What makes you think someone is poor?
I'd really like to know because I've had so many people assume that I'm poor (and not just in the last few years). Not people that really know me but like shop assistents or nurses and such people. I've had plenty of remarks that something like the ronald mcdonalds house would cost me too much money (was 15 euro a night).
I'm not poor. Far from it. I'm a SAHM in a detached house in a nice village. I style my hair every other day, wear minimal make up, always wear some fine gold jewelry. Granted, I don't wear brand names, but I do wear a proper wool coat, real leather handbag and leather loafers. I prefer buying pieces that are good quality and last than just pay for a brand. I don't have a noticable regional accent. DH makes a lot of money. I used to be poor when younger and apparantly I still look it in some way.
I don't have to look like you should rob me, but I would like the concerned poor remarks go away. So tell me, when you see someone, what makes you think that they're poor?
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What makes you think someone is poor?
Userchange · 26/01/2023 15:02
3WildOnes · 26/01/2023 15:13
The opposite of what you are describing. Poorly fitting clothes in polyester might signify a lack of money. Accents can be a marker of wealth too.
Brands definitely dont make me think lots of money.
I probably dress similarly to you and have never experienced any of what you described so I doubt it is your clothing.
user1465390476 · 26/01/2023 15:17
Everyone has an accent. There is no such thing as a neutral accent.
Icecreamandapplepie · 26/01/2023 15:15
I think trying to get people to list what they think looks poor is in bad taste.
Much nicer to askvwhat makes a person look wealthy, of you're really that bothered about it.
Dontknownow86 · 26/01/2023 15:15
Are your clothes in good condition still and ironed / dry cleaned? You say you style your hair but is it cut / coloured regularly?
I sometimes think lack of well done makeup 'natural look' can make you look not well off too. Shame because I can't be bothered to wear it!
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