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I need to shop for a wedding outfit this morning to wear this afternoon? Where to go? What style to aim for???

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BoxedOff · 31/01/2026 08:18

the dry cleaner LOST the dress I was going to wear so please HELP

i can go to a large shopping centre like Westfield or I can go to the centre of London as the wedding is there so I have a wide choice of shops. I want to choose a dress this morning online, call the shop to check it’s in stock, then go. Help me find a good dress.

I want a really smart, eye catching, well made and eye catching outfit. I want colourful as that’s the instruction for the wedding.

I am 50 years old. 5’11’’. Size 10. Quite small bust (c cup but they look smaller for some reason). I have hair that used to be brown and is now lots of caramel highlights to hide the grey.

because of my height and age I won’t wear heels.

budget is generous. I could spend up to £500 on dress, acccessories etc but I would prefer much less.

i am giving a reading in the church so I need to look great and my face is not by best asset so I need the outfit to do the looking great. Any ideas?

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Tonissister · 31/01/2026 09:59

WhosMadeline · 31/01/2026 09:00

I would not look online and phone and ask if they have it if I only had a morning to nail getting the outfit. Wastes time and might not be as nice in real life. I would go into town asap and start trying on what is in stock in front of me.

Personally I would hit John Lewis first. Also Hobbs, Phase 8, Jigsaw, Monsoon, Coast if that still exists. Ghost is really good. Probably is within JL if not its own shop.

Good luck! Have a wonderful day and enjoy.

Ghost is a good shout. I love their dresses but they are definitely cut for tall women. At 5'11" you would look great in anything by them.

ZookeeperSE · 31/01/2026 10:03

Definitely Selfridges as there is a lot of choice (maybe too much). But with your budget I’d be getting this, and maybe a very lightweight pashima if the church is cold. Not a fan of jackets over dressy dresses

https://www.libertylondon.com/uk/peacock-manor-silk-satin-gala-maxi-dress-000798996.html

Lots if other colour ways for the Gala dress btw if you’re not a fan of green

Liberty Peacock Manor Silk Satin Gala Maxi Dress | Liberty

The Peacock Manor Gala Maxi Dress is crafted from our Belgravia Silk Satin with just a hint of 70s’ inspired fluted drama for the perfect new season addition to

https://www.libertylondon.com/uk/peacock-manor-silk-satin-gala-maxi-dress-000798996.html

Pussert · 31/01/2026 10:05

Since you did have a dress (that is now lost!) can you not use the shoes/accessories that you had already planned to wear with the original dress and base a new outfit around those. Then you only have to focus on one item.
Do you have a picture of the original dress so you can do an image search for something similar?

TheCurious0range · 31/01/2026 10:11

ZookeeperSE · 31/01/2026 10:03

Definitely Selfridges as there is a lot of choice (maybe too much). But with your budget I’d be getting this, and maybe a very lightweight pashima if the church is cold. Not a fan of jackets over dressy dresses

https://www.libertylondon.com/uk/peacock-manor-silk-satin-gala-maxi-dress-000798996.html

Lots if other colour ways for the Gala dress btw if you’re not a fan of green

Edited

That's beautiful

peacefulpeach · 31/01/2026 10:13

BoxedOff · 31/01/2026 08:23

I don’t think they will have appts left first thing on a Sat but I might call and ask.

what do people think of this for a wedding that wants colourful: www.meandem.com/fit-and-flare-ornate-paisley-print-maxi-dress-orange-multi

I love it. Effortless and stylish. Perfect for the occasion. Def no black jacket. Maybe a light scarf / pashmina if the church is chilly (today looks warmer than the last few days!).

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 31/01/2026 10:14

Some lovely dresses on here but the green Liberty one wins imo. With gold ballet shoes not the brogues.

Mildorado · 31/01/2026 10:16

The Liberty dress is beautiful, very striking but not over the top. Plus, it's silk satin rather than a synthetic fabric, which is so often the case.
I would go to Liberty, definitely.

JustWhatIAlwaysWanted · 31/01/2026 10:23

FlatWhiteExtraHot · 31/01/2026 10:15

This from Ghost is gorgeous and you wouldn’t need a jacket.

Love this one too, beautiful colour and what a bargain!

FormerlySpeckledyHen · 31/01/2026 10:36

Good luck @BoxedOff
Please come back another time to show us what you bought, and where you got it.

DaisyBD · 31/01/2026 10:57

the quality of ghost is shit these days, everything is viscose and looks like rags on. it’s a shame because it used to be great and you can sometimes get old (25+ years) pieces on vinted. i’d go to liberty, the peacock silk dress is the best suggestion by far

nzeire · 31/01/2026 11:08

I cannot for the life of me see how on earth ghost has survived.

