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It’s another sandals one

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SimonsCow · 22/05/2023 13:05

Trying to search for some chunky sandals that fit in with current trends but also don’t make me look like I’m trying to be young (only in my 40s but work with young people so I don’t want anything too like the DM flatforms that are super trendy). What do you think of these? in black

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Blowfish-Malibu-Womens-Sandal-Cashew/dp/B0BMSRHW4R/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3CPF9Z796OXY2&keywords=malibu%2Blapaz&qid=1684756836&sprefix=%2Caps%2C184&sr=8-1&th=1&psc=1&tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-style-and-beauty-4811470-its-another-sandals-one

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BBNoM · 22/05/2023 13:09

You can wear the DM sandals in your 40s without seeming like a try hard imo.

Those sandals are nice though, but I wouldn't go for them at that price being non-leather. Always go for leather. It's worth the extra.

JaneJeffer · 22/05/2023 13:19

Those ones are more wedges than chunky

JaneJeffer · 22/05/2023 13:21

The Gabor ones that came up on your link are more current looking

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SimonsCow · 22/05/2023 13:50

Thanks for the responses!

Nothing Gabor is coming up on the link for me. There was a recent thread about some Gabor sandals and the outcome was not good 😆

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BuffyTheCat · 22/05/2023 13:52

Anyone, of any age, can wear DM flatforms without looking like they’re trying to look young. If you like them, get them!

Personally I’m less keen on the Blowfish sandals you linked, and I agree with the PP who said always go for leather.

GoldDuster · 22/05/2023 14:05

From one middle aged woman to another, step away from the Blowfish wedges.

These aren't too clunky or too middle aged

neither are these

and you can absolutely wear the flatform DMs if you want without looking try hard.

BBNoM · 22/05/2023 14:07

Both of those sandals are lovely @GoldDuster, go with them OP! You should get a few years out of them.

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SimonsCow · 22/05/2023 14:23

GoldDuster · 22/05/2023 14:05

From one middle aged woman to another, step away from the Blowfish wedges.

These aren't too clunky or too middle aged

neither are these

and you can absolutely wear the flatform DMs if you want without looking try hard.

I like the second ones. Thank you! I do also like the first but aren’t they gladiator style isn’t that over?! I’m so terrible at knowing these things!

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Em308 · 22/05/2023 16:13

https://www.freemans.com/products/gabor-suede-wedge-sandals/_/A-76440612_9?utm_source=GoogleProductList&utm_medium=PLA&utm_campaign=Womens_Footwear_Sandals&utm_content=76440612&ns_campaign=Womens_Footwear_Sandals&ns_mchannel=PLA&ns_source=GoogleProductList&ns_linkname=76440612&ns_fee=0&utm_medium=cpc&gad=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIwans5pqJ_wIVEAOtBh27WgdZEAQYAiABEgKiNPD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

I got these recently, they’re so comfy and do them in black.

Gabor Suede Wedge Sandals | Freemans

Casual wedge sandals in soft suede with stylish buckle detail and an adjustable Velcro strap fastening.Brand: GaborUpper: SuedeLining: LeatherInsole: TextilePlease make sure that you try your footwear on before returning, as the box or label may state...

anon1968 · 22/05/2023 18:00

You can absolutely wear the dm’s, equally i like the ones posted. New look do nice sandals as do shein.

Soccermumamir · 22/05/2023 18:11

Wear what you want! Age should not be a barrier. I love DMs and I'm 39 👍

Fedupwitheveryone · 22/05/2023 19:35

https://www.schuh.co.uk/womens/schuh-tanya-chunky-flatform-black-sandals/1737247060/?store=&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI7sWQsciJ_wIVm-7tCh1ysAGeEAQYAyABEgLq_PD_BwE

https://www.clarks.co.uk/c/Orianna-Over/p/26171506?cm_mmc=PPC_SHOP_SMART_GOOGLE--G_UK_PS_dA_SHOP_SMART_Womens_Sandals--Smart+-+Womens+Sandals-_-PLA&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI7sWQsciJ_wIVm-7tCh1ysAGeEAQYASABEgLKyPD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

https://www.marksandspencer.com/leather-ankle-strap-flat-sandals/p/clp60584749?extid=ps_ps-pla-pmax_ggl_ww_ch__-UK-_-_bau&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI7sWQsciJ_wIVm-7tCh1ysAGeEAQYBCABEgLXg_D_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

