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Is this dress too white for a wedding guest?

164 replies

NewbieSM · 24/10/2023 07:25

Hello all, I'm attending a good friend's wedding in couple of months and have purchased this dress as an option for the big day. For context the wedding is in Australia at a beach location so not super formal in dress code and a lot of the other guests will be wearing similar styles, so please no comments about it being too risqué for a wedding. Aussie weddings tend to be less traditional than British ones and slip dresses are commonly worn. My concern is that there is a lot of white on this dress so not sure if appropriate and I do not want to offend the bride. I would ask her but I'm friends with her fiancé and don't know her very well.

www.johansenofficial.com/collections/dresses/products/lilou-dress-hibiscus-print-blue?variant=44110010155230

OP posts:
Janieforever · 27/10/2023 21:00

scottishGirl · 27/10/2023 20:00

I wore this to a wedding. Similar in that it's white with floral design. I didn't feel I got any looks from other wedding guests to suggest it was too white. I think as long as there is a colourful pattern on the dress and it's not only white then it's fine.

To be fair that looks a very minimal cream background on my screen, and not remotely white.

scottishGirl · 27/10/2023 21:14

Janieforever · 27/10/2023 21:00

To be fair that looks a very minimal cream background on my screen, and not remotely white.

Fair enough. I shouldn't of said it was white as I agree now looking again it isn't. Wedding was years ago. I just know I was paranoid at the time and asked friends for advice, who said it was fine. So even though it is cream, I still felt paranoid because it's a lighter colour/could maybe look more white in certain lights at first glance, and knew that some people have very firm opinions on wearing any white. Which I guess has proven to be true in this thread!

Anyway, my opinion is first dress OP posted is fine.

ScartlettSole · 27/10/2023 22:08

It looks lovely!

All this can't wear this / cant wear that is nonsense. My wedding dress was pal blue, i didnt ban the wearing of pale blue because i am not an arse. Clearly it is not a wedding dress.

As for the neckline comments, please! Clearly jealous of a good set 😅

EC22 · 28/10/2023 14:52

It’s clearly not a wedding dress. I think it’s fine, if add blue accessories, hat or Fascinator.

BountySunshine · 28/10/2023 15:25

I only read the first sentence before I opened the link and all I could think was “she’s going to catch her death wearing that for a wedding in the next few months”…

Then read the rest of the paragraph. OP looks lovely and very suitable for a beach wedding in Australia. One of my parents siblings emigrated to Australia. I’ve been to 3 beach weddings of cousins now and this would have been a very suitable dress (unlike the 2 piece dress suit and hat one of my Aunt’s insisted on wearing).

Cappuccinfortwo · 28/10/2023 19:53

Are we all looking at the same dress?? It doesn't look remotely like a wedding dress. It's fine.

Cappuccinfortwo · 28/10/2023 19:56

Someone actually wore a long white dress to my wedding...and then got photographs of her and her boyfriend taken coming out of the church. Was very weird. 😂

FormerlySpeckledyHen · 28/10/2023 20:49

No too white, but personally I think the size of the print would be wrong for your petite figure. The second dress would probably be better in my opinion.

Onethingatatime23 · 28/10/2023 20:51

Lovely dress and sounds great for the occasion you describe.

Jk987 · 29/10/2023 07:22

It's got massive blue flowers on it, there's no way it's remotely bridal!

avemariiiaa · 29/10/2023 07:27

It's not remotely bridal. It has lots of blue. It's fine.

Navy bag, shoes and hat/fascinator will bring it together and absolutely nobody with half a brain cell would even give it any thought.

Dragonsandcats · 29/10/2023 08:30

Paltrypam · 24/10/2023 11:44

I think it's disrespectful to wear all white or cream to a wedding. It's nothing to do with competition or guests not knowing who the bride is (wtf?), it's about etiquette and manners.

@Possimpible

i will take a punt that you’re closer to 100 than 0

and if you have a DIL or DD - you aren’t close

what a nasty comment

Stupidliefromfriend · 29/10/2023 09:21

For the love of god people - 7 pages in and nobody has posted a link to the Joanie dresses?!

CharlotteStreetW1 · 29/10/2023 09:39

Stupidliefromfriend · 29/10/2023 09:21

For the love of god people - 7 pages in and nobody has posted a link to the Joanie dresses?!

😂

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