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Wedding guest dress - is this too informal?

150 replies

WomanStanleyWoman2 · 24/04/2023 17:12

I’m guessing a few of these will be coming up over the next few weeks!

I’m going to a cousin’s wedding at a country hotel this summer. There’s no dress code, but I don’t want to look too casual. I really like this dress - and while I’d typically go for more reddish/purple colours, I actually really like the green. I feel I could wear it again too.

I’m 5ft 11, big 12 to small 14 with dark colour hair and green eyes. I think the colours and pattern would suit me, but it’s a bit floatier than I’d usually choose, so I was wondering if something more “structured” might be better (more formal looking)? Views welcome:

https://www.johnlewis.com/urban-touch-floral-print-dipped-hem-midi-dress/green-multi/p109686643?size=10&s_ppc=2dx92700076125526695_mixed_fashion_BAU&tmad=c&tmcampid=2&gclid=CjwKCAjwrpOiBhBVEiwA_473dK_xcYhZCFzV7OYNYpa8-aG8klEvNMF3rx_98g6m4PPlq021nR9bwRoC9xEQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

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Emiliasmummy · 24/04/2023 17:53

It's gorgeous. It's exactly right for a wedding.

Flyinggeesei234 · 24/04/2023 17:54

Hi OP it’s a beautiful shape and colour, but honestly I would avoid polyester as it always (IMO) looks cheap. On that basis I would not wear it, and think that would
make it not special enough for a wedding. Real shame though as if it wasn’t for the fabric it would be gorgeous.

cocobongo1 · 24/04/2023 17:55

Very nice 👌🏻

midsomermurderess · 24/04/2023 17:55

I agree, it would be prefect for a summer wedding, and I bet you’d feel good, as it’s elegant and floaty.

lovemelongtime · 24/04/2023 17:56

Beautiful, wish I was tall enough to wear this.

lunaloveroo · 24/04/2023 17:57

Lovely dress

Rebelmcstreettuff · 24/04/2023 17:58

Absolutely gorgeous and appropriate

Harebrain · 24/04/2023 17:59

Another “yes” to the dress! It’s perfect.

Dixiechickonhols · 24/04/2023 18:00

I really like that and it’s definitely wedding appropriate.

MushMonster · 24/04/2023 18:01

Yes! It is really beautiful, I love it!

Justmuddlingalong · 24/04/2023 18:02

Lovely. I'd be careful with heels though, stilettos will catch the hem at the back.

Orchidflower1 · 24/04/2023 18:03

Love it @WomanStanleyWoman2 if I was a good 6 inches taller and 2/3 stone lighter I’d buy it. With your figure you’ll look amazing!

DisforDarkChocolate · 24/04/2023 18:03

I think it looks lovely. The only thing is the poor reviews.

PollyAmour · 24/04/2023 18:05

Beautiful dress.

MargotEdithAgnes · 24/04/2023 18:06

Love it!

Rubberfrog · 24/04/2023 18:10

I bought it last year. It is lovely, easy to dress up for a wedding. It is polyester so not great for a real scorching day as can get a bit sweaty but got lots of nice comments in it. It doesn't scream polyester. Definitely pleased I bought it.

AConvivialHost · 24/04/2023 18:10

I've bought this dress for a wedding reception, and whilst I have kept it, the neckline is VERY plunging. It's also cheaper on the Yumi site - £58.

WomanStanleyWoman2 · 24/04/2023 18:11

Such lovely comments 🤗 Thank you!

I’m definitely going to order it. I appreciate what a couple of posters have said about the material, but I have enough time to send it back and get something else if it doesn’t look as good in the flesh (or in the fabric).

@Justmuddlingalong I think avoiding heels might be a good idea anyway in an old building at my height 🤭

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Baldieheid · 24/04/2023 18:12

It's lovely and absolutely perfect for a summer wedding.

WomanStanleyWoman2 · 24/04/2023 18:13

AConvivialHost · 24/04/2023 18:10

I've bought this dress for a wedding reception, and whilst I have kept it, the neckline is VERY plunging. It's also cheaper on the Yumi site - £58.

I did think it looked a bit low in one of the pictures… I’ll try it, but might have to invest in what my mother calls a “modesty vest” if I look like my dumplings are boiling over!

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JoeMaplin · 24/04/2023 18:17

It’s lovely but if it’s YumI as the review suggest, it will probably be too short in the body for you making the belt sit wrong. I love YumI style but the dresses are not great if you’re tall (I’m 5 8 and see you’re taller).

inamarina · 24/04/2023 18:19

Agree with the others - it’s a lovely dress and perfect for a wedding!

GP75 · 24/04/2023 18:22

Oh it's gorgeous, I just bought it thank you 🙏 totally wear it 💐

pigsDOfly · 24/04/2023 18:26

It's gorgeous, and being tall you will really be able to carry it off.

PP makes a good point about the heels but it won't look a good in any other sort of shoe.

Oceancreature · 24/04/2023 18:28

lovely dress, just right for a wedding in my opinion