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'Edgy' older women...

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ProstituteHair · 04/05/2023 22:06

Gah!

I know I'm about to start a thread I've started before but there have been a few comments in S&B this week about 'desperate' older women trying to look fashionable and 'I wouldn't listen to 60 year-olds', both comments to OPs who were favouring a fairly safe style of dress in their 30s and trying to shake it up a but feeling a little moribund.

There's absolutely fuck-all wrong with a safe and classic style in it pulls your chain. Really, I have no beef there. It can look incredible.

However, who's to say that the 30-year-old advisees know more about fasion than the 60 year-olds they were belittling. Some 60 year old have worked in the fashion industry for decades. Some 30 year olds have no care about fashion beyond looking respectable.

And that's ok.

But it's not age-based, and there's an absolute joy with older women and fashion, it can be much more unconstrained. It's certainly not desperate for older women to be edgy or fashionable, I'd argue that the truly edgy dressers are older women (or men).

And the young too.

There's space for both, I'm not sure why it has to be stratified along age lines.

People either love clothes and want to look incredible or they like clothes and want to look respectable, (or they think it's all complete bolloocks and just want to cover themselves appropriately for the weather, and that's ok too!!).

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Fadedstripes · 11/05/2023 08:03

I was 51 and out and about and a young woman complimented me on my silver streaks and dress when in the loo of a bar. That was one of the most made me feel great compliments I have ever had.

Yesterday I wore ex army combats yesterday with a batwing purple top and some pewter coloured trainers that are a bit dressy, I love them they have little zips on the side.

My favourite things are a Japanese dress that has batshit looking cats printed along the hem. Camo trousers, a Chinese silk jacket I bought in London many years ago. A deep maroon jumper that has a long pocket running along the front with a zip, men’s shirts, cheesecloth tops and dresses, a formal tweed jacket, my grandmothers silk stole from the 1930’s, I have quite a few hats.

I am in slight despair of my clothes currently though as all getting a bit knackered and I don’t find things I like very often.

Craftycorvid · 11/05/2023 20:33

@Fadedstripes your style sounds wonderful!

Fadedstripes · 15/05/2023 00:16

@Craftycorvid thanks, I went to a wedding yesterday I was the only person that wore a hat sadly.

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