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Plus size tops I’m going to cry!

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Wallawallakoala · 28/05/2025 21:32

Please help!

I’m 38, size 16/18 and a short arse. But I’m in desperate need of tops for the summer.

i hate my arms so living in vest and shirt combos at the moment and it’s driving me mad.

looking online I am really struggling to find anything that’s either not frumpy or not a crop top?!

please help!!!

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MyNamedoesntWork · 28/05/2025 21:35

Look at Kit and Kaboodle and Laundry B websites

Wallawallakoala · 28/05/2025 21:38

Thank you! I’ve had a look and they would be gorgeous if I was taller but I think it would look like I rolled in a potato sack if I went for that style. Love them but they wouldn’t love me!

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MyNamedoesntWork · 28/05/2025 21:41

Wallawallakoala · 28/05/2025 21:38

Thank you! I’ve had a look and they would be gorgeous if I was taller but I think it would look like I rolled in a potato sack if I went for that style. Love them but they wouldn’t love me!

I’ve bought a lot from there and I’m 5ft 2!
just lost almost 4 stone so their not the brands for me so I’ve put some on Vinted.

Doggymummar · 28/05/2025 21:44

Whats your budget? I got a load of t shirts from from next. I wear them with spanx arm tights as I don't like my arms. Much cooler than sweating in a shirt

Matilda1981 · 28/05/2025 21:45

I have issues with summer tops too - I tend to live in maxi dresses or knee length fit and flare dresses as they are comfortable and flattering!!

Wallawallakoala · 28/05/2025 21:47

Budget not too important if I can find the right thing! What sort if fit do you get from next @Doggymummar and thank you for introducing me to arm Spanx!

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NorthernGirlie · 28/05/2025 21:47

I live in dresses as I hate my tummy in trousers. I'm losing some chub and am weirdly looking at kimono style shirts to wear with vests and trousers if I can find some I like!

Wallawallakoala · 28/05/2025 21:48

@Matilda1981 where do you get your mail I dresses from please?

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MarySueSaidBoo · 28/05/2025 21:48

I like the tunics from White Stuff, but think they work better with leggings/jeans rather than looser type trousers. I've had a few things from Kit and Kaboodal but find them very shapeless/unflattering as they're one size fits all.

Wallawallakoala · 28/05/2025 21:49

@MyNamedoesntWork love the idea of linen tops they are lovely I might get one to try!

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Wallawallakoala · 28/05/2025 21:50

@NorthernGirlie i love the idea of a kimono shirt, have you got any links? I’ve got some good jeans which are light and fit well but want something to cover my c section (x2) tum

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Wallawallakoala · 28/05/2025 21:52

I was wondering how the size was on kit and kaboodal, izabel and apricot do similar and they just don’t seem to do anything for me. I just want something I look half ok in and get me out of this bloody shirt and vest thing I have going on.

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Allseeingallknowing · 28/05/2025 21:52

Got some nice tops from Debenhams, Yours and Wallis

Wallawallakoala · 28/05/2025 21:53

Love that mint one @MyNamedoesntWork

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Matilda1981 · 28/05/2025 21:54

Wallawallakoala · 28/05/2025 21:48

@Matilda1981 where do you get your mail I dresses from please?

I’ve got 3 from Amazon (I think of you Google this is should work ‘OUGES Women's Summer Spring Maxi Dress V Neck’ they do long sleeve, short sleeve and no sleeve on a few designs!!

MyNamedoesntWork · 28/05/2025 21:56

Wallawallakoala · 28/05/2025 21:53

Love that mint one @MyNamedoesntWork

Loads of colours available.
I used to team floaty, linen tops with skinnier jeans or trousers to avoid the ship in full sail vibe!

Wallawallakoala · 28/05/2025 21:58

@Matilda1981 erm so they are gorgeous and a bargain! In my basket now!

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NorthernGirlie · 28/05/2025 21:58

@Matilda1981 these? I have a few too!

NorthernGirlie · 28/05/2025 21:59

https://amzn.eu/d/9jARxkg

MyNamedoesntWork · 28/05/2025 21:59

This on Amazon:
https://amzn.eu/d/go95Jw4

Crikeyalmighty · 28/05/2025 22:01

@Matilda1981 yep me too -

Matilda1981 · 28/05/2025 22:02

NorthernGirlie · 28/05/2025 21:59

i have the maxi dress versions - these ones are slightly too long for me and below the knee dresses make my lower legs look like tree trunks - they just fall at completely the wrong length!!!