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Could I wear this outfit to a Christmas Eve wedding?

216 replies

CathyBlowsBubbles · 22/11/2025 15:37

Could I wear this to a late afternoon Christmas Eve wedding? Friends are getting married this year and I’ve left it very late to get an outfit. I want to look glam casual as that’s the stated vibe. DH going black tie. Plan would be matching shoes and an ivory coloured calf length faux fur coat that I already own. Concerns are that it looks inappropriate for a wedding or that it’s too light or close to bridal colours. Opinions please.

Could I wear this outfit to a Christmas Eve wedding?
Could I wear this outfit to a Christmas Eve wedding?
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HelpMySocksAreTouchingMe · 25/11/2025 17:16

It’s lovely but not appropriate for a wedding.

BatshitOutofHell · 25/11/2025 17:22

CathyBlowsBubbles · 25/11/2025 17:06

🤣 Not a wind up, no. There’s 5 of them dressing the same. However, since I first mentioned this thread to DH, he’s now considering dropping the black tie suit and just wearing a nice suit, black shirt, no tie but still with trainers. I think he’s taking inspiration from DD’s prom this summer where virtually all the lads wore smart trainers with suits. Plus, he’s trying to match both the ‘glam’ and the ‘casual’ bit of the dress code. 😆 Maybe he’s having a midlife crisis! 😉

Sounds good to me. I like the idea of trainers with a smart suit. I might be old but I can appreciate a trend.

BunnyLake · 25/11/2025 17:27

CathyBlowsBubbles · 25/11/2025 17:06

🤣 Not a wind up, no. There’s 5 of them dressing the same. However, since I first mentioned this thread to DH, he’s now considering dropping the black tie suit and just wearing a nice suit, black shirt, no tie but still with trainers. I think he’s taking inspiration from DD’s prom this summer where virtually all the lads wore smart trainers with suits. Plus, he’s trying to match both the ‘glam’ and the ‘casual’ bit of the dress code. 😆 Maybe he’s having a midlife crisis! 😉

My son (early 20s) wears trainers with suits. Maybe it is a thing.

FastTurtle · 25/11/2025 17:29

BunnyLake · 25/11/2025 17:27

My son (early 20s) wears trainers with suits. Maybe it is a thing.

I love it, especially on Eminem, it’s such a cool look.

BunnyLake · 25/11/2025 17:37

FastTurtle · 25/11/2025 17:29

I love it, especially on Eminem, it’s such a cool look.

My son certainly seems to be able to carry it off.

TwoMintsLoose · 25/11/2025 18:08

Absolutely not. Obviously. I’ve been to low-key weddings where the bride has worn something similar.
You do not wear something that can pass as a wedding dress to a wedding. I don’t get how this is even a question. Guessing you quite like drama!

CathyBlowsBubbles · 25/11/2025 18:20

TwoMintsLoose · 25/11/2025 18:08

Absolutely not. Obviously. I’ve been to low-key weddings where the bride has worn something similar.
You do not wear something that can pass as a wedding dress to a wedding. I don’t get how this is even a question. Guessing you quite like drama!

🙄 Guessing you haven’t read the thread!

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CathyBlowsBubbles · 25/11/2025 18:21

Glad to read all the love for a suit and trainer combo! DH will be very pleased!

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Opinionsarelikearseholes · 25/11/2025 22:40

Ask the bride to be directly. You already know it's white and that's usually a no no. She may not care though, so just ask her. Edited to add - Not clicking all those links, maybe upload screenshots of photos instead.

MissDoubleU · 26/11/2025 17:22

Literally any other colour. White and off white, “light champagne” or “hint of blush pink but really in the photos, will look white” is just bad form.

It’s just not the bride. Most people would judge someone showing up in a majority white or near-white gown to anyone’s wedding. It’s just not what you do.

therole · 26/11/2025 20:35

no unless you want to compete with the bride….

therole · 26/11/2025 20:39

CathyBlowsBubbles · 23/11/2025 10:02

Just to confirm again: I’ve gone for the red!

😂 ok got the update!

Downunderduchess · 27/11/2025 03:04

I’ll never understand why someone would think to pick a very pale bridal colour for their wedding guest outfit and then have to ask if it’s appropriate. There are so many different colours to choose from. It’s fairly easy to steer clear of the wrong ones.

The outfit is actually very nice and would look great in another colour.

Fedupmumofadultsons · 23/12/2025 20:27

It's pretty but come on you know it's a no no light outfit jacket and shoes .you can't just because you didn't look for something else in time .you will upset the bride if not her her mother at least

Bigearringsbigsmile · 23/12/2025 20:28

Fedupmumofadultsons · 23/12/2025 20:27

It's pretty but come on you know it's a no no light outfit jacket and shoes .you can't just because you didn't look for something else in time .you will upset the bride if not her her mother at least

Read the full thread!

ReturnToRiding · 23/12/2025 20:36

Only if you’re the bride

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