OP there have been a few posters in the last year or two who have posted about their face/ neck lifts - you could look for threads by CollagenQueen and WagsandClaws, or maybe send them a private message to ask about their experiences.
I'm pretty sure that WagsandClaws went to Bella Vous clinic in Tunbridge Wells to get hers done - I've looked at their website and their before and afters look pretty good, I think they charge about £30k (also offer it under local anaesthetic which sounds terrifying!)
I have also looked up Raj Grover, but as he works with celebrities (has done Kay Burleys facelift) and operates out of a very fancy hospital in London I'd say his prices are ridiculous. But his results look great.
As bad as some of the costs sound, I look at it as a good investment - don't cheap out on your face, you have to look at the results everyday.
The reason I'm keeping an eye on things is I plan to get one in the next 5 - 10 years, (I'm 40 now, and my face is holding up ok so far, but jowls run in my family so I'm planning ahead), I would prefer a more subtle look earlier, rather than waiting till I'm in my 60's for a drastic change, so doing lots of research.