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Wedding guest dress - is this too informal?

150 replies

WomanStanleyWoman2 · 24/04/2023 17:12

I’m guessing a few of these will be coming up over the next few weeks!

I’m going to a cousin’s wedding at a country hotel this summer. There’s no dress code, but I don’t want to look too casual. I really like this dress - and while I’d typically go for more reddish/purple colours, I actually really like the green. I feel I could wear it again too.

I’m 5ft 11, big 12 to small 14 with dark colour hair and green eyes. I think the colours and pattern would suit me, but it’s a bit floatier than I’d usually choose, so I was wondering if something more “structured” might be better (more formal looking)? Views welcome:

https://www.johnlewis.com/urban-touch-floral-print-dipped-hem-midi-dress/green-multi/p109686643?size=10&s_ppc=2dx92700076125526695_mixed_fashion_BAU&tmad=c&tmcampid=2&gclid=CjwKCAjwrpOiBhBVEiwA_473dK_xcYhZCFzV7OYNYpa8-aG8klEvNMF3rx_98g6m4PPlq021nR9bwRoC9xEQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

OP posts:
Aquamarine1029 · 24/04/2023 21:57

Op, I hope you come back and model it for us once you get the dress.

SallyWD · 24/04/2023 22:08

Beautiful!

bpirockin · 25/04/2023 00:16

It's both gorgeous and wedding perfect IMO.

JennyJenny8675309 · 25/04/2023 00:30

I’d love to be tall enough to wear a dress like that. It will look lovely on you!

Mamanyt · 25/04/2023 01:36

I think it is lovely. And for a summer wedding at a country home, utterly appropriate. And yes, I'm sure you will be able to wear it again! ENJOY!

AGovernmentOfLawsAndNotMen · 25/04/2023 02:11

Really like it OP

Findyourneutralspace · 25/04/2023 02:14

That’s beautiful and sounds perfect for your colouring. I think structured dresses for weddings aren’t really the fashion at the moment, so don’t worry about it seeming informal. It’s perfect!

FairGoMatron · 25/04/2023 02:31

HalfasleepChrisintheMorning · 24/04/2023 21:05

Rather than a vest, sewing one press stud in at the cross over can help.

Now why have I never thought of that solution before?
<makes mental note>

FairGoMatron · 25/04/2023 02:43

If it's any help to anyone, here's a video clip of it being modelled.
(Different colourway, but same dress)

It's so fluid and romantic!
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/g-ib2hgyqIo

Morestrangerthings · 25/04/2023 02:58

Even more expensive dresses are often made of polyester these days. It's madness. I've noticed this because I live in a hot climate and polyester doesn't breath, so I always check to see the material something is made of. You are in the U.K. so polyester should be okay, imo. I think the dress looks perfect for a wedding.

h3ll0o · 25/04/2023 06:30

That's gorgeous! I’m going to order it try it on in blue as I also have a wedding to attend.

Arniesleftleg · 25/04/2023 07:51

Absolutely beautiful, you're going to look stunning, go for it xx

LutherRalph1 · 25/04/2023 07:53

I wore this in the rose pink a few weeks ago to a wedding. Lovely and flattering and comfortable but yes very low!

AlwaysTheGoodGirl · 25/04/2023 09:23

Beautiful! In fact I am going to order one for the wedding I'm going to. Thank you so much for making this much easier for me as I had no idea what I was going to look for 😃

AlwaysTheGoodGirl · 25/04/2023 09:34

I've just ordered it on Yumi with a 30% discount code - SUMMER30.

Go go go!!!

WomanStanleyWoman2 · 25/04/2023 09:35

Thank you all so much - especially for the discount code! I’ve ordered in a 12 and a 14 just in case. Wish me luck…

OP posts:
RaininginDarling · 25/04/2023 09:41

Usually, these threads go something like this:

I'm going to the wedding of my son/best friend/cat and I really like this outfit but is it okay for a formal wedding?

This is usually followed by a picture of a wedding dress/bridesmaid adjacent/casual beach cover item🙄

Your chosen dress however is gorgeous. And I hope you don't really need us randoms to tell you that 😄

meatyryvita · 25/04/2023 09:59

I bought that dress for a wedding and it was GORGEOUS on! The weather was just a bit too cool for me to wear it and be comfortable and so I returned it. Had it been warmer, I would have happily worn it - very flattering.

JusthereforXmas · 25/04/2023 10:07

I wouldn't have minded it at my wedding... but if anything it would have been a bit too dressy.

Matchymatchylemonscratchy · 25/04/2023 10:40

It’s lovely but very low cut. I’d need tape and a safety pin or button sewed in to not feel self conscious.

AlwaysTheGoodGirl · 25/04/2023 10:42

I have no boobs, so I reckon I will need a modesty vest, or a pair of joke shop fakes 😅

VickyEadieofThigh · 25/04/2023 14:47

Lovely! Perfect, I think, for a wedding.

mathanxiety · 25/04/2023 15:10

What a lovely dress! Perfect for the occasion you describe.

The blue is lovely too.

shivawn · 25/04/2023 15:12

Ideal for a wedding. Have a great time!

Stettafire · 25/04/2023 17:10

If I was the bride I'd be totally ok with you wearing that. If in doubt ask the couple, since truthfully it's their big day :)