Is this outfit too much for an Irish church wedding in May?

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Another wedding guest one sorry!!

I am part of the grooms family. I will be doing one church reading and will be in a few pictures. I bought this and loved it. But now I am thinking it is too much? I am a size 14, 5'6'' tall, my bum/ bust measurements are equal and my waist is defined. I'm 36

Irish church wedding in May

https://www.coastfashion.com/product/coast-one-shoulder-ruffle-crepe-midi-dress_bcc09391?colour=red

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No.

Not in an Irish church - Catholic or Presbyterian.

Perfect for the hen might!!

What about COI?

I'd say the same.

Tad more conservative throughout the 32 counties.

My great aunts would be so stony faced 🤣

We're catholics haha we dress a LOT more formal than this for a wedding! It's very plain.

The Jen Pink Midi dress from Phase Eight is lovely, as is the green long-sleeved dress. Gas how people think they are an authority on Irish catholic churches because they have an Irish grandparent - my mam said when they were young, they used to cover their hair at church, so a huge amount has changed. I've flashed a bit of shoulder and seen many a shoulder in a church - no one caught fire!

I don’t see anything wrong or exceptionally revealing about this dress. Contrary to some beliefs the Irish wear the same outfits to a church wedding as would be worn by the British public to any wedding in the UK. The only thing I’d be worried about is a supportive bra, especially since you said you’ve a large bust.

Yes. Exposed shoulder is not appropriate.
The dress is lovely, could you wear a wrap?

It’s a lovely dress but depends on the time of year. I wouldn’t want to be wearing a crepe material dress over summer. Be nice for a winter wedding with a shrug.

It's gorgeous! I'm Irish and we love it when everyone dresses up for weddings. It's a sign of respect for the bride and groom. Get that dress and enjoy the wedding x

Now, I didn’t like the dress AT ALL on the link to the store. Thought it looked a bit tacky and not wedding-y. BUT then I saw the photos of you wearing it, OP, and I’ve completely changed my tune! I think it looks lovely on you, really suits you, complements your figure. Sometimes things look completely different when you try them on, guess this is one of those! I agree that perhaps you might want something over your shoulders in the church, but it’s fab. Wear it and enjoy yourself!

I haven’t seen so much angst about shoulders outside the Vatican steps. Nobody will take a blind bit of notice.

Absolutely fine for an Irish church wedding. Speaking as an Irish person.
Lovely dress by the way! Weather in May can be hit and miss - you might want a pashmina or something to keep you warm during outdoor photos.

If you like it go for it but personally I would wear a bolero or shawl to cover my shoulders, to be respectful in a church. I have worn a fabulous strapless dress from Coast to a wedding but it wasn’t a church wedding, it was in a countryside hotel. Definitely keep shoulders covered, no revealing cleavage, no mini skirts or bare legs (wear ultra fine stockings or tights) and you will be fine.

Older Catholic ladies will take note believe me. My mum went mad at her niece for showing a little bit too much cleavage in church. Lol

I hope her niece told her to mind her own business! Nothing wrong with showing off the boobies at an Irish wedding.

This arrived today. I love it. I feel a lot more comoftable and happy in it.

I had to get a size too big since it was the last one. The belt takes in the waist but I think I will have to have a small alteration on the shoulders.

Love it though!!

That is a lovely colour, OP - thankfully, you won't have to worry about people throwing stones at you and yelling, "Harlot!" at the wedding! It does need a tidy up around the shoulders by a good tailor but its always best to buy bigger and get it fitted. You are going to look gorgeous, have a lovely time!