90s I was tiny and wore a size 8 and that was the smallest size I ever saw, I was very tall though and I remember my friend who was tiny and petite always having to go to top shop for most of her things as they seemed to be the only place with size 4/6. She often had to buy children’s clothes !

I was a teen in the 80s and had the same thing. My teeny friend was an 8 and not all shops had them. She really was petite and 6.5 stone!

Legomania · 04/04/2026 20:04

Petrine · 04/04/2026 19:47

I don’t think it is bothering anyone. It just makes a bit of a nonsense of sizing when each shop differs from another. I bought a pair of size 10 Hobbs trousers and found the waist measured 30” - ridiculous in my view.

I find it interesting to see just how big people have become in my own lifetime. It has happened relatively recently too. Most shops used to go from sizes 10 to 18. Now I’ve seen size 32 on the rail.

Which rail? Size 32 is clearly not a mainstream size even now

ChopstickNovice · 04/04/2026 20:05

Newmeagain · 04/04/2026 11:43

What I find annoying is that there is no consistency.

Right!! I can be a size 8 in some shops but a 14 in others!! Madness.

henlake7 · 04/04/2026 20:13

I think lack of consistency in sizing is a whole other issue TBH. Although it's more frustrating when it happens in the same brand, esp when it's really crazy.
For example I recently bought some packs of knicks from the same brand in the same size and somehow the black ones are significantly smaller then the nude ones!🤔

GreaterCassowary · 04/04/2026 20:17

LaburnumGrove · 04/04/2026 18:33

I'm going back to before you were alive !

In the 1970s -early 1980s, a 24 inch waist was a size 10.
I had dress patterns from that era which show sizes and measurements.

You can't make a call on this by one pair of trousers from Top Shop.

Edited

Not just one pair but nevermind.

Boopybop · 05/04/2026 09:07

Totally agree. I’ve put on weight recently and am now the same weight I was in the mid 1990’s. In 1995, I had to wear a size 18 (bordering on 20 at times). I’m now a size 14, and can still squeeze into a lot of size 12.

LaburnumGrove · 05/04/2026 09:07

GreaterCassowary · 04/04/2026 20:17

Not just one pair but nevermind.

I made my own clothes for years and the patterns had sizes on them for how much material you bought and cut the fabric.That was more the point - and further back than you experienced.

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AfternoonVanessa · 05/04/2026 09:07

My very beautiful (fat or thin) late mother used to say ' leave in the label you like. Cut the others out'.

LaburnumGrove · 05/04/2026 09:08

AfternoonVanessa · 05/04/2026 09:07

My very beautiful (fat or thin) late mother used to say ' leave in the label you like. Cut the others out'.

Misses the point!

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AfternoonVanessa · 05/04/2026 09:10

Not really. She ment all sizes vary. Why get upset about it.

LaurieFairyCake · 05/04/2026 09:26

My waist is 24 inches, I’m taking in size 4 clothes if they are fitted trousers. Mostly I’m sticking to tie waist trousers as it’s easier.