Orianna Over Black Leather Clarks® Shoes Official Site | Clarks

Your go-to style for summer ensembles, statement sandal Orianna Over boasts an on-trend chunky sole that pairs perfectly with fluttery dresses. With a moulded footbed and adjustable buckle detail, it combines high-impact design with all-day comfort to...

https://www.clarks.co.uk/c/Orianna-Over/p/26171506?cm_mmc=PPC_SHOP_SMART_GOOGLE-_-G_UK_PS_dA_SHOP_SMART_Womens_Sandals-_-Smart+-+Womens+Sandals-_-PLA&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI7sWQsciJ_wIVm-7tCh1ysAGeEAQYASABEgLKyPD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

LaCerbiatta · 22/05/2023 20:19

I just got these. Very nice and light. Just mabe not great for narrow feet.

https://www.modainpelle.com/sandals-c29/flat-sandals-c50/sh-shipahoy-black-leather-p11649

Sh Shipahoy Black Leather

Show up in style in Shipahoy, our stunning fisherman sandal from the Shoon collection. Complete with a full leather lining and footbed for a comfortable wear, the lightweight sole adds to the experience - ensuring they feel as good as they look. Perfec...

https://www.modainpelle.com/sandals-c29/flat-sandals-c50/sh-shipahoy-black-leather-p11649

LaCerbiatta · 22/05/2023 20:22

Also have these, really nice on and good quality but a bit narrow.

https://www.stories.com/en_gbp/shoes/flat-sandals/product.chunky-leather-gladiator-sandals-white.0726541006.html

Findyourneutralspace · 22/05/2023 20:24

DMs are age appropriate. Youngsters are just discovering them, us oldies are reliving our youth!

I say get the ones you like.

VonThorn · 22/05/2023 20:38

My view is that a fairly basic brown chunky sandal - indeed any sandal - is suitable for anyone who wants to wear them.

TheOGCCL · 22/05/2023 20:44

I don’t like those, there are definitely better options available.

Punkkitty · 22/05/2023 21:41

Aged 42 and merrily wear (not all at the same time) my DM sandals, 3 pairs of DM boots and DM Mary Janes to my office full of 20 somethings... F*cks given zero!

JaneJeffer · 22/05/2023 21:52

not all at the same time

GetDownkeith · 22/05/2023 22:05

I'm 44 and spent the winter in my fur lined dm Chelsea boots and am spending the summer in my new and lovely dm sandals. 20 year old dd says they are fugly but 13 year old ds2 things I look fabulous.

Rina66 · 23/05/2023 05:51

I have the Dune Locations, they are so comfortable and go with everything...., 20% off at the moment too

www.dunelondon.com/location-padded-flatform-sandals-black-0079511060001484.html

PaltnSepper · 23/05/2023 08:20

I like those red ones, though not sure about the layers in the sole; feels like they might squash and then be hard to walk in. But I like the suede straps and sole for comfort. I bought some Moshulu ones recently recommended on the last sandal thread a few days ago, but already find the soles of my feet sore from the cork footbed and my toes rubbed from straps touching them.

Oneborneverydecade · 23/05/2023 09:32

I'm 45 and wearing these rn

I don't think shoes can be too try hard can they? My super critical 16yo DS would tell me I'm dressing like a teen (thanks cropped Monki puffa) but even he encourages trendy trainers

www.clarks.co.uk/c/Orianna-Over/p/26171506?cm_mmc=PPC_SHOP_SMART_GOOGLE--G_UK_PS_dA_SHOP_SMART_Womens_Sandals--Smart+-+Womens+Sandals-_-PLA&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI7sWQsciJ_wIVm-7tCh1ysAGeEAQYASABEgLKyPD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

Siriusmuggle · 23/05/2023 10:13

I’m 48 and I’ve got the DM ones.

SneezyEvie · 23/05/2023 10:41

Age shouldn’t make you frumpy! Deffo get the DMs, or you can get some nineties style flatform sliders?

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