PhaedraWas · 31/01/2026 11:17

TheCurious0range · 31/01/2026 10:11

That's beautiful

I suggested Liberty too. They always have a great selection of interesting dresses.

I love this version of that dress.

Liberty Ezra Venus Silk Gala Dress | Liberty

Destined for cocktail hour, weddings and beyond, our signature Gala Dress is the most gorgeous way to celebrate a special occasion. Cut from lustrous silk sa

https://www.libertylondon.com/uk/ezra-venus-silk-gala-dress-000854243.html#

TheCurious0range · 31/01/2026 11:20

PhaedraWas · 31/01/2026 11:17

I suggested Liberty too. They always have a great selection of interesting dresses.

I love this version of that dress.

I saw that one too, it's lovely. I also like the Hera print

I need to shop for a wedding outfit this morning to wear this afternoon? Where to go? What style to aim for???
Mysterymasheen · 31/01/2026 11:37

BoxedOff · 31/01/2026 08:39

I went yesterday after work and they said they couldn’t find it and to come back today. I will but I can’t rely on that at this stage. I think they clean onsite and they aren’t huge so I’m worried they have given it to the wrong person or something.

Can you not buy the same dress the dry cleaner lost?

FlatWhiteExtraHot · 31/01/2026 11:42

DaisyBD · 31/01/2026 10:57

the quality of ghost is shit these days, everything is viscose and looks like rags on. it’s a shame because it used to be great and you can sometimes get old (25+ years) pieces on vinted. i’d go to liberty, the peacock silk dress is the best suggestion by far

Oh really? I’d never be able to afford Ghost anyway but I always thought they were lovely designs.

TestingTestingWonTooFree · 31/01/2026 11:44

I wouldn’t rebuy the same dress. If the original turns up next week it’d be annoying to have two. Good luck OP!

Itsmetheflamingo · 31/01/2026 13:04

Westfacing · 31/01/2026 08:30

What about RIXO - the staff at the King's Road branch are very friendly and helpful!

Kaila Silk-Midi Dress in Layla Mix Navy | RIXO ⋆

Adore!!

Crofthead · 31/01/2026 15:31

DollydaydreamTheThird · 31/01/2026 09:01

I used to work in a dry cleaners years ago. It definitely happens. The items get stuck together and handed to the wrong person. Sometimes they return them other times they don't.

That’s really bad as they should be returned on hangers so surely you would see you’ve got two items ?

JustWhatIAlwaysWanted · 31/01/2026 16:07

Hope you got sorted and are enjoying the do now @BoxedOff . Come back after if you can and tell us what you went for!

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 31/01/2026 19:30

Kitten heels or wedge type are good for people who can’t wear heels. Very comfy.

BinNightTonight · 31/01/2026 21:20

Very interested to see what you wore in the end!

Facemasksandelves · 31/01/2026 22:05

BoxedOff · 31/01/2026 08:18

the dry cleaner LOST the dress I was going to wear so please HELP

i can go to a large shopping centre like Westfield or I can go to the centre of London as the wedding is there so I have a wide choice of shops. I want to choose a dress this morning online, call the shop to check it’s in stock, then go. Help me find a good dress.

I want a really smart, eye catching, well made and eye catching outfit. I want colourful as that’s the instruction for the wedding.

I am 50 years old. 5’11’’. Size 10. Quite small bust (c cup but they look smaller for some reason). I have hair that used to be brown and is now lots of caramel highlights to hide the grey.

because of my height and age I won’t wear heels.

budget is generous. I could spend up to £500 on dress, acccessories etc but I would prefer much less.

i am giving a reading in the church so I need to look great and my face is not by best asset so I need the outfit to do the looking great. Any ideas?

@BoxedOff What did you end up wearing?? Hope you and the couple had a great celebration of love

LucyLoo1972 · 01/02/2026 03:20

BoxedOff · 31/01/2026 08:18

the dry cleaner LOST the dress I was going to wear so please HELP

i can go to a large shopping centre like Westfield or I can go to the centre of London as the wedding is there so I have a wide choice of shops. I want to choose a dress this morning online, call the shop to check it’s in stock, then go. Help me find a good dress.

I want a really smart, eye catching, well made and eye catching outfit. I want colourful as that’s the instruction for the wedding.

I am 50 years old. 5’11’’. Size 10. Quite small bust (c cup but they look smaller for some reason). I have hair that used to be brown and is now lots of caramel highlights to hide the grey.

because of my height and age I won’t wear heels.

budget is generous. I could spend up to £500 on dress, acccessories etc but I would prefer much less.

i am giving a reading in the church so I need to look great and my face is not by best asset so I need the outfit to do the looking great. Any ideas?

im sure your face is lovely!